1, Suiyuan is not passively waiting or giving up the pursuit, but looking at things around you with a normal heart. Don't be intimidated by superficial difficulties. If you really do it, you will find that things are not as difficult as you think. The difficult thing is how to break through your heart.
We are all passers-by of time. Life comes empty-handed and returns empty-handed. At the end of your life, everything will become a cloud. So, when you have it, you should cherish it; After losing it, be willing to let it go. After I lost it, I still pursued it, and finally I recovered only endless loneliness and sadness. What you can have, even if it is unbearable, is better than what you will lose. Only those who know how to cherish and are willing to let go can meet better and better people.
3. Say some happy words every day to motivate yourself not to be sad; Do something beneficial to others every day to motivate yourself to integrate into society; Tell something educational every day to motivate yourself to grow wisdom; Think of some respected teachings every day to motivate yourself to accumulate good thoughts. Going with fate is not going with the flow, but cherishing the present; The present is not in other people's pure land, but in my heart. Fools think that happiness lies on the other side, and wise men know how to cultivate happiness in the ordinary.
4. People who can give up past mistakes are smart; People who can give up the correct practices in the past are smarter. He who can give up the failure of the loser is smart; People who can give up the successful practices of successful people are smarter. -thousands of people, thousands of mentality, thousands of mentality, thousands of methods. Only you know what is appropriate.
5. Zen Poetry Day: "I have a pearl that has been dusty for a long time." At present, the dust is boundless, and the water is broken in Qian Shan. "That is to say, each of us has a Buddhist conscience, but we are blinded by fame and fortune; Once the dust of greed and ignorance is removed, the wisdom and bright eyes produced by abstinence, determination and wisdom can see through the world and the mountains and rivers.
6, from the heart to the bodhi, that is, the heart has ten thousand lines, see the heart and other mindfulness, prove the great nirvana of the heart, take advantage of the trend to start the heart, strictly purify the Buddha's heart, from cause to effect, all live in its heart and have nothing to live in.
7. The Zen method of life is to tolerate and understand others, a kind of courage from the heart, to sublimate one's life, to correct one's character, to precipitate one's self-cultivation, to understand the existence of others, to tolerate different differences, to live one's own way of life with a plain and simple mind, to understand all the fatigue and rush about in this world, and to forgive one's heart from the inner nature, and to stay away from suffering and joy.
8. Out of sight. Absent-minded Listen or not. The meaning is not chaotic. No name. Profit is not greedy. Make friends often. Wide affinity. In case of disagreement. Don't argue that peace is precious. Be patient first. Read the bible often. Wisdom exists. Look at yourself at that time. Talk less. Something outside the window. As light as smoke. Be a good person. Give often. Do good deeds. Don't show it. Say something nice. No lies. Be kind. Get rid of evil thoughts Heart conversion. Keep the five commandments. Break the habit. Just know what to look at. Read amitabha to the other side.
9. After learning Buddhism, some people have a deeper understanding of Buddhism, but their attitude towards the people around them is getting colder and colder, which means that they lack love in the process of learning Buddhism. Real Buddhist learners will have compassion for all beings while their knowledge of Buddhism grows. Some people feel more and more disgusted with housework and work at the same time, which means that they lack wisdom in the process of practice. The longer a true yogi practices, the more he can practice in life and live in practice.
10, cry if you don't bleed, turn on the light if you are afraid of the dark, contact if you miss it, empty if you are tired, invite if you are isolated, and feel homesick if you are weak. Don't be blinded by the present, you will grow up eventually, and you will take the darkest road yourself.
1 1, you are ordinary, but you know how to find happiness and grasp it, then you are a person with great wisdom. You can have great wealth and great power, but you only know how to live and don't know how to be happy. What value does that wealth bring you?
12. Please listen carefully when you approach. The trembling leaves are my passion for waiting. And when you finally walk past and fall behind you, my friend, that's not a petal, that's my withered heart.
