"Men are not only beautiful, but also mysterious. You'll never guess what's going on in his little brain, that is, he looks so ordinary, but he can be so confident. "
At that time, when this joke came out, the voices in the society were polarized. People who approved of her praised her and echoed her words one after another, but some boys with negative opinions thought that Yang Li deliberately provoked sexual conflicts and exaggerated them.
In fact, the talk show industry has an unwritten "hidden rule". If you want to fill the slot effect, talk show actors will subconsciously exaggerate things. "Drama comes from life and is higher than life" probably means this.
Everyone knows the tacit understanding, but it is truly verified in "Sister's Philharmonic Journey". These guests are probably sent by the monkey.
When 48-year-old Xu zhēng met 48-year-old serenity, the moment when she was talking about her youth was filled with smoke.
The thing is, while chatting with her sisters, Xu zhēng initially praised tranquility as a recognized goddess in the school, and it was simply gorgeous in the Shanghai Theatre Academy where beautiful women gathered. However, as soon as the style of painting changed, he began to vomit that "Wenjing is quite fat and his waist is quite thick". Quiet tried to explain the uneven aesthetics at that time, but Xu zhēng didn't realize his mistake.
He used the fact of dancing with tranquility to prove his judgment, and also said that he had helped the quiet waist, which was really thick. Sister Jing, who had a bad temper, couldn't stand it, so she went back. But at the end of the topic, Xu zhēng still refused to give up and defined the peaceful past as "fullness". This is what he thinks is retrogression, but he really doesn't want to talk to him after listening to it.
I didn't say this in the past, only that they are in a relatively large figure now. Was Xu zhēng qualified to call her fat at that time?
At the same age, I quietly boarded "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" and showed off my dancing skills. Thin and beautiful, he can sing and dance, unlike people of his age. But Xú Zhēng, the middle-aged greasy man is vividly expressed. Big belly, chubby face, have a figure?
But this kind of straight man is not limited to Xú Zhēng. Didn't cross talk actor Yun-peng Yue turn over, too? It was once searched by netizens.
On "The Unknown Table", Dany Lee told her that dancing was difficult. Sad, Yun-peng Yue began to "knife" one after another.
"Actually, I don't think you are suitable for dancing, because your legs are thick at close range."
Make fun of the girl's figure and belittle others' dreams to this extent. Do you think you are still on the stage of cross talk? Besides, there must be a yardstick for joking, so what will the other party think if they make fun of a girl in front of everyone?
Naturally, apart from Dany Lee's dissatisfaction, Yun-peng Yue was angered by the audience. Reading the comments, everyone said, "Your neck is thicker than other people's legs." "Your face is so big, worthy of TV? "and so on.
Born to be human, people must have shortcomings. Women do, men don't? It can be seen that in today's society, most people make irresponsible remarks about women's figure, no matter what they look like. But when a straight man looks at a woman, it's not just his figure that matters.
Must be a good wife and mother? Society needs more women. Not only the hall, but also the kitchen, as if this is the most virtuous wife. In Men Doing Housework, the evil roots of straight men are vividly displayed.
Huang Zulin's wife married him and became a full-time housewife. Huang Zulin likes his wife very much, but he is a little afraid of her. But the two sides are on a reality show variety show, which is really saying one thing and doing another.
Huang Zulin doesn't like his wife's bad housework, and the kitchen is in a mess. She angrily ordered her to do it again. As an observer, Dani couldn't stand different ideas about his wife, and the audience felt "suffocated" after watching it.
Of course, some straight men said that since Huang Zulin's wife chose to be a housewife, she should do this job well. When Huang Zulin comes home after a hard day's work, must he do housework with his wife? Huang Chulin keeps telling his wife what is the beauty of a woman? Just like his mother and grandmother, he does housework and takes care of the children, and everything is in good order.
But should a woman be born to return to her family and be a good wife and mother? It seems that it should be a positive answer in the hearts of straight men. They look down on you as a housewife, but once you choose to do business, it is even more wrong.
Also in this program, when people were asked about "career, family, marriage order", Fu Seoul's answer made other guests explode.
"Career first, career, son, husband"
Li Dan listened to just feel incredible. He kept shaking his head and shouted to the camera that Fu Seoul's husband "You have suffered". When Dany envied Fu Seoul's outlook on life, Li Dan immediately retorted, "It seems that you are rarely confused. If you are confused, you will be much happier, which is ok. " .
You see, this is the attitude of straight men. Women who are housewives spend the money I earn, so take good care of children and elders, and you should take care of all trivial matters. People who don't make money have no right to speak. But if you want to go out to work, what about the children's home? My income is higher than my husband's, and my marriage is unstable. Why do you have to go out to work?
There is a PUA for women in the workplace, but there is also a PUA for families. As long as straight men exist, they will naturally feel superior when they see women, although women will feel puzzled?
Straight men don't mean all men, but notice that I mentioned the word "straight men" here. The word itself has a derogatory meaning. The original definition also said that such people "have traditional ideas, aesthetic models, low emotional intelligence and live in their own aesthetics, world outlook and values". Some men are particularly suitable, but there are also men who don't belong to this type.
Chen Kun once commented that Hugh was a man without superiority, which was true. Hugh, who has seen great storms, has a higher position in the entertainment circle than anyone mentioned above, but he is a famous "ordinary person".
He will lie prone on the ground and sign autographs for grandma's fans. He is also courteous to those who like him. No matter men or women, everyone will praise him. He should have a sense of superiority, but he has never had such a breath.
He respects others, which is why he wins others' love. In Hugh's dictionary, there is only praise and encouragement, and there is never ridicule and criticism of women. Isn't the attitude towards ex-girlfriend the best proof?
Those straight men who are fascinated by self-confidence seem to want to show their superiority by teasing and criticizing women, so as to enhance their self-confidence. But there is an old saying that "the superior you are, the inferior you are in your bones." How noble is the confidence gained by stepping on other people's feet?
At the Tucao Conference, Yang Li gave an example to prove his conclusion.
"When a woman talks to a man, the other person must be thinking, he can't just talk to me. He must want to learn something from me?"
Self-righteous and good at being a teacher, how good can such a straight man's interpersonal relationship be?
Whether straight or ordinary, respecting others is a necessary condition in social interaction. Women make themselves beautiful, and it is their own money that loves to eat, drink and spend. It is up to the woman to decide whether to do housework or be a strong woman.