You can use the third person to describe your story from the perspective of a bystander, or you can intersperse a story with some fantasies or stories that happened to other people. Don't be too deliberate. It's better to write truthfully ~ and the advantage of writing from a bystander's point of view is that you won't deliberately beautify or cover it up just because you are yourself ~

2. Stories or examples about knowing yourself correctly.

1, Emperor Zhao Houshile

After the Northern and Southern Dynasties, Zhao Shile gave a banquet to entertain his ministers. At the banquet, he asked a minister, "What kind of emperors do you think I can compare with?"

The minister boasted, "Your Majesty's wise SHEN WOO is better than Emperor Gaozu, and others are worse." Schleswig smiled and said, "You have gone too far. If I meet Emperor Gaozu, I can only be his servant, probably similar to Han Xin and Peng Yue. If I was born in Emperor Guangwu of Han Dynasty, I could keep pace with him, and maybe whoever wins or loses. "

2. Li Ka-shing

Li Ka-shing was born in a scholarly family in a busy street in Chaozhou. Smart and detached from childhood, he studied hard. From 65438 to 0939, the Japanese invaders invaded Chaoshan and fled to Hong Kong with their parents. They experienced war, poverty and famine, and also cultivated the spirit of hard work. 1950, Mr. Li Ka-shing, 22, named after the mother river of the Chinese nation, founded "Changjiang Plastic Factory" to express his childlike innocence.

After decades of efforts, in 1988, he has owned five major companies, including Changjiang Industry, Hutchison Whampoa and HEC, as well as more than 100 affiliated companies and more than 50 joint ventures, forming a well-funded and powerful "economic kingdom" of Li. In 2000, he himself became one of the five richest people in the world.

Mr. Li has gone from noodle restaurant to the world, and his position is so prominent, but he is still so humble and peaceful. On one occasion, Mr. Li attended the groundbreaking ceremony of Shantou University. Originally, as the founder of Shantou University, he should have written his name on the first page of the VIP roster, but Mr. Li didn't and signed his name on the third page.

In this banquet, regardless of his position, he toasted, shook hands and talked with every guest, without making people feel "isolated" at all. Mr Li Ka-shing is one of the few rich people in the world, but he is not arrogant and extravagant. He still insists on frugality, honesty, health, indifference, quietness and unpretentious.

3. The Secret of Gravity and Light

When Newton was twenty-three, there was a plague in London. In order to prevent students from being infected, Cambridge University informed students to leave school and go home to avoid the epidemic, and the school was temporarily closed. Newton returned to his hometown of Lincolnshire. In the days when he didn't go to school in the country, he never stopped studying and researching. The basic work of gravity, calculus, optical analysis and other inventions was completed during this period.

At that time, children in rural areas often used slings for several rounds and then threw stones far away. They can also hold a bucket of milk over their heads without the milk falling down. These facts made him suspicious: "What is the power to keep the stones in the slingshot and the milk in the bucket from falling?" For this question, he once thought of Kepler and Galileo.

He went from vast space, endless planets, cold moon to huge earth, and then thought about the interaction between these giants. At this time, Newton plunged into the calculation and verification of "gravity". Newton plans to use this principle to verify the laws of the planets in the solar system. He first deduced the distance from the moon.

Otto Varahau is the winner of the Nobel Prize in Chemistry.

His success is legendary. When Varahao was in middle school, his parents chose a literary path for him. Unexpectedly, after a semester, the teacher wrote him such a comment: "Varahao is very diligent, but too rigid." Even if such a person is perfect in morality, he will never be able to play in literature. " At this time, parents had to respect their son's opinion and let him learn oil painting instead.

Cabala Hao is neither good at composition nor retouching, and his understanding of art is not strong. His grades are the lowest in the class, and the school's comments are even more unacceptable: "You are an outstanding talent in painting art." Faced with such a "clumsy" student, most teachers think that he is hopeless. Only the chemistry teacher thinks that he is meticulous and has the quality to do chemical experiments well, and suggests that he try to learn chemistry.

