In reality, many buddies always encounter the problem that they can't speak, so they have nothing to say when chatting with their sister-in-law, or their sister-in-law can't pick up a word suddenly.
Maybe when you get here, you should add another sentence: people who are good-looking or rich are right about everything! This sentence is right or wrong, but people who are good-looking may not be able to say good things. On the contrary, some people who are not worth enough know how to make up with emotional intelligence.
Do you think that seniors don't want to talk to you, and then throw away a lot of speech conventions? Yes! Senior threw you a Bo Huang today!
Yes, that's Mr. Huang from Bo Huang, who earned 5 billion yuan at the box office and was called "Qingdao Lady".
Bo Huang worked hard in the entertainment industry for many years, relying on talent instead of facial features (of course). For many years, he was unknown, singing, dancing, opening a factory, visiting caves and taking photos. Later, he was desperately admitted to the Film Academy, but he has been playing some obscure small roles. He has been a nobody for many years in the entertainment industry.
But this has forged his speaking level, and he is generous, decent, humorous and lovely, and is praised as a textbook of emotional intelligence inside and outside the circle.
These wonderful responses include striking back at Zheng Yuling, choking Cai Kangyong, answering S's ridicule, praising Zhao Wei, and resolving the embarrassment of being mistaken for Wang Baoqiang.
Golden Horse Award: Countering Zheng Yuling's pyjamas and teasing
The saying that Bo Huang has a high emotional intelligence originated from the awarding ceremony of the 5th Golden Horse Award. Bo Huang wore a black trench coat and appeared with Zheng Yuling as the awarding guest. After they came to power, Zheng Yuling took the lead in poking fun at Bo Huang, saying that his clothes were not grand enough, and compared them with Andy Lau, Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Jackie Chan in the audience.
Bo Huang said with a smile at that time:
"Because they are guests, they must wear something grand. I have been winning the Golden Horse Award for five years. I have made the Golden Horse Award a home. What should I wear when I get home, right? Dress comfortably when you get home. " By Bo Huang
As soon as this sentence came out, the audience immediately applauded. Hong Kong Zhen, Bo Huang actually dressed well, but Zheng Yuling had to be picky and had no choice but to fight back.
Besides, Bo Huang has appeared in the Golden Horse Awards for five years in a row, and other people would have shown off in an ostentatious manner, but Bo Huang tactfully expressed this meaning and teased these heavenly kings by the way.
So Liu Tianwang took the lead in applauding.
but it's not over.
Anti-choking Cai Kangyong: I've never seen the horse rider
pick up the article, or at the Golden Horse Award. Bo Huang just hit back at Zheng Yuling with a quip, and Cai Kangyong, the host next to him, was immediately unhappy and immediately choked: "Bo Huang, this is my home, not yours." The stars in the audience immediately fell silent, and the black line was all over their faces.
Cai Kangyong, who is known as Taiwan Province's best talker, will defend the home court this time.
Bo Huang didn't panic this time. After selling Meng, he changed the subject:
"Actually, I just saw that you were not fighting alone, and there was a horse with you. For so long, I have only seen people riding horses, but I have never seen a horse rider. " By Bo Huang
The audience burst into laughter and applauded again.
In a simple sentence, Bo Huang teased Cai Kangyong for walking on the red carpet with a horse on his shoulder, then teased him that he was the only one who didn't want to accept this fact, and finally teased Cai Kangyong for being gay.
A short sentence has multiple meanings. It's no wonder that the stars in the audience applauded like thunder for this witty and quick response.
Embarrassment: Being mistaken for Wang Baoqiang and signing autographs conveniently
Stars are afraid of being mistaken by fans, because it's so embarrassing. For example, Bai Baihe and Wang Luodan look alike, and when they respond to this question, they make excuses on their own. Why I am different from her, we have our own characteristics ...
There are no interesting answers except to clarify ourselves and belittle others.
You said that Bo Huang was so ugly, but this happened.
Bo Huang once met a fan at the airport and talked for a long time. As a result, people said, "I like your world without thieves very much." It can be said that any star is devastated! ! ! !
Don't tell me that Bo Huang is not angry yet. He not only generously signed his name, but also noted that it is Wang Baoqiang's name!
Later, when he answered a netizen's question about being mistaken for Wang Baoqiang on the Internet, he replied humorously:
"I am extremely proud of Wang Baoqiang!" By Bo Huang
cleverly turned embarrassment into invisibility.
isn't this skill given to all branches?
praise Zhao Wei: skillfully use push and pull to praise the point
during the promotion of the film Dear, how did Bo Huang evaluate Zhao Wei? Praise her for her good acting? Praise her for making money? Praise her for her good marriage? These are all platitudes, which are meaningless. See what Bo Huang said?
"At first you said that God is fair, but later you found that God is not too fair. Why did God give a person such an appearance and talent, and this time he realized her acting skills, so God is still unfair. " By Bo Huang's evaluation of Zhao Wei
boasting that women actually test men's speaking skills the most. Everyone knows that they want to kiss up, but it's embarrassing to get caught in the bag.
