Xiao Ling, a good friend, is one of the older women. She is 35 years old and has no expectations for the other half. I think living alone is better than marrying anyone. Anyway, I have the ability and I don't have to rely on anyone. Although this idea is a bit extreme, it has to be said that there is some truth. Xiaoling was left behind, not because she was picky, but because she enjoyed freedom.
When she was young, she didn't like being tied down, so she always played. But when she wanted to settle down in her thirties, there were no good men around her. Even if she was willing to associate with her, it would be those men who got married for the second time, but she didn't want to settle, so she came down alone. Later, Xiaoling understood these truths and decided to go it alone.
After one or thirty years old, there will be no more men chasing you.
Xiaoling actually has good conditions in all aspects. Before the age of 30, there were still some men around her. It's just that she doesn't like emotional bondage, so no one responds. It was over thirty years old that she found that no man was willing to chase her. The man who chased her before was either married or changed his target to chase a woman younger than her. A woman's 30 years old is a hurdle. In the eyes of many men, women over 30 are no longer young.
Second, the concept of "women don't worry about marriage" is wrong.
Many people think that with such a high ratio of men to women in China, women must not worry about getting married. However, this is not the case. Most men don't worry about marriage, because they can accept marrying a poor woman. Anyway, if you can't get married in the city, you can get married in the country. If you can't marry a beautiful woman, marry a woman who is not very beautiful. Really can't. I thought there were other countries. Compared with men, women are less willing to get married. Xiaoling said, if you are not particularly good, you must not believe that women are not worried about marriage.
Third, there is no perfect man in the world.
Many women are looking forward to their other half and hope that their other half is a perfect person. Therefore, every time I meet a man, I always wonder if the next one will be better. Considering this, they may wait like this until they are in their thirties. The men I met are not as good as those who came before. Those excellent men have given up on women in their thirties. So women should not pursue perfection too much. There are no perfect people in the world, only the right people. At the best age, with the best man, that is the most appropriate.
In fact, life has only passed a third, so there is no need to be so decisive. The key to marriage is not material comparison, but whether two hearts collide. Don't think about these rules. When you meet someone who is tempted, go after them bravely. You are no worse than others, aren't you?