My parents took the advice of the chemistry teacher. This time, the spark of Vallahau's wisdom was ignited. The "untraceable genius" of literature and art has suddenly become a "promising gifted student" recognized by the chemical community. Finally won the Nobel Prize in chemistry. US Senator Ai Mo Thomas 16 was tall and thin, and other little boys called him "thin bamboo pole".

He worries about his tall, thin and weak figure all the time every day. Later, a speech contest made him make a big turn. Encouraged by his mother, he spent a lot of time preparing his speech. He memorized all his speeches, then practiced 100 times for cows, sheep and trees, and finally won the first prize.

5. Lincoln

One day, Lincoln and his son took a bus to the street, and the street corner was blocked by passing troops. Lincoln asked a passerby, "What is this?" What he means is to ask which unit. People in the street thought he didn't know the army, and replied, "This is a federal army. You are such a fucking idiot. "

Lincoln said, "Thank you." He turned to his son seriously and said, "It is a kind of happiness to have someone telling the truth in front of you. I'm a fucking idiot. How can I ask? "

Write a composition of about 450 words about your growth story.

When I was a child, I was a timid person, afraid to stay at home alone in broad daylight. With the growth of age, although I have made a lot of progress, I am still a little afraid of the dark and I really want to find a chance to practice my courage. The opportunity has finally come. It was a Friday night. I am watching TV at leisure. My mother told me to go to the supermarket to buy something. I thought to myself: this is a good opportunity to exercise my courage, and the money I get can also buy snacks. It's the best of both worlds. So, I rushed out of the door with the money. However, as soon as I got out of the door, I regretted it a little. It was dark everywhere, and the trees on the roadside bared their teeth like monsters, which scared me to look around. And I walked a path without street lights, so I could only walk a few steps and stop for a few seconds by the faint light in the residential building. In this way, I walked a dozen paces in fear, thinking: as long as I get to the place where there is light, I don't have to be afraid. It's so quiet around, I can only hear my own heartbeat, so I can't help but shrink my neck into my collar, just like a snail hiding in its shell, so as to gain a sense of security. Suddenly, a white thing appeared in front of me, and I shouted "Ah". Unexpectedly, it was scared away by my voice, and I knew it was a white cat. At this time, I have already broken out in a cold sweat, hoping to leave this "horrible" place quickly. I quickened my pace and finally saw the signboard lights in the supermarket. I ran to the supermarket like a straw ... when I got to the supermarket, I was relieved and went home after shopping. I had to come to that dark path again, and the tense atmosphere hit me again. How can I be so timid? Don't! I want to be brave, I want to overcome my fear! I have to find a way. Then, I remembered the story of "Donald Duck and Mickey Mouse" and skipped along while thinking about their ridiculousness ... Before I knew it, I was at home. I am both surprised and happy. I walked that path alone, and my heart was full of sweetness. Now, I am not afraid of the dark, because I know that fear comes from the heart. If I want to conquer fear, I must conquer myself.

It was an autumn. One day, I got up early because today is my birthday! After breakfast, I went to school. On the way to school, someone who knows me saw it and asked, "Why are you so happy today? Have you ever eaten pistachios? " I replied: "No, it's just that the weather is good today and I am naturally in a good mood!" " "When I got to school, I happily finished my morning reading. When class was over, all the students came to me and said, "Happy birthday!" " "How happy I am! They even gave me a gift! One day passed in my happy mood. When I got home, I accidentally saw a cake on the table. Before I could ask, Mimi said, "Look, your father bought a birthday cake specially for you." So excited! Dad even prepared a cake for me. In the evening, my family got together and held a birthday party for me. The cake with candles was placed on the table, and the faint candlelight made me see the wisps of silver on my parents' heads. My parents are old, and how much effort they have made for me. I used to be headstrong, but now I finally understand my parents' love. From now on, I will never make my parents angry. "Tingting, it's time to make a wish." My mother's words brought me back to reality. I made a wish with tears in my eyes. I won't tell you this wish for the time being. Keep a secret! After that, I blew out the candles and began to cut the cake. How time flies! The clock has pointed to 10. We must clear the table. After clearing the table, I went to bed reluctantly.