13. Emotion is an emotional state. A person's perception of various external factors acting on his heart and his experience of emotion are a kind of self-transcendence; Forging mood is a perfect pursuit. A good mood comes from whether a person can keep a calm, peaceful, broad and transparent heart.
14. In the journey of life, the road you walk will become the scenery behind you. Can't look back, can't stay, enjoy the feeling of every moment, enjoy the scenery everywhere. When we want to appreciate the mountains on the left, we must give up the plains on the right; If you want to enjoy the sea on the right, you must give up the stream on the left.
15, my father's teaching is like a lamp, illuminating my future; Dad's care is like an umbrella, sheltering me from the wind and rain. Today, I want to offer my most sincere blessing and say to my father from the bottom of my heart: I will definitely come back! Although there is severity in your eyes, I know there is deep fatherly love in that severity. The expectation among them urges me to forge ahead; The care inside keeps me warm. Thank you, Dad! What you gave me was not money or status, but a vast encyclopedia of life, which was more valuable than anything else and guided me to a better life.
16. Happiness is sometimes like drinking tea. You need to savor this process slowly and carefully, and then when you finish it, it will be more fragrant and stronger. Perhaps, too many people like to enjoy it in one breath, rather than savoring it slowly, and they don't have the patience; Then, they only satisfied the temporary happiness, but never realized the fragrance, rich taste and rich technology of tea.
17, learning to deal with embarrassment is a kind of wisdom and an adaptive ability that a person should have. Can let us get rid of the difficult predicament in an instant and establish our own good image. If a person can't jump out of the embarrassing predicament smoothly, it will not only make him have no place to stand, but also cause psychological shadow.
18, I discovered after you that there is no best way to break up. Face-to-face talking, texting and even vanishing are all the same. Because, whether we meet or not, or because we are unhappy, we just give a saying of leaving. In the end, we all point to the end of love, and there is no difference. And the final result will only be that no matter how sincere his actions are and how touching his reasons are, he can't make love turn back.
19, appreciation is a style and a unique and comfortable feeling style. There are many wonders in the world, including mountains, water, flowers, wind and rain, which are constantly changing. If you know how to appreciate, you will know how to feel; The deeper you feel, the more moist and relaxed you live; A relaxed and moist life is the supreme life. If you know the secret of supreme life, why don't you learn to appreciate it? Appreciation of egoism should be obligatory and firm! Appreciation is a spirit, a spirit of high sentiment, high interest and elegance. Ants have the life of ants, elephants have the mood of elephants, and cranes have the charm of cranes. Know how to appreciate, you will know the true meaning of life; Knowing how to appreciate, you will have an emotional appeal that others don't have; Know how to appreciate and you will have charming charm.
20. In the face of love, pain and happiness are sometimes equal.
2 1, emphasizing morality; Ordinary life: focus on skills; Bad life: focus on skills.
22. No one can really let go of a past, and everyone has the ability to heal. The wound of the soul is like the wound of the skin, there is no specific medicine, and it takes time to recover slowly. But if you torture yourself and the wound is not handled properly, how can you be as good as before? Put yourself down, turn over this heavy page in your growth diary, and read it again in a few years, and it will be completely different.
23. Thinking can make life full of creativity; Hands-on, can make the idea become a reality. Home is a * * * body, which needs us to create and enjoy together. Sometimes the cooperation of housework and a novel idea of life decoration will make family life full of warmth and romance. The imperfection of marriage is the imperfection of life.
24. Books are the windows of the family. Teach parents to surf the Internet and enjoy online life.
It is undeniable that a person who has achieved great success is first of all because he has confidence. Self-confidence is an indispensable quality in the process of human growth. If a person feels inferior and can't see his own strength, he will form a psychological set, which will bring negative effects, be willing to fail and not make progress.
26, good feelings, can win the battle time, can withstand the fleeting time, can withstand parting, can withstand missing.
27. Life will always encounter the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair. When you don't have a hard time with yourself, you will get peace. Life always laughs at us being too young, but youth is not easy to get old.
