On a cold winter day, a warm-hearted farmer walked home as usual after going to the market. At this time, he saw a frozen snake, so he kindly picked it up and put it in his arms. Warm in the middle.

The snake woke up from its coma. The venomous snake instinctively bit the farmer to death. Before he died, the farmer said with great sadness and regret: "I wanted to do good deeds, but I didn't have the discernment to help a snake with an evil nature and ended up killing myself."

The story is self-evident. It shows that it is a very important prerequisite to distinguish between good and evil before helping others. We should only help kind people. Those with evil nature cannot change their nature and do not deserve help at all.

The case of the farmer and the snake does not only exist in fables, but also happens in reality.

Lin Shengbin helped the nanny who was in poverty, but the nanny eventually set a fire, causing Lin Shengbin to be separated from his wife and children. Three years later, Lin Shengbin finally emerged from the haze of sadness and smiled again to face the fate that did not treat him kindly, but his smile made us feel sad.

Having a happy family

Lin Shengbin and his wife Zhu Xiaozhen are both from Fujian. When Lin Shengbin was working alone in Hangzhou, he met Zhu Xiaozhen, who was doing clothing business with his brother in Zhejiang. That encounter made them Get to know each other.

They fell in love later. Although Lin Shengbin was still a poor young man at the time, she still ignored her family's objections and resolutely dated Lin Shengbin.

The two worked hard together and finally gained a place in the clothing market through their hard work. After having a financial foundation, she bought a house and married Zhu Xiaozhen. After that, he had three lovely children and the family was happy.

Putting the root of the disaster

Since I had three children to take care of and housework to deal with, I found a nanny through an agency. Her name was Mo Huanjing, who was from Dongguan, Guangdong and came to Hangzhou to survive. . At first, the nanny was hard-working, kind to the children, and in good health. Lin Shengbin, who was eager to find a nanny, hired her without further investigation. At the same time, the nanny agency did not introduce the nanny's previous disgraceful behavior to their family.

Mo Huanjing also worked as a nanny before, but she had bad records. One time, I was fired from my job as a full-time nanny at Xu's home in Shaoxing City, Zhejiang Province because she stole two bottles of Moutai from her home.

The second time, I was working as a nanny at Zhou’s home in Pudong New District, Shanghai. I was fired because I repeatedly stole jewelry and property from the owner’s home.

The third time, he stole up to 5,000 yuan from his fellow nanny. Due to the negligence of the intermediary and Mo Huanjing's own unchangeable nature, the root of the disaster was laid.

Happiness finally becomes a phantom

Around 5 a.m. on June 22, 2017, it was the beginning of Lin Shengbin’s most painful time.

In a small community in Hangzhou, Zhejiang, there is his first lover, his virtuous wife, and three children of love. These four people are Lin Shengbin's motivation for hard work and his harbor of happiness. However, after a fire, life is as fragile as a bubble, and all happy life comes to naught.

The root of all this also comes from the nanny Mo Huanjing. Because this nanny was active and had rich experience, Lin Shengbin was assured of having her as her family and gave him a high remuneration.

Unexpectedly, this seemingly diligent nanny often uses his mobile phone to gamble and becomes addicted. He often lost money and had no savings, so he often stole gold and silver jewelry from his master's house and sold them, making a profit of hundreds of thousands.

Seeing that Lin Shengbin didn't notice and was very soft-hearted and kind, he lied and said that there was still 110,000 yuan left to build a house in his hometown. He was very anxious, so Lin Shengbin readily lent her 110,000 yuan. Within a few days, she lost the money. of nothing.

At that time, the nanny, who only had a junior high school education, thought of a way to save people from the fire and tried to ask Lin Shengbin for a reward, but she had no idea that the carbon monoxide produced by the fire would cause poisoning and death.