Bo Huang's boast is actually a push-pull skill in chatting. First, he pretended that God was fair, thinking that he was going to say a lot of compliments. As a result, God was unfair in a twist. Zhao Wei could obviously live by his face, but people still have talent. The most important thing is to see her acting skills in this play, so God is a little unfair.
so let's see, buddy, how to praise a girl? Give her a low point first, you have nothing. Then take a turn. You can rely on your face but you have to rely on your talent. The most important thing is the last detail, her acting skills. Therefore, you can praise girls from the big aspects, such as beauty, intelligence and good personality, and finally add a detail, such as being particularly careful and so on.
As soon as Sister Paper hears it, I know that you are feeling it with your heart. You are not exaggerating in general, and you are not exaggerating. This kind of boasting is to your heart.
Advanced praise: One sentence makes the goddess fly
If praising Zhao Wei is a long sentence and a little annoying, then praising Lu Yu in one sentence is a real insight.
When Bo Huang appeared in A Covenant between Lu and Yu, it was the time of the "Five Billions Emperor" fire. In 213, films such as "Demon on a Journey to the West", "The 11st Propose" and "A Man on a Long Road" starring Bo Huang swept over 3 billion votes.
Lu Yu smiled and asked him, "Do you feel particularly angry now?"
The average star may pretend to be serious and say, "No, no, it's all because of who ..."
Such a bland technique is bound to be boring, and the program will not be watched.
what did Bo Huang say? He said:
"That's for sure. We're all here in Lu Yu You Yue. Can we not get angry?" By Bo Huang responded to Chen Luyu
with such a simple sentence, boasting himself and the program.
generous admission is really popular, and at the same time, praise the program, which will make everyone laugh, but will not think that he is not modest, but very real and lovely, don't you think?
Being laughed at makes me ugly: I was very graceful at first.
It is well known that Bo Huang is ugly.
it's a little embarrassing just to be said in person.
When Bo Huang appeared in Kangxi Comes, Xiao S said directly to Bo Huang, "You look very special."
Fortunately, Bo Huang didn't feel embarrassed, but responded humorously:
"At first, she was quite graceful, but later she was abstract." By Bo Huang
dares to face up to his looks, and he can laugh at himself humorously. As soon as this move comes out, the little S is influenced and the whole program becomes active.
There is another actress, NI YAN, who dares to say that Bo Huang is ugly to her face.
NI YAN, the shopkeeper of Tong, and Bo Huang worked together in the film Bullfighting. When NI YAN was interviewed, he said in front of Bo Huang, "I used to work with handsome guys. I played husband and wife with you, and I knew I was going to be an ugly star."
Although it's a joke, it's bound to be embarrassing. Who wants to be called ugly in person? Handsome guys may not accept it!
But Bo Huang took a sentence disapprovingly:
"I'll play with you, and I think I'm going to be a handsome guy." By Bo Huang
Haha, I am embarrassed to run to NI YAN's place.
Being dug in a hole to beat Mr. Ge: Almost killed by a stick
In p>214, the box office of Bo Huang's movie "Heart Flower Road Release" soared again, so a reporter dug a hole for Bo Huang to dance and asked him if he would replace Ge You as "king of comedy".
if you dare to say yes, today's headline is you. if you don't say no, it's a bit fake, isn't it?
Look at what Bo Huang said:
"This era won't stop you from shining, but you can't cover anyone's brilliance, because people once started the world, and we are just younger generations who are moving forward, and we dare not expect anything."
Bo Huang, who made a pun, not only expressed his respect for Uncle Ge You Ge, but also expressed his confidence in striving to surpass him.
EQ is really not a simple Doby's lip service, but at best it can be regarded as cleverness, clever gag and humor to resolve embarrassment and challenges, which is the real cleverness and great wisdom.
It is true that Bo Huang doesn't live by his face, but he still wins the favor of many beautiful stars. These girls all say that they are fans of Bo Huang.
On Xu Jinglei's birthday, Weibo posted a photo of herself with Bo Huang and Shu Qi, and the essay praised Bo Huang for not wanting it.
Not to mention Lin Chi-ling, a beauty in Taiwan Province, who herself said that to marry a man like Bo Huang is necessary.
"My criteria for choosing a spouse is to find it according to his conditions. The height is the same, the constellation is the same, and everything is made by Bo Huang." By Lin Chi-ling
Lin Chi-ling, who has always been a lady, snuggled up to Bo Huang as soon as she saw him.
However, Bo Huang still keeps his dirty wife, and her wife never worries that he is having an affair outside.
Sun Honglei has repeatedly expressed his admiration for Bo Huang in Extreme Challenge, saying that he loves his wife very much and the couple have a good relationship.
Unfinished: An endless textbook of high emotional intelligence
When Bo Huang was just famous, he went out with friends to stand on the roadside and someone recognized him.
He immediately got up and folded his hands, thanking him modestly.
The netizen was very moved. He felt that Bo Huang had no airs, and it was really rare for him to know how grateful he was, so he predicted that Bo Huang would definitely make greater achievements.
There are many words and deeds about Bo Huang's high EQ.
For example, in Extreme Challenge, he gagged with Sun Honglei, helped Wang Xun, joked with Show Lo LAY, and interacted with Huang Lei, with many details.
That's why many people like to watch this man's show, just for Bo Huang and Sun Honglei. It's interesting.
Finally, let's end with a sentence that netizens praised Bo Huang:
Bo Huang began to convince me of what Ma Yun said: "A man's appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent."
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