First: not sending a circle of friends does not mean that his basic personality has problems. For a group of people, WeChat is a tool for people to connect with each other.
Second: People who don't make friends don't mean they have problems. Probably busy, really busy.
Third: if you don't send a circle of friends, it doesn't mean that others can't see it.
Fourth: Compared with people who don't make friends, you should leave those people who bring you negative emotions and unrealistic toxic chicken soup every day. One loss and one poison is a spiritual attack on contemporary young people.
We are all ordinary people and have an ordinary life, which is the ups and downs in the fireworks, the stage is not smooth, and life loses hope. But in your circle of friends, long-term articles, pictures and opinions are lost every day, so I can say with certainty that you will have a * * * voice with him, and then assume that this situation will last for a long time. Then, you will brush this circle of friends every day, and then yours. Slowly, your world will become disgraceful, and you will gradually become him, because some people who send mourning articles and films every day just want to pull some people to reach a * * * song with them and mourn together. This is a brainwashing thing, that is, when people are weak and their concentration is not good enough, it is easy to go to the abyss.
I have such a friend around me, but now I don't have one. He just likes to send condolences to friends around him. The dark side of the world has spread to a large area, even to his parents. His WeChat avatar is always black and gray, and his signature is also extremely sad, that is, things similar to human disqualification and their famous saying: cowards are afraid of happiness, that is, they are extremely sad and can't tolerate anyone who wants to attack others as long as they don't meet his interests, and they are easy to get angry and get into trouble. Sure enough, I heard that he caused the trouble, but although he didn't do it, it is not unreasonable for others to think of him first.
There is also that kind of poisonous chicken soup. Wow, this is really brainwashing. For example, you should thank those who hurt you, because they make you grow. It is really my own story. I was green by my boyfriend at that time. I just watched the poisoned chicken soup during that time. When I saw this sentence, I just wanted to come out as soon as possible and get rid of my sadness. I want to thank him for making me realize that he is a love rat earlier, but I find that the more I think about it, the more sad it is, because the beginning of this experience is that he is a love rat, and the more I think about it, the more endless it is. He is a scum man. What should I thank him for? The key is that you can't find anything to thank him for, and then you constantly doubt yourself at the end. This gratitude is meaningless. I will only hate him and thank him at the same time. This contradiction will only make it harder for me to get out. Then, when I want to start making myself better and better, I will start socializing, working and studying. After broadening my horizons, when I think about this sentence again, my heart is, why the fuck should I thank them? You hurt me and I didn't do anything to you. You should thank me for my good education and reverence for the law. This poisonous chicken soup is really not suitable for watching. What else: "burn all evil and hope, and look up to the nonexistent heaven"? I want to say, people who can say that, are you really not afraid of Christians giving you trouble? Other people's lifelong belief is that they can finally go to heaven. Now you say they don't exist. You just use flowery words to express your extreme dissatisfaction with life and want to help others. Isn't there a heaven where others can go to hell with you?
I just want to say these examples, although everyone is very tired, working, emotional and other things, but the fireworks on earth are like this, with mixed feelings. Don't blindly eat too much blood sugar by sweet soup, and don't be blindly covered with sadness. This means that you are no different from living in the underworld, and you will never be happier than you are in the big villa in Jinshan Yinqiao.
People live in this world, let you experience good and bad, then gradually increase your adaptability, and finally choose a life that you feel comfortable with. After all this, you will have the way to choose a happy life. Instead of a third of your life, you feel that you have seen through the world and life. Then I want to ask those people in their seventies and eighties, are they living in vain? If the world is really as miserable as you say, then I think the continuation of mankind will not be today.
Therefore, there will be happiness when you are sad. You have to go through all your experiences, and others are going through the same thing when you go, so you are not the only one facing this difficulty.
The world is very big, you can go and see it. The world is small, you can go to the boutique. When night comes, you may only see a ray of light in a house, but it is different for thousands of lights. If you are ill, you must go and see it. If you want to get close to the person who gives you light, you should learn to look for light by yourself, not the other way around.
People who don't send friends think that there are two situations, which exist in our WeChat friends like zombies.
Because of my initial personality, I didn't send a circle of friends.
Slowly, more friends. We will find that some people have few friends, only a few a year. Open the circle of friends and see three 20 15, two 20 16, blank 20 17, three 20 18 and 20 19. This is not bad. At least, he didn't set his friends to be visible for only three days, otherwise there would be nothing. Some friends really never send friends. You talked to him and responded. Strange, I don't know if it's set not to look at friends.
The work reason setting section is not visible.
There are many reasons why people are not allowed to see the circle of friends. With the development of life, many leaders at work have asked to add WeChat group, and many colleagues have become friends. At this time, if you send a circle of friends again, you will pay special attention. If seen by leaders or unpopular colleagues, they will expose their whereabouts and privacy. So some people choose that some friends can see and some can't.
In short, if you don't make friends, you either don't have this hobby, or you are afraid of being seen and set up invisibility. Therefore, it doesn't matter if you don't make friends, it's just the role of personal psychology. The real relationship depends on working and living together, not simply on whether to make friends.
People who say such things are all idle farts. They love to study chicken soup for the soul and pull their wives' tongues. Perhaps the surface is full of warmth, but in fact it is narrow and closed, and they can't understand the world and people's hearts. I don't like making friends, because I'm not a boss or a salesman. I don't need to advertise. When I'm old, I'm afraid to avoid watching chicken soup and yellow soup, and I don't need to show it in a circle of friends, because I have people or groups who need to share the benefits of life with me. When I played QQ in Weibo in my early years, I liked to express my true feelings in a hidden form. Wechat friends circle forced you to chat naked, and I lost interest without opening my mouth. There are not a few people who hold this feeling. Therefore, I see that more and more people don't send friends, which is normal.