As we all know, Yoga Lin and G.E.M. were once a match made in heaven. A group of melon eaters left a message to G.E.M. asking if she would attend Yoga Lin's future wedding.
It is reported that the rumor of Linden's breakup originated from G.E.M.'s singing "Tornado" in the ninth scene of "I am a singer 2". The lyrics of "Before you know it, you have left me" seem to imply that love is gone. She also privately said, "If you didn't break up, how could you sing" Tornado "?"
G.E.M. even revealed that she had not had sexual relations with Yoga Lin for three years, and said that she was a virgin and refused Yoga Lin's courtship many times. After breaking up with Yoga Lin, she also said that she would not attend Yoga Lin's wedding. I think G.E.M. should give up this relationship. After all, it's been three years.
In fact, even if your ex is super nice to you, he is very gentle and considerate. Now he/she has dumped you and doesn't want you. In fact, he/she doesn't love you, so no matter how good he/she is, it doesn't belong to you! There's no need to worry about it all the time.
In fact, an ex is like an expired chocolate. Even if it tastes good, don't force yourself to eat it. After all, no one knows if it will have diarrhea, so why try it?
I've met many people. After breaking up, I still miss my predecessor. I often say how good, handsome, tall and considerate he is, and I never want to leave.
But, second time around, you can't get back what you lost. Even if you barely get back together, can you get back together?
Actually can't! You missed the best time and lost the initial throb. You are not the two most suitable people anymore. It is time to let go. Now I'll teach you how to let him/her go.
Format past memories
The human heart is soft. You may accidentally see the circle of friends he/she just made, and then think of those days and nights with him/her, and a person is sad.
The best way to avoid it is to shield the isolation injury and put on the isolation suit. It is unrealistic to say that you have forgotten. Every photo of a smiling face as sweet and happy as a flower, and every message full of love are all evidences that you once loved at all costs. You simply delete it and format it.
No one can resist all kinds of poisons, and no one can be cold-blooded and heartless. What we can do is not to think about it deliberately, nor to recall those lost years carefully, so that those traces will fade away little by little.
We can concentrate on what we like, such as reading, working, exercising and shopping.
In this way, let him/her focus on what you like, and over time you will let go and gradually become indifferent.
Don't deliberately contact each other
In fact, in this world, no one can't live without who, only who needs who. It's not that you can't forget him, but that you have been hinting at yourself: you can't forget, you can't forget, and then you really think you can't forget.
The second step is to delete all the contact information about him/her and replace the previous couple's head portrait and signature. If you want to forget, you must be thorough. If you are not cruel enough, you can't do great things.
You never know, when you are still thinking about him, whether he has put you down, started a new relationship and fell in love with a new object. So, don't take the initiative to contact, in case his new girlfriend answers the phone, how will you answer it? Hello, current girlfriend, am I an ex-girlfriend
After separation, we are all used to being passive, and no one is willing or willing to take the initiative to find someone else. Because of embarrassment, and because I don't know what to say when I open my mouth, only two people are silent, so I simply don't contact.
Travel for fun.
The world is so big, if you don't go out and have a look, it will be wasted. There are so many handsome guys and beautiful women. Maybe, you will find a new partner and start a new love journey on your journey. A person's life, in addition to love, should also have a trip of their own.
The reason why you are still obsessed with the old man is not necessarily that you really love him, but that you may just meet too few people and experience too little love; That's why you think this person is your destiny takes a hand. Don't pack your bags, put on your travel boots and go to the outside world!
I remember that after Chen He and Xu Jing divorced, Xu Jing started a solo trip. She walked across Qian Shan, climbed the desert next door, saw all kinds of beautiful scenery, put the past unpleasantness behind her, took a good vacation for herself, met true love on the journey and started a new relationship.
What you encounter now is to prepare for future happiness; Even if you are lovelorn now, it is just homework and practice that will make you go further and longer in the next relationship.
Try to accept people around you.
The best way to forget the old relationship is to devote yourself wholeheartedly to the new relationship and focus on new people and things, so that you won't have time to remember your predecessor who has become an old friend.
Fan Tiantian once said: "In my world, there is no predecessor, only my dead husband!"
Now that it has become a memory, it means that your love is dead and you don't need to worry about it anymore.
If you have been immersed in the sweetness and warmth of the past, you will not be able to extricate yourself. Eventually, you will fall into the swamp of pain and sink to the bottom of the lake. No one will come to save you, because this is the way you choose.
People are looking forward, time is changing and life is changing. You should also adapt to these changes, clean up your mood and start a new relationship, because the person who loves you will wait for you to get off at the next stop.
For your ex, when your heart is gone and people are gone, you should let go, because you can't go back.
In a person's life, there is no rule that you can only love one person, and there is no requirement that you must marry that person. You can meet better, because you deserve to be treated gently by the whole world!