Everything goes wrong in life, and the auspicious words of "all the best" and "smooth sailing" cannot be realized, but people's symbols of a better life. Life is not smooth sailing, and people who can't stand the test can't reach the end of success.

With the growth of age and height, troubles come unexpectedly. They banded together to disrupt our lives.

Tell a story about yourself.

For a long time, I didn't look forward. Everything in my past stayed in a window, and there was no sunshine in a corner of the window.

I am a poem, lying on the page of memories, without too many words, only some tears. ...

After a long time, I still can't bear to part with those memories, because what I passed away was all in those yellowed and weathered past-the past forgotten in the smoke.

I am a wisp of smoke spinning in my dream, not cold water vapor, just some tears that have never dried up …

This seems to be a kind of spiritual love.

Read everything about each other from the intersection of eyes.

I vaguely remember that we were walking among the blooming flowers behind the school. I was frightened by small insects. You grabbed my frightened little hand. That was the first time you held my hand.

We all laughed. ...

We climbed to the top of the mountain.

You said loudly: Baby, I love you so much.

I have a good feeling for you ... just to believe in myself and always have a good feeling for you ... You kissed my face and said ... you said it.

You must keep your promise.

Tarot told me.

You will find a lover who knows nothing about human fireworks.

I don't understand, because I am only 18 years old.

But that's Tarot's helplessness, because he can't change the doomed sadness. ..

When I was two years old, I remembered Tarot's prophecy.

I think I may have really passed you forever. ..

I left something behind, more and more.

Remember to go left and right and say

It is fate that two people who love each other finally meet.

Even if two people without love meet a hundred times and ten thousand times.

This is not fate, but a kind of pain.

One person loves, and the other person doesn't love their meeting.

It will only scare away people you don't love.

But in my memory, we seem to be two people who accidentally fell in love, but accidentally separated.

Although I left you

But I hope you will always remember me, no matter in what form.

I hope you will never turn your back on me, no matter what form.

I will live in the world you know. ...

Time is never a good thing,

But it weaves beautiful memories.

5. How to tell your own story

Many people think this speech is a public speech. In the past two years, I have invited more than 300 guests to speak on the platform, including famous scholars, entrepreneurs, scientists, entrepreneurs, artists and so on. Many people think spoken English is easy, but I don't think so. Speech is not just a story, but an expression in a specific scene. It belongs to your stage. Suppose you walk into a theater, it is dark around, you stand in the middle of an empty stage, a beam of light shines down, you see a sea of people in front of you, and you say, "This is my speech." -This is a unique scene with a sense of ceremony.

In this unique scene, there are several key elements: first, the speaker, who I am expressing; The second is the listener, you are listening to what I am saying; The third is my relationship with the listener. Standing on a stage of your own, as a speaker, you should build a field where you can resonate with the audience, which is the most important and core expression of drama speech.

In my opinion, whether scientists or entrepreneurs, the best public relations and advertising, the best expression people set is not how good it is to repeat their own things, but to input values. Speech is the best way to input values, express all your past cognition, experience, experience and opinions, and let the audience take the initiative to accept them and spread them for you.

Three levels of speech: definition, relationship and expression.

I divide the speech into three levels: definition, relationship and performance.

Before the speech begins, you need to be clear about two things: first, who is your audience; Second, who are you? All good speeches begin with cognition. This cognitive frequency must be me. What do you want to express and who is your audience when you stand on the stage with a completely empty heart? You should redefine yourself, re-recognize yourself and express the cognitive process.