28. Life is full of friends; Life is calm because of career; Life is proud of achievements; Life is warm because of family; Life is happy because of being loved; Life is full of hope; Life is happy because of health; Life struggles because of poverty; Life is strong because of challenges; Life is enterprising because of courage; Life grows by sharing.
29. Life is like a book. Fools turn it over, saints read it carefully.
30. Failure is the mother of success; Behind failure is success.
3 1, go to the moon, even if you miss the target, you will fall among the stars.
32. Youth is like a running river. Once lost, it's too late to say goodbye.
33. A man with great ability is not frightened or afraid in tone, arrogant or impetuous in character, unassuming in momentum, unpretentious in manners, elegant in silence, calm in movement and free and easy in action. Just like a flower, the fragrance is elegant and long; Like a tree, it has lush foliage and evergreen seasons. They can do their work with peace of mind, do what they are doing seriously, and strive for fame and fortune and money.
34. Why does the same bottle contain poison? Why should the same psychology be full of troubles?
You should stick to the road you choose, there is no need to complain about the hardships on the road.
36. If a person does a simple thing well, it is not simple.
37. Everyone is trying to be an important person and may become a competitor of credit. If you take credit, your credit can be questioned and refuted; If you don't take credit, that credit can't be taken away from you-because that credit has never been mentioned at all, how can you argue and refute it?
38. All truths are just common sense clarified in the long history.
One day you will understand that the real happiness in your heart can never be given to you by the material world.
There are always many disappointments in life, so take it easy. Let go of the pressure and get relaxed; Let go of troubles and get happiness; Let go of inferiority and gain self-confidence; Let go of negativity and make progress; Let go of complaints and get comfortable; Let go of hesitation and be chic; Let go of narrowness and be free. Letting go is a psychological choice; Letting go is a kind of spiritual learning; Letting go is a kind of life wisdom.
4 1, don't be intimidated by huge goals.
42. You don't need a Mercedes-Benz BMW for a car, just a domestic car, and you don't have to walk.
43. I don't expect you to be by my side all the time, but when I need you, you are always absent, and I don't need you anymore.
44. Life can't stand so much waiting, and there are not so many tomorrows in the world.
45. Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. You must learn to let go of happiness, sadness, good, bad, happiness and pain. Letting go is growth, and not letting go is a hurdle; I have cried, laughed and drunk, and I will start over, shrug my shoulders and tell myself, Oh! What's the big deal?
46. The story of meeting is like a meteor. It's just you and me, with our eyes and our bodies.
47. Sometimes, when it rains, it is sunny in my heart; Sometimes, the weather is sunny, but my heart is raining. When the heart is clear, it rains, and when the heart rains, it rains. This is enough to show that people's mentality is very important. Mentality is enough to decide everything.
48. At the moment when the blood is full, listen to the whole body cells shouting and flying.
49. At the extreme cold, the sun came.
50. Youth is not a stage of life, but a realm of life.
5 1, how many people keep changing their signatures in order to make someone feel something.
52. Half of the tiredness of life comes from survival and half from comparison.
53, a person's life is long or short, as long as live high, is the best blessing!
54, family, a shallow smile, suddenly, depressed and relieved; Friendship, faint greetings, confusion and warmth; Love is a deep attachment. When you are frustrated, your heart is not alone.
55. Getting together is a blessing. People can't get together forever, but a family, a team, a collective and an organization often get together, and no one is undoubtedly happy. "I miss my relatives more often during the festive season", especially during the holidays. The family is round and round, catching up with the old and talking about the new, but caring about my thoughts. It is really a happy and beautiful family.
56. Life is like a one-way ticket with no return. There is no rehearsal, and every game is broadcast live. Grasping every performance is the best wealth in life.
57. Guarding the light of hope is not only a person's correct attitude towards his career, but also a positive psychological factor to promote the success of his career. Psychological principles prove that people who always keep an optimistic attitude towards things have a much higher success rate than those who always keep a pessimistic attitude. Guarding the light of hope will keep you optimistic forever, and maintaining an optimistic attitude will allow you to fully mobilize the potential positive energy of individuals, give play to their potential creativity and make more amazing achievements.
