1, every give-up must be a sublimation, otherwise don't give up; Every choice must be a sublimation, otherwise don't choose. The greatest pleasure of being a man is to get what you want through struggle, so shortcomings mean that you can further improve, and deficiencies mean that you can make further efforts. When a person needs nothing, his living space is deprived, and he slowly moves away from happiness.
Only those who love themselves can love, and those who have money can give gifts. A person who gives people fun in life must be a person full of fun in life. A person who doesn't love himself can neither be a lovely person nor really love others. Although the scars of a person's mind are hidden deeply, they will also be revealed through their own words and deeds. The human mind is like a mirror. What kind of world you perceive depends on how you look at yourself.
3, open-minded, is a kind of day don't talk about self-esteem, don't talk about self-thick. Open-minded people are always chic, open-minded, enthusiastic, cheerful and supercilious. To learn to be open-minded, we must learn to be indifferent, willing to be quiet, willing to be ordinary, not happy with things, not sad about things, not humble for humble, not hurting ordinary, giving up the desire for quick success, eliminating distractions, doing things in a down-to-earth manner, and being sincere and frank.
On the road of life, we may be proud of the spring breeze, or we may be bumpy. Anyway, we must stick to it. Whether it is glory or humiliation, we should face it with a peaceful attitude, less helplessness and emotion, and more calm and indifferent. "No shame, just look at the flowers before the court; I have no intention of staying long, and I will wait and see the clouds in the sky. " Peace of mind, life is a calm water; Relax, life is a free cloud.
5. The more you can't let go, the easier it is to lose; The more you try to catch it, the faster it will disappear. What you want more often doesn't belong to you; The more you try to grasp, the more you often lose. The more you value it, the less you can get it; The more you care, the more you can't catch it. Most of the things you want are not with you. Life is always practiced in pursuit and realized in gains and losses. Not persistent, everything goes with fate. Only by letting go can we grasp the present.
6. What matters in life is experience. Bitter or happy, let bygones be bygones. Recalling the past will only increase sadness. When you hide your face and sigh, time passes and happiness slips through your fingers. There is no injustice in the world, only an unjust heart. Don't complain, don't hate, don't care about everything, and the past is like smoke. Experienced, drunk, awake, broken, finished, forget it! Cherish the existing life, happiness is around you.
7. To be a man, you must be able to look up and bow your head. Between leaning up and leaning down, it is not only a gesture, but also an attitude and a quality. Looking up in adversity is a kind of courage and confidence; Bowing your head in prosperity is a calm and low-key thing. It is a kind of backbone to look up when you are humble, and it is a kind of humility to bow your head when you are high. Man struggles upwards, but water flows downwards. To be a man, you must have the courage to strive for the upper reaches and the atmosphere of being willing to bow your head.
8. Indifference is the most beautiful thing in life. The mountain is silent, but the deep water is silent. Glory belongs to plain, not mediocre, nor indifferent, but to the realm of simplicity, tranquility and profundity, profound persistence, inner peace, in-depth calmness and selflessness. The weak are simple, tolerant, cautious, persistent, not happy about things, not sad about themselves, indifferent to their hearts, living like running water, comfortable and peaceful.
9. With hope, happiness will come to you; If you have a dream, opportunities will cover you; Stick to it and happiness will always be with you; Sincerely, peace will follow you; If you have good thoughts, the sun will shine on you; If you are beautiful, warmth will surround you; With great love, sublimity will follow you; Be considerate of others, and the true feelings will be returned to you; Be grateful, and noble people will favor you.
10, rather than envy others, be sure of yourself. Shallow envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day. Blind comparison will not bring happiness, but will only bring trouble; It will not bring happiness, but only pain. Each of us should recognize ourselves, find our own position, go our own way and live our own life. -with a normal heart, happiness comes naturally.
1 1, bad mentality, life is easy to get old. What kind of heart, you are what kind of person. People are not afraid of vicissitudes of life, but of old hearts. An old heart, like dusk, can't see the breeding of light, only darkness spreads in the heart. The old heart brings despair to life. Despair is like dust, which drowns talent and makes the years grow old. Martyrs are full of courage and young mind in their twilight years, and the more they live, the younger they are!
12. Change if you don't like it. If you can't change it, then adapt. If you can't adapt, you have to avoid it. If you can't even avoid it, you have to let go. Generally speaking, capable people will choose to change, lazy people will choose to adapt, cowardly people will choose to escape, and brave people will choose to let go.
13, help others when you are happy; Be content when you live a normal life; Learn to enjoy life in adversity. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes, because it is not worth it; Don't punish others with your own mistakes, because when you hurt others, you will be hurt again; Don't punish yourself with your mistakes. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, just look for the reason carefully, learn from it and correct it!
14, we came to this world hard, not because we are sad about what we see every day. We cried enough when we were born, and no one can go back alive. So, don't spend all your time on depression, belief, loneliness, love, hate and waste, dreams and regrets. You have to believe that tomorrow is impossible.
15, the most exhausting thing is often not the distance of the road, but the depression in your heart; The most decadent thing is often not the bumpy future, but the loss of self-confidence; The most painful thing is often not the misfortune of life, but the disillusionment of one's own hopes; The most desperate thing is often not the blow of setbacks, but the death of one's own heart; So look down on everything, relax a little, and everything will get better gradually.
16, I gradually realized that caring too much about others often hurts myself; Slowly, I realized that with the passage of time, fewer and fewer people will be kind to themselves; Slowly, I understand that many things can be met but not sought, and many things can only be owned once; You gradually realize that being sincere to a person may not be rewarded, and people who are ignored by you may often value you the most; Slowly, I realized that the reality is so helpless; I gradually realized that I had grown up.
17, life is like a cup of tea, it won't be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. Without the bitterness at the beginning, there will be no sweetness later. Bitterness and sweetness, like a symphony, are integrated into our lives. Rejecting "bitterness" is equivalent to closing the door of "sweetness". You know, the higher you climb, the more thorns you walk through. In this case, it is better to welcome it happily than to accept it sadly. Two postures, two lives, and your own life is up to you.
18, we are all like clockwork machines. We are exhausted every day, but we often ignore our hearts: Are we happy? Are you happy? Are you tired? Is it worth it? In order to seek happiness, we ran all the way and finally found that we had lost the direction of happiness. Walk slowly, sit down by yourself, and settle down to do what you really like. This is the real life. If the heart is restless, happiness will not come; Without harmony, life will not be fresh.
19, my heart pain can only be treated by myself; The most important thing is to be happy today; Good mood is invented by oneself; Do what you should do with peace of mind; Don't always give yourself a hard time; Don't chase worldly fame and fortune; Extremely undesirable; Don't care too much about other people's comments; The more evil thoughts, the deeper the pain; Be careful not to live too tired; Everyone has his own way of life; Don't be a slave to wishes.
20. We can often forgive those who make mistakes all the time, but we can't forgive those who make mistakes occasionally. When a person never speaks well of you, occasionally speaking well of you will make you excited; And a person who always speaks well of you will occasionally make you feel bad for a few days. These are often due to our own judgment and thinking problems, but our psychology is at work. Pro is sparse, far is fragrant!