The second point is the relationship. As many people know, it is necessary to interact with the audience and set some suspense during the speech to promote the continuation of the speech. But this is just the beginning of the relationship. In speech relations, the connection point is the core. As a speaker, before you go on stage, you need to find a connection between yourself and the audience. In this way, the relationship between the speaker and the audience is established.

The third point is performance. Many people will think that a speech is just standing in front of an audience to express their views. And I think a speech has a very key element, called performance. It has nothing to do with our daily business logic, academic logic and industry cognition. This is just a performance. A good speech is very performance-oriented. If you add a little performance element to your speech, or enlarge the key elements of your speech in some ways, it will be very brilliant.

6. A short story about being the best self-motivator.

Short story one, the way of employing people

Anyone who has been to the temple knows that as soon as he enters the temple gate, the first one is Amitabha, welcoming guests with a smiling face, and in the north of him, it is Darkmouth's black-faced Wei Tuo. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.

Buddha Miller is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything, and his accounts are improperly managed, so he still can't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a cook in charge of accounts, he was unhappy all day, which was too serious. He made fewer and fewer friends and finally died.

Buddha found this problem when he was looking for incense, so he put them in the same temple. Maitreya was in charge of public relations and greeted all the guests with smiles, so the incense was flourishing. And Wei Tuo is impartial, he will be better than others, so let him be in charge of finance and strictly control it. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.

In fact, in the eyes of the master of employing people, people without waste, like martial arts masters, can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves without expensive swords. The key is how to use them.

Short story two, the director is useless

There was a Lu man who was good at weaving straw sandals and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wants to move to Vietnam. His friend said to him, "If you go to Vietnam, you will be poor." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used to walk, but Vietnamese people are used to walking barefoot; White silk is used to make hats, but Vietnamese people are used to long hair. With your strengths, go to places that are not needed, so is it possible to keep yourself from being poor? "

Learning experience: If a person wants to develop his specialty, he must adapt to the needs of the social environment. If it is divorced from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose its value. Therefore, we should decide our own actions according to the needs of society and give full play to our own specialties.

Story 3: Kangaroos and Cages

One day, the city zoo found that the kangaroo escaped from the cage, so it held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cage was too low. So they decided to raise the height of the cage from 10 meter to 20 meters. As a result, the next day they found that kangaroos were still running outside, so they decided to raise the height to 30 meters again.

I didn't expect to see all the kangaroos running outside the next day. The keeper was very nervous and decided to raise the height of the cage to 100 meters.

One day, giraffes and some kangaroos were chatting. "Do you think these people will continue to keep your cage?" ? Asked the giraffe. "It's hard to say. Kangaroo said, "If they continue to forget to close the door!

Learning experience: there are "beginning and end", "importance" and "urgency" Closing the door is the end point, heightening the cage is the end point, and abandoning the end point is of course irrelevant.

Story 4: Bian Que's medical skills

King Wen of Wei asked the famous doctor Bian Que, "Your three brothers are all good at medical skills, which one is the best?"

Bian Que replied, "The eldest brother is the best, the second brother is the second, and I am the worst.

King Wen asked again, "Then why are you the most famous?

Bian Que replied, "My brother treated the disease before it started. Because most people don't know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his fame can't spread; Brother Zhong treated the disease at the early stage. Most people think that he can only treat minor illnesses, so his reputation only extends to his own village. When my illness is serious, I will treat it. Most people have seen me perform major operations, such as pricking a needle tube on the meridian to bleed blood and applying medicine to the skin, so they think that my medical skill is brilliant and my reputation is famous all over the country.

Learning experience: control after the event is not as good as control in the event, and control in the event is not as good as control in advance.

Story 5, sudden change in salary

A guest visited someone's house and saw that the chimney on the stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be bent and the wood had to be removed, otherwise it might catch fire later, but the host didn't give any indication.

Soon, the owner's house caught fire, and the neighbors rushed to put out the fire. Finally, the fire was put out, so the owner cooked sheep and slaughtered cattle to entertain his neighbors and rewarded them for their contribution to the fire fighting, but he didn't invite anyone who suggested that he move the wood and change the chimney.

