In my daily interactions with my male friends, I always maintain a sense of distance and propriety.

First, due to different physiological structures, it is more appropriate to maintain a respectful distance when getting along with the opposite sex, otherwise it is easy to cause unnecessary misunderstandings. Second, I have a boyfriend, so I naturally have to be measured when communicating with the opposite sex, and I have to take my lover's feelings into consideration.

A few days ago, a high school classmate suddenly chatted with me on WeChat and said that he saw the photos posted in my circle of friends and thought that my life was very good and my attitude towards life was very positive and positive. . I politely thanked him for the compliment.

After chatting a little more, I found out that he did not go to college after he was admitted to college, but instead learned how to run a factory run by his family. We got married last year and now my wife is pregnant. I kept saying congratulations and said I was going to drink the baby’s full moon wine.

He suddenly changed the topic and talked about his wife, "It's great that you are a teacher. You will definitely be able to educate your children well in the future. My wife has been working since she graduated from junior high school and doesn't understand anything. , she would lose her temper."

I advised him that whether he can educate his children has nothing to do with academic qualifications and work. Educating children is the responsibility of both parties, and you can just discuss it together. It is normal for a woman to have unstable emotions during pregnancy, and she should take more care of her emotions.

He continued, no, no, no, it has nothing to do with the pregnancy. Not long after we got married, I discovered that she was short-sighted, not independent-minded, and stingy... (omitting a few hundred words of complaint here) )

"You said that my family's conditions are not bad, and I have a car and a house. Why didn't I talk to someone who went to college like you? I talked to someone who didn't go to school after junior high school."< /p>

I suddenly felt that the atmosphere of the chat became a bit strange, but I couldn’t tell what was strange, it just felt inappropriate.

So I stopped chatting with him and politely said that I had to do something and not talk about it for now.

Until yesterday, he suddenly sent me a WeChat message, saying that he and his wife had a fight. She said that he was doing nothing at home during the epidemic. He really couldn't bear it and wanted a divorce. If it weren't for seeing I divorced early for the sake of my children and so on. Finally, let me ask you this again, if it were you, would you make trouble with your boyfriend like this?

I seem to feel that something is wrong, but I am not sure. I think I don’t need to confirm it. What I can be sure of is that this male classmate did something unkind.

I can probably guess what happened to him and his wife. During the epidemic, factory production was affected and there was no income. The husband worked as a hands-off shopkeeper at home, and the wife was pregnant with a child and was emotionally unstable. Seeing this , it is inevitable to chat a few words. As time passed, my husband began to have other ideas.

Of course, these are just my guesses.

One thing I can confirm is that this classmate of mine does not respect his wife enough.

When my wife was pregnant, she told other members of the opposite sex that she was not in love with her, was too belittling, told other members of the opposite sex that she wanted a divorce, and tentatively asked me if I had a boyfriend. I couldn’t. Don't guess with some malicious eyes, does he want to have an extramarital affair?

Whether it is true or not, such behavior is inappropriate.

After thinking about it for a long time, I sent him a message -

Classmate, whether you want a divorce or not is your private matter. I have no position on this matter. I hope this topic can be discontinued. As for whether I will lose my temper with my boyfriend like this, this is a problem that my boyfriend needs to solve. And as a friend, I would like to advise you, please respect and love your wife.

Later he didn’t reply to the message, so I didn’t block him. It was out of friendship as a classmate and I wanted to maintain the last bit of adult dignity, but I thought I would never chat with this male classmate again. Yes, he has been blocked in my circle of friends.

I hope all girls can find their husbands.