Excellent abilities
Since listening to Feng Lun’s dialogue with the exhibition staff in Feng Lun’s book "Carrying the Problem is the Skill", I realized that I lacked curiosity and took things for granted. Not asking for a thorough understanding, unable to get to the bottom of things, indifferent and unconcerned about the people and things around you, and not paying attention to understanding the overall situation. I am determined to change this habit.
The reason for this is that Feng Lun saw a staff member at the exhibition immersed in playing with his mobile phone and paying no attention to the customers entering the store. So Feng Lun was curious about the staff member's condition, so he took the initiative to chat with the staff member and asked many questions. Instead of walking away bored like many ordinary people do. In addition, Feng Lun was very curious, chatting with homeless people and studying bandits.
Excellent people have the following characteristics:
1. Maintaining curiosity and having a comprehensive and detailed understanding of things is the difference between us and great people. They are not accustomed to it. Don’t stick to the old ways.
Whether it is Buffett’s ability and habit of actively analyzing and fully understanding the rules of commodity trading, or Feng Lun’s ability to understand the situation in detail, they are both people who are familiar with the overall situation and truly understand it. Focused person.
2. Great people are people who focus on one goal for a long time and are proactive. Most people tend to stray from the topic and forget their goals in their work and life. There are means of supervision, incentives and elimination.
3. There are a lot of miscommunications in life, so conscious communication is required. Report situations in a timely manner to avoid information asymmetry.
4. If you make people happy, get what they need, and get help, you will gain opportunities, help, money, and enjoy good things.
Excellent people keep moving forward without forgetting to dig holes for their enemies.