Someone said to the host, "if you had listened to that gentleman, you wouldn't have to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage." It is very strange now that the person who gave you advice is not grateful, but the person who put out the fire is a guest! " The host suddenly realized that he quickly invited the guest who had given the suggestion to have a drink.

Learning experience: prevention is more important than treatment, and it is better to nip in the bud than to cure chaos afterwards.

Short story six, saving lives

In a fierce battle, the captain suddenly found an enemy plane swooping down to the position. As usual, don't hesitate to lie down when you find the enemy plane diving. But the captain didn't lie down at once. He found a little soldier still standing four or five meters away from him. He didn't think much, and a diving fly pressed the little soldier tightly under him. At this time, there was a loud noise, and the splashing soil fell on them. The captain patted the dust on his body and looked back, suddenly stunned: a big hole was blown out of his position just now.

Learning experience: while helping others, you also help yourself!

Short story seven, go out

In ancient times, two brothers each took a suitcase to travel far away. Along the way, the heavy suitcase weighed down the brothers. When their left hand is tired, they have to change their right hand, and when their right hand is tired, they have to change their left hand. Suddenly, Big Brother stopped, bought a pole by the roadside, and hung two suitcases on the pole. He picked up two boxes and set off, but he felt much more relaxed.

Learning experience: We will certainly encounter many difficulties on the road of our life. But don't we all know that on the way forward, moving stumbling blocks under others' feet is sometimes just paving the way for ourselves?

7. Tell a story about yourself

I remember the distant third day, in a beautiful and harmonious spring. On the weekend, I was helping my busy mother clean up the dusty porcelain at home, and I couldn't help thinking happily: When my parents come back, they will definitely praise me as a "little adult". So, my heart is full of joy, while humming happily, while diligently wiping the porcelain in my hand. When cleaning a beautiful vase, I was too self-righteous and careless, and "pa", alas, my mother's favorite vase seems to have been "sacrificed" to punish me for my temporary relaxation and negligence! I'm as anxious as an ant on hot bricks. I'm so anxious that I think: What should I do? Mom will definitely open her palm and hit me when she comes back. What should I do? I'm so anxious that my tears are about to fall. So, I rushed to clean up the vase's "falling scene". Not long after, "Ding Dong" arrived. I opened the door and saw my mother come back. My mother is always around, which makes me collapse. "So clean, it's my daughter!" "Mom said with a smile. With a wry smile, I thought, what should I do? If my mother finds out later, it will definitely be a "bolt from the blue" and give me a scolding. Sure enough, after a while, my mother found the vase "gone". Then, her question sounded: "Where is the vase?" "vase ... vase ..." I stammered and couldn't speak for a long time. " What's wrong with the vase? Say it! "Mom is a little anxious. I looked at my mother's worried and scared cheeks, and my heart was full of fear. Under a mechanism, I told a naive lie: "the vase ... the vase was borrowed by the teacher!" """Is it borrowed?" Mom seems a little skeptical. "Yes!" I answered quickly and with false firmness. Finally escaped a disaster, but still returned to his "nest" with a heavy heart, * * * gently leaned back in his chair and quietly thought: "I lied, really lied! This is a matter of course, but my mother ... my mother has been desperate to take care of and cherish my weak and immature self! But that's how I lay! " Towards, towards, my mother's concern and love for me appeared among men ... Suddenly, I had the idea of telling my mother the truth. However, it is easier said than done, and I still dare not step out of this door. Outside the window, under the call of spring breeze, flowers and plants stretch their motionless bodies for a long time and show a bright smile under the sunshine bath. I looked out of the window and looked at them. They seem to be smiling at me and encouraging me to say, "Go ahead and be an honest boy!" " "At this moment, my whole body gushed out a force and bravely came to my mother and said," The vase was broken by the quilt! """Then why don't you admit it? Why? "Mother asked like a curse. "I'm ... I'm scared." I'm a little nervous. "Come on, just because of fear. As a girl, you must be brave and strong. It won't happen again! " Regrettably, this story of growing up remains indelibly in my heart, still a gray memory, still in a dark corner. Regret at that time, the lesson at that time, became a truth in my heart: do everything carefully, not carelessly, even if you make a mistake, you should bravely admit and face it.

