1. Especially good at taking care of others.

Before I was with my boyfriend, I got a minor illness when my colleagues went out to play. It was appendicitis and I was hospitalized.

Before I was with him at that time, he started to be busy. When I left the operating room at 4 o'clock in the morning, he stayed at the operating room from 1 o'clock in the middle of the night to 4 o'clock in the morning, until I came out of the operation. After entering the ward, the nurse asked him to go back, and he left.

I had another serious illness later. In May of this year, I got a tumor. This is also the origin of my personalized signature. I was very ill.

He woke up at around five o'clock in the morning. The first thing he did when he woke up was to go to the hospital cafeteria to buy breakfast for me. He also slept on a recliner in the hospital at night. When I had to get up to go to the toilet and drink water, he was there all the time. He took care of me and didn't let my parents worry at all.

2. Bring everything with you before traveling and prepare a strategy in advance.

Both of us love traveling. We don’t have much money, but we save money to travel once a year.

Every time before he goes on a trip, he will bring all the things he should bring, and our suitcases, because I have obsessive-compulsive disorder, will be packed neatly and arranged in categories.

When I finally left, he would always think of the things I didn’t bring. Making travel guides is a hobby of both of us. He and I would make travel guides one week before departure, ranging from small things to small things. Which subway line, big hotel, where to stay, and where to eat.

3. Always look at me with a smile and wait for me to finish speaking before expressing my opinion.

Because I talk a lot sometimes and am a little talkative. I will always chatter next to him or express my opinions on current affairs, but he will never steal the words every time. He won't continue until I finish.

4. His character is so good that all the leaders, colleagues and friends around me recognize him.

He will not slander someone easily, nor speak ill of anyone, nor offend others easily, nor let anyone bully easily.

He has a strong working ability and is willing to help those who need help. When we first met, I felt that he was very kind to everyone, but after getting to know me, he would only be particularly kind to me.

5. Prepare surprises in advance for special holiday birthdays.

Whether it’s Chinese Valentine’s Day or a birthday, surprises will be prepared in advance.

There are flowers and a big meal, which all reflect his sense of ritual in life.

6. He has good cooking skills and is willing to introduce me to all his friends and open his relationship in the circle of friends.

He has good cooking skills. After being with him, I was really happy and gained a lot of weight. I used to be a person who loved fitness, had a relatively well-proportioned figure and a bit of waistcoat line, but now I can’t keep it. , and a little baby fat.

And no matter how tired he is at work, he will always cook for me when he comes back. Not long after we got together, he introduced me to all his friends and made our relationship public on WeChat, which gave me a sense of security. .

7. Funny and humorous, with strong logical thinking ability.

I was just a funny guy at the beginning, he didn’t talk much, but later I found out that this guy is just a bit boring, but after getting along with him for a long time, he is still very funny.

Funny and humorous, we all like to play escape rooms, occasionally play games, and like to use our brains. His logical thinking ability is very strong.

8. After one year together, he gave me two-thirds of his salary.

Because we are going to get married, and I know how to invest and manage money. Based on the principle of trust, he transfers more than half of his salary to me every month, and I use it to invest in funds.

9. Tolerate but not condone.

He is a person with a pretty good temper and is very tolerant, but he will not condone some issues of principle when they arise.

He will criticize me like an old father.

10. Respect each other and improve each other.

This is very important to me. The two of us respect each other very much. No matter what we want to do, we have unconditional support, as long as it is beneficial to progress.

Also, two people will make progress together. We often play games together to relieve stress, make videos together, work together, read books together, and do housework together. In this way, both of us will make progress. , and then the relationship will be enhanced, and we will be more involved in each other's lives. Rather than being a couple, we are more like friends who talk about everything.