First, arrogance

It is good to have a louder name, which will improve your child's fortune faster, but too loud will often form arrogance. Such a name will have a certain impact on the child's interpersonal relationship, and of course it will indirectly affect the child's career and feelings, so that the child will be defeated again and again.

Second, condescending.

The so-called condescending, that is, the name is too small, that is to say, the name is not loud at all, and such a name is also a taboo. Such a name often can't make children develop better, hinder their career achievements, and rarely make achievements in their lives.

Third, taboo words.

The so-called word is a combination of a surname and a word as a name. Such words often lack individuality, and it is easy to do things without specificity and concentration. Moreover, having personality means that there are many people to help, so if you don't have personality, it means that no one will help you, and you will be isolated and lonely.

Fourth, indecent caution.

Everyone knows many so-called indecent words, that is to say, words that are difficult to read are indecent words. If a surname and a name are combined together, it will be hard to read, which will often make people feel disgusted, and even give themselves some indecent nicknames, which will make them feel humiliated and have a serious psychological impact on themselves.

Five, improper appearance

The so-called improper appearance means that the appearance does not match. For example, if your surname is Fu, then your name should be matched with words with left and right structures, instead of upper and lower structures and then left and right structures. Such a name makes people feel uncomfortable at first sight Of course, if you talk to the customer and sign it yourself, then the customer will look uncomfortable and make people feel disgusted.

Sixth, the meaning of this word is wrong.

In a name, the meaning of a word is also very important. If a name is beautiful in appearance, easy to read and suitable for one's own needs, then the meaning of the word is inappropriate, and such a name cannot be used. The meaning of the word also represents one's yearning. If people don't have this beautiful yearning, then there is no meaning in living in the world, so the word meaning must be appropriate.

Ten-point naming taboo

1. Avoid the names of ancestors and sages.

The Book of Changes in Han Dynasty is named after its ancestors. One is that the Han people traditionally talk about seniority. Taking the names of ancestors not only disturbs the order of generations; And it will be considered disrespectful to our ancestors. Second, due to the particularity of the Han nationality. China people inherit their stepfather's surname first, and then give a person a name. However, some ethnic minorities or foreigners have their own names, and their fathers' names or their own names are combined with their mothers' and fathers' names. For example, the French name is usually three paragraphs, namely, the real name, the mother's surname and the father's surname. If the Chinese name inherits the father's surname and the ancestor's name, there is no difference between the two, so you can't tell whether Li Si is a grandfather or a son.

Under the feudal system, people should not only respect Zu Jingzong, but also regard him as supreme. Even calling the monarch by his first name is a big violation. During the Qianlong period of Yongzheng in the Qing Dynasty, it was this one that could punish people to death and affect the nine clansmen. So this taboo is called national taboo. But as far as modern people are concerned, only the names are concerned, and generally the names of great men and celebrities are not used. However, because some people revere great men or celebrities, they deliberately take his name. For example, Li Dalin and Zhang Dayi were named after Li Dazhao and Stalin. Of course, people surnamed Zhao and Guan can't be named after Zilong and Yunchang, otherwise they will be divided into the past and the present.

Step 2 avoid cold words

Names are used for communication, otherwise, names lose their value of existence. Today is the era of computers, and the vast majority of Chinese characters stored by computers are limited to commonly used words. If some uncommon words are used in naming, which most people don't know, it will definitely affect the communication between people. Naming with uncommon words can only increase the difficulty and trouble of others' work in vain.

The motivation for people to choose uncommon words when naming names is actually very simple, that is, to be unconventional. But the commonly used words that people generally know are three or four thousand words, and the naming is mainly for others, not to show off their knowledge. Someone once said, for example, if you apply for a job in a certain department, if the supervisor doesn't recognize your name after reading your resume, then the impression on you must be very vague. If he mispronounced your name when calling you, and you corrected it, this scene may embarrass the leader. The leader will feel embarrassed or even angry because of losing face, and you may feel contempt because the leader doesn't even know your name. In the process of getting along with superiors and subordinates in the future, some disharmony or disharmony may occur.

Naming should avoid sameness and sameness, but it should not rely on the use of uncommon words. The use of uncommon words affects the image and hinders communication, which is not worth the loss.

The number of Chinese characters in China is huge, with 42,000 words in Kangxi Dictionary alone, 174 words. In addition, there are often very subtle differences between traditional Chinese characters and simplified Chinese characters, ancient and modern Chinese characters, regular script characters and popular Chinese characters. In the old days, people named it, and they liked to look up the Kangxi dictionary, which was not worth taking. To use reference books, the most ideal one is Modern Chinese Dictionary. It also includes the words under each word, which is of great reference value for naming. Attention should also be paid to the use of this reference book, and uncommon words should be avoided when using it.

3. Avoid monotonous repetition of name fonts

Some people like to make a fuss about the physical structure of Chinese characters and give them names. For example, the names Shi, Lei, Lin, Sen, Nie and Er are examples. The aesthetic effect of this naming is quite good, but it's a pity that our surnames can be used so little. And even if Shi, Lin and Nie have three surnames, it is impossible for everyone to use this method.

If the radicals of some people's names are exactly the same, it will make people feel monotonous. Especially when signing calligraphy, we will feel more strongly that no matter how the names of Jiang Langtao and the radicals are arranged, there will be a dull and monotonous feeling, which will not produce arbitrary, changeable, tortuous and coherent aesthetic effects. Since it is named after Chinese characters, we should not only consider the elegant and exquisite abstract beauty in the sense, but also pay attention to the changeable image beauty when writing.

The above example shows that there is a collocation problem between the first name and the last name. If the body structure has not changed, the name will appear stiff.

In the past, there were two ways to use glyphs for naming. One was to split the surname into fame, and the other was to add the surname to the name. The so-called dividing surnames into first names refers to intercepting a part of a name as a first name or dividing a surname into two parts as a first name. For example, Yi Yin, assistant minister of Shang Tang, took some Yin surnames. In addition, modern famous musicians Nie Er, Lao She, Zhang Dagong, Ji, Dong and Yang also belong to this category. In addition, Lei Yutian and He also divided their surnames into two parts as their names. In ancient times, some people divided their names by words, such as Xie Ao, a patriotic poet in the Southern Song Dynasty. The words were true and separated from the names. The characters Sanyi in Zhang Yi's works in