8. Ask a short story (about giving yourself a reasonable position)

The starting point of personal energy release-self-orientation.

There is a story abroad: a beggar stood at the subway exit selling pencils, and a businessman hurried by, putting some coins in the beggar's cup, but forgot to take the pencils. After a while, the businessman came back with a pencil and said to the beggar, "Sorry, I forgot to take the pencil, because you and I are both businessmen after all", and then left in a hurry. A few years later, when the businessman attended a fancy cocktail party, a well-dressed man thanked him and told the businessman that he was the beggar who sold pencils at the beginning. His life was changed by a businessman's words: "You and I are both businessmen." Before that, he only regarded himself as a beggar.

9. Ask for a fable about "being yourself"

A child named Fang Zhongyong was born in a peasant family. His family has been farmers for generations, and no one can read. He is five years old and has never seen paper, ink, pens and inkstones.

But one day, Fang Zhongyong suddenly cried and asked for paper and ink from home, saying that he wanted to write poetry. His father was very surprised and immediately borrowed pens and ink from his neighbors. Fang Zhongyong picked up a pen and wrote four poems, and also wrote a title for them. Several scholars in the same village knew about this matter and came to Fang Zhongyong's house to see it. They agreed that he wrote well. So it spread quickly, and everyone who knew it was surprised.

Since then, the family has become lively, and people often come to play at home, and some even let Xiao write poems on the spot. No matter what the topic is, Zhong Yong Jr. can write a poem at once, and the content is profound and elegant, and the literary talent is gorgeous and colorful, which is appreciated by everyone.

Soon, Fang Zhongyong's talent spread all over the county, causing a great shock, and people thought he was a child prodigy. The celebrities and rich people in the county worship Fang Zhongyong very much, and even his father's position has improved a lot. Those people have great respect for Fang Zhongyong's father and often donate money to help him. In this way, Fang Zhongyong's father thought it was a profitable good thing, so he gave up the idea of letting Fang Zhongyong go to school. On the contrary, he took Fang Zhongyong to visit celebrities and rich people in the county in turn every day, looking for opportunities to show Fang Zhongyong's poetic genius, so as to win praise and rewards from those people.

As a result, the prodigy gradually failed. Over time, Fang Zhongyong went from bad to worse, because he only relied on a little "genius" and did not learn the day after tomorrow. By the age of twelve or thirteen, his poems were much worse than before, and everyone who came to talk to him was disappointed. By the age of twenty, all his talents had disappeared, no different from ordinary people. People shook their heads sadly, but a talented teenager finally became a mediocre person.

It can be seen that it is impossible for a person to have innate wisdom without paying attention to the acquired learning. If he doesn't pay attention to accepting new knowledge, he will only fall behind others in the end.

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10. Tell me about your own experience.

When I was in high school, I got along well with several classmates, like brothers. There is another girl who likes playing with me very much. I sit in the last row. She is always late for self-study The teacher asked her to stand at the back of the classroom and recite. And then I kept teasing her. Finally, we became boyfriend and girlfriend.

When I went to college, I had less contact with my friends in high school. My girlfriend's school is not in the same place as mine. About ... more than an hour's drive. Because we were not in the same place, we began to quarrel slowly and had many differences. Every time I quarrel, no matter what I am doing, I will go to her at the first time.

Finally, when we quarreled for the nth time, she ignored me and the phone was turned off. I waited at the gate of her school all night, like a * * *. Later, I learned that she and my good "brother" went to the disco, got drunk, and then got a room. From then on, I once lost hope for life, and then became * * *.