Self is when people value themselves the most and at the same time they don’t worry about other people’s values ??and emotions.
Today people are self-aware of their knowledge, but not of their own selves.
Confidence: Me and everyone else, confidence is a state of mind that makes you feel valuable and important while valuing the value and emotions of others.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
We all have to have self-confidence that we must have in life, but we should draw a line that we should not cross where our self begins:
The fine line can be explained by the following example Confidence and Self: I can do it - Confidence. Only I can do that - Self. When you feel you are right - Confidence. When you feel like only you are right - ego.
I am a trainee in the 101st training camp. I come from ** and am an audit director. I used to not be confident enough in myself, afraid of insufficient professional knowledge and afraid of being scolded by the leader, so I was afraid of doing anything. I am afraid of my hands and feet, and become nervous and anxious in meetings, tremble when I speak, feel like others are laughing at me, and become less confident! I'm afraid of meetings, I'll run away whenever I can, I'm very repelled, I feel like the sky is falling, and I feel extremely stressed just thinking about it a few days before the meeting! Trying to find reasons not to attend the meeting!
After signing up, I am no longer afraid to express myself in front of strangers. Now I enjoy learning. The more I learn, the more transparent I become and full of courage. In the office, you must speak when you should speak, express yourself, express yourself, and show your best side.
I am a student from the 101st episode. I am *** from Shanxi. I am now working as a general worker in a Shanghai cosmetics factory. I have been an introverted child since I was a child. I dare not play in crowded places and have low self-esteem. Growing up, I didn't get along well with my colleagues at work. I often hid in corners and didn't have many friends. After I got married, my mother-in-law didn't like me very much, and I couldn't get along with my husband. We didn't speak the same language, and my life was not happy at all. After working in Shanghai, I felt very uncomfortable as I was unfamiliar with the place. Once, after being trained by a leader, I was asked to sign an autograph. I was very nervous at the time, and my hand was shaking when I wrote. I had never felt this way before, and I have been afraid of writing ever since. It has become increasingly serious in recent years.
Now, my thinking and life have been greatly improved. I am no longer pessimistic. I am more energetic and in a better mood. I also actively greet my colleagues. I am no longer nervous when I see my boss, and I dare to Speak. Now I have a very close relationship with my family, and my mentality has improved and my energy is high. I like the changed myself very much. I am grateful to the teachers and classmates of Teacher Zhang Jie’s School of Management and Life for their company.
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