58. Time helps us to heal the wounds of our hearts, and eventually we will all enjoy the happiness that should belong to us!
59. Happiness is all around us. Knowing smile, sincere handshake and heart-to-heart conversation are very happy things. Always give yourself a vacation and learn to find a happy mood.
Although my life is unknown, if my thoughts are richer and deeper than the king's, my heart will be more attractive than the king's.
6 1, a person should never spend 100% on himself, but rely on 100 people to spend 1% on everyone.
62. Life is like drinking. The first cup at the entrance is filled with lofty sentiments between heaven and earth, which is youth. After drinking the second cup, it will be hazy, and people will reach middle age. The third cup into the belly, drunk, awake, see through the world, this is old.
63. There used to be you, now there is no you, and there is no future. Owning is only temporary, leaving is forever.
64. Don't blame the cruelty of the world. Being strong is the last word, and only you can give yourself the best sense of security.
Looking back at that time, the years were quiet, and it seemed like a thousand years at a glance. I am drunk, giving you a lifetime of gentleness, and the seas run dry and the rocks crumble. Let those loneliness that have been reversed in the depths of the fleeting time take root and sprout in the faint lotus fragrance. After that, it looks like a lotus. Every day is your beautiful city.
66. The meaning of your past mistakes lies in guiding you, not defining you.
67. I always feel that time together is too short. It turns out that the fastest is not time, but the happiness of two people together.
68, everything is happy, not tired of bad temper.
69. There is no difference between tragedy and comedy in the world. If you can get out of tragedy, it's comedy. If you are addicted to comedy, it is a tragedy. If you just wait, all that will happen is that you get old. Only by bravely admitting what you don't understand can you learn and make progress. Courage is just a step beyond fear. Most people who complain that they have no chance have no courage to take risks.
70, find a bosom friend, achieve a career, the right time, the right place and the right people, but this is impossible, talk easy, maybe we really need to use our most precious life as the price, maybe we really need to spend a lifetime to seek.
7 1, the sky is the same, and the night is the same. It's just the time that passes quietly, which makes different people feel different. Little by little, the years slipped away quietly, leaving a little different mood.
72. In my opinion, life is like water. No matter where it flows, you must learn to adapt to the terrain. In the water pipe, we lurk. In the stream, we will flow slowly and enjoy the beautiful scenery along the way. In the river, we will speed up the race with the fish. In the sea, just stretch and feel free. Happiness means reading other people's words, finding your own shadow, understanding life and understanding life.
73. The sufferings of youth are priceless wealth in your life, which will make you experience life and experience it.
74. I am the problem. I didn't finish it earlier. I'm so unlucky. I'm in a bad mood when I'm unlucky, and I have to eat and watch movies when I'm in a bad mood. I am too sentimental and fragile, I just don't have enough time, and I am the root of all problems!
75. Life is not like this. We are always looking for the most beautiful scenery, but what is beauty, the forest or the ocean? Even the swamp wasteland is the most beautiful, but that's where you want to stay.
76. The rings on the forehead are not the impressions of time, but the vicissitudes of long-term battles and setbacks. That impetuous touch was finally defeated by indifference. I am walking in a muddy world, and I want to be crowded with flowers. The indomitable flower is a myriad of nothingness, and the fruit is the unity of body and mind; Looking for the mountain of money in a short distance, those who can't practice it are like epiphyllum, which has withered a moment ago, ruined everything, repeated and repeated, and the sound is endless.
Birthdays are celebrated every year, but it seems that the older you get, the less you pay attention to them. This may be human nature-I feel one year older and wish it slipped away inadvertently, so I'd better forget myself. However, I feel more and more that every birthday is worth celebrating. Instead of forgetting the past, think about it and leave some deep memories!
