The object of cheating is a woman named Zhao, who is the champion of Miss Universe in China. I don't know her, and no one around me knows her.
Dānlín admitted his mistake for the first time today. Pacify? About public sentiment. In fact, even if he kept his mouth shut, it was nothing more than his personal choice.
In this era of rapid information explosion, we have witnessed many celebrities cheating, articles, Michael Chen, Liu Haozhi and so on. The article was derailed and Ma Yili forgave him; Hawick Lau was suspected of cheating, and Yang Mi chose to believe him. Will Xie forgive the cheating?
First of all, let's review the love story of this fairy couple in the past sports world:
14-year-old Xie fell in love with the tall and long-legged female player of Guangdong team at first sight. From unrequited love to confession, from open love to success, brothers and sisters in badminton once envied others.
Dānlín, who is stubborn on the court, never wants to lose to anyone, but he is willing to lose intentionally. Xie (Q: How did I chase you before? Xie: He comes to the women's team to play with me every day, and I win every time! )
Xie, the champion female athlete on the field, once publicly said: Willing to be a woman who cooks soup for Dānlín. ?
After their marriage, they are often regarded by the media as a typical example of showing love. 20 12 London Olympic Games, defeated and won the championship, and Xie's refueling action in the stands was recorded by the camera for a long time.
Dānlín won the world badminton championship again on 20 13. He ran to the comment desk and kissed his wife. The live broadcast of the picture was greeted with cheers in the gymnasium.
When you win a great victory, you can't hide your joy and impulse to share with your family. The love between two people, at least at that time, is sincere and admirable.
But 20 13 is a watershed. Since 20 14, the news about Xie has decreased sharply, far less than two years ago. Even if there is news, it is mostly a formal competition occasion. As Xie's family, watching from a distance in the stands.
From 20 14, Dānlín opened Weibo to share his personal affairs. Received gifts from fans and thanked them; Before the final, I talked to myself. There are also some opinions about badminton.
I just haven't heard from his wife, not one.
It's not like Dānlín showing his love in the studio and the stadium, caring about his wife's daily life and never sparing to share his feelings for her. Some fans also found the problem:
Dānlín is very kind to his mother. He sends a Weibo every year to express his love for his mother.
However, I still can't see my wife at all on Valentine's Day, Chinese Valentine's Day and wedding anniversary. I only sent a photo of a family of three when I gave birth to a baby.
Motherly love is great. I have never accused Dānlín of making remarks about his mother in the Weibo. I hope no one will misunderstand me. However, a benign family relationship should never be dominated by the mother-child relationship, but must be dominated by the husband-wife relationship. This is a view that psychology can prove.
From 20 14, Dānlín gradually ignored his wife. This will amplify the possibility of his cheating.
I used it? Possibility? These three words are because I firmly believe that no matter how loving couples are, no matter how envious they are of others, they may change their minds, but the probability is different.
Teacher Wang Lu wrote an article, "I believe everyone has the gene to cheat", which I deeply agree with. Whether a person will cheat is only related to two things: 1. Whether the temptation is big enough; 2. Is the relationship with the other half good enough?
Cheating is a continuous process. A little less emotion and a little more temptation will change people's mentality. People are fickle animals, not to mention three or five years, that is, March, May, or even three or five weeks, which is enough to change the mood from like to dislike.
In fact, no matter how good love is, it will naturally carry germs and impurities in romance, be selfish, calculate and be distracted for a while. All we have to do is publicize its beauty, maintain its health and accept its minor flaws. As long as the topic is good, don't lose heart easily and don't give up easily. If you really can't help it, try to let it go, and don't complain and cry hysterically. Really can't.
So, don't brush in the circle of friends? I don't believe in love anymore? . Love is always there, and both stars and the public can feel the happiness and warmth it brings.
Love is eternal, and it will not change.
Become a person.