Lower your attitude + thank you

1. When you treat someone to a meal, they say it’s too expensive. This meal must cost a lot of money.

Wrong answer: No, no, this is nothing. Excessive modesty will cause you to "not pay attention" to the other person.

High EQ: I don’t usually just eat something by myself. Thanks to you, I can eat something good today thanks to you.

2. When you get together with colleagues or friends, people compliment you and say, "You look so good today."

Wrong answer: I don’t look better without you. I don’t dare to accept compliments, but it makes the other person think “you are boring”

High EQ answer: You know I don’t usually dress up either. Thanks to you I have better motivation to dress up today. You can accept others' thanks and praises to you generously and openly, and at the same time skillfully give the credit to the other person, letting him know that he is very important to you