78. I can't recover from this love that hurt both sides.
79. There are two kinds of pain in the world. One is that Zhang Qiling left many years ago, and he has been lovesick for ten years. Everyone mentioned during the period felt pain, but he forced a smile, like a needle in his heart. The other is to wait for decades and meet again one day. That man's face hasn't changed, but another man is dying with him. There is no ego in my eyes, I just feel pain, but I can't say a word.
80. A wise man knows that the only way to help himself is to help others.
8 1, now there is not much time left, it is time to live for yourself! Live as happily as possible, and do what you want and want, no matter what others think or say! Because we don't live for the likes and dislikes of others, we live our true selves!
82. Life will not be as we wish. Sometimes we suffer more than we understand.
83. Hold your hand and grow old with your son. When you cry, someone will accompany you to be sad, listen to you, smooth your messy hair and gaunt face, and tell you that tomorrow is still sunny; When you smile brightly, the whole world shines because of you. He stands quietly and smiles at you, as bright as the sun. ...
84. In life, we have many opportunities to change our minds, and every change has the feeling and accumulation of our life experience. There are not many opportunities for epiphany in life, but as long as there is an opportunity for epiphany, every moment of insight will be unprecedented wealth. Although spiritual satisfaction and spiritual growth are abstract, they are the most concrete existence in us. Those who can truly feel their existence are the richest people in the world.
85. In your whole life, you don't have to worry about having many friends of the opposite sex. This is the ups and downs of your life and a wonderful chapter. However, we should be more caring for friends of the opposite sex, less greedy, more understanding and less demanding. Putting emotions in a free space and being lenient with others means being lenient with others; To be tolerant of feelings is to be tolerant of mind. Let each other not have to bear emotional burdens, let the sun shine forever, and comfort the mutual affection of life.
86. Indifference is the most beautiful thing in life. The mountain is silent, but the deep water is silent. Glory belongs to plain, not mediocre, nor indifferent, but to the realm of simplicity, tranquility and profundity, profound persistence, inner peace, in-depth calmness and selflessness. The weak are simple, tolerant, cautious, persistent, not happy about things, not sad about themselves, indifferent to their hearts, living like running water, comfortable and peaceful.
87. Once, for whom did you cry impudently? You are the sand blown into my eyes, which blurs my eyes and can't see the sky clearly. This is a busy ending, not the whole city or this country, but everything to me. What do you want? Be together for life. Or a greedy day. I want it. Just a simple but stable life. Love to death, running water under the bridge The best happiness is the care you give.
88. As the saying goes, filial piety comes first! But as the saying goes: loyalty and filial piety can't be satisfactory! Even if you are busy at work, you should always visit your parents, because they love you, and responding to their love is filial piety!
89. The prophet is a philosopher, and the latter is a mortal, and he is a fool unconsciously.
90. Science has proved that if you can't help humming next to someone, it means that you trust this person 100%.
9 1. There are many living people in the book. As long as you open the book, they can stand up.
92. Every humble animal in our eyes has abilities that we can't catch up with. We should maintain enough respect for everyone who is a primate. No matter how humble people are, they also have unique loftiness; No matter how retarded people are, they also have the potential that ordinary people can't do business. Full of respect for all living things, we are closer to the realm of saints. Disrespect for others is not only arrogance but also ignorance, not only morality but also IQ.
93. Some people say that persistence is valuable, while others say that giving up is wise. Perhaps the biggest growth now is to find that there is never absolute, only entanglement is wrong. The difference between people lies in how they look at themselves. Different time periods and different answers determine the state of life.
94. Not everything can be obtained just by asking, but sometimes some things appear by themselves without expectation.
95. Time flies so fast that I don't want to face the future. Understanding of life can only be obtained through constant touch and perception. What others tell you is not your most personal experience after all. Hold on, walk slowly, learn to try and feel.
96. The better the relationship, the more times I will hurt you. When talking to them, you can always automatically block those who don't want to hear. They will always know your problem better than you. When you meet people you used to like, they are always excited to ask you to have a look. If you look for beauty hard, beauty will find you; If you try your best to respect others, you will be respected by others.