While Lin Shengbin’s wife and children were sleeping, she quietly picked up a lighter, lit a book on the coffee table and threw it on the sofa. She was about to get water to put out the fire, but when she came out of the house with water, When they found that the fire was too big to save, they fled for their lives, regardless of the mother and son who didn't know it yet. Later, the mother and her son fell into coma due to carbon monoxide poisoning and died in the flames before being rescued by firefighters.

Lin Shengbin, who was on a business trip that day, also prepared gifts bought from other places for his wife and children. After learning of the misfortune, he immediately gave up what he was doing and hurried home.

But what appeared in front of Lin Shengbin were ruins and the cold corpses of his wife and children. His happy family disappeared in the blink of an eye. Unable to accept the cruel facts, Lin Shengbin fell into a coma twice in one month. The instigator was quickly arrested and sentenced to death within a year.

As the person involved, we cannot sympathize with the pain of Lin Shengbin. Everyone has also given their blessings, hoping that he can get over his grief as soon as possible and start his life again. After all, his wife and children who passed away must hope that he can continue to live healthily and happily. .

Get out of the haze and start a new life

Lin Shengbin has been working hard in the mall for a long time, and has also gone through ups and downs in starting a business. His psychological endurance is far stronger than we imagined. After experiencing this hardship , Lin Shengbin focused on charity, because the meaning of money has been weakened to him, and the basis for him to use money to give his relatives happiness is no longer there.

Not long after his wife and children left, Lin Shengbin registered a Weibo account called "My wife and children are in heaven" to express his longing and remembrance of his wife and children.

After that, he actively participated in charity. In April 2019, he donated a lot of clothes to a primary school in the mountains of Qinling Mountains and gave them to children with poor food and clothing as if they were his own children; in June, I went to a simple primary school in Lugu Lake and worked with my friends to build a brand new playground for the school.

During the outbreak of the epidemic at the beginning of this year, people across the country carried out a joint fight against the epidemic. Many people made donations. There was a familiar name on the list of materials receiving donations: Lin Shengbin.

At that time when medical supplies were scarce, Lin Shengbin’s donation of masks worth nearly 100,000 yuan was undoubtedly a timely help. While constantly helping others, he enriched his own life and gradually found new motivation for life.

In October 2019, in order to commemorate his wife, he founded the children's clothing brand "Tongzhen Life", which made the public feel that Lin Shengbin had truly emerged from the "smog".

Recently he appeared in a short video, in which he was seriously exploring the intangible cultural batik process. He carefully observed the finished product and personally performed the actual operation to make a white short-sleeved shirt in strict accordance with the craftsmanship. He was very focused during the production process, and his every move revealed extraordinary temperament and self-cultivation.

The most attractive thing is the smile on his face. It is sunny and energetic, as if he has returned to the life of the happy family a few years ago, but his smile is like a tear gas, which makes the viewer People couldn't help but shed tears of distress. Even though I felt bad that he had endured so much on his own, I was still happy that he had started living a good life again after three years of sinking.

Summary:

The real-life "farmer" Lin Shengbin and the nanny "Snake" are just like the situations in fables. Neither of the two "farmers" received good rewards. In addition to expressing our resentment towards the "snake", we must also teach us to know people, know their faces, but not their hearts. We should not give ourselves completely to others easily, unless we have experienced the precipitation of the process of seeing people's hearts for a long time.

Secondly, it warns us to cherish the people in front of us, because we don’t know which one will come first, tomorrow or disaster. No one knows what will happen tomorrow. It may be a heart-warming surprise or a heartbreaking accident. The only thing we can control and master is the present moment. We must enjoy the present moment and cherish the present moment, because it is always easier to leave and disappear than to accompany and meet.

"Misfortune roams the same road, sometimes befalling one person, sometimes another." - Aeschylus, "Prometheus Bound".

The reason why accidents are called accidents is because they always come unexpectedly. Although things are unpredictable, life still has to go on. You cannot blindly sink in unexpected disasters. You must cheer up in time. There are still many surprises in life. There are many people out there waiting for us to discover who are worthy of our love.