I don't hate it, but I don't appreciate it. To paraphrase Zhao's evaluation of Fang Hung-chien in Fortress Besieged: "You don't hate it, but it's useless." I think this kind of personality is potentially a manifestation of lack of ability. In real life, no one will unconditionally tolerate you and give you a chance because you are very kind.
Yixing is a very capable person, especially in execution. Once you know what you really want, you will take action.