First, life is like this, do it and cherish it. You will always be your own protagonist. Don't always play a supporting role in other people's plays.
Second, maturity means that you ignore me and I won't say much. If you satirize me, I will laugh it off. If you love me, I will love you more.
Third, I would rather be a kind person and be honest all my life. Don't be a hypocritical person, calculating all your life. People can sleep comfortably and smile brightly all their lives. Is to win for life.
Fourth, as long as your heart is not chaotic, it is difficult for the outside world to change anything about you. Don't envy others, don't lose yourself.
5. nothing. 12 people who need you to stay up late at night can't get health for anything. Remember, you can only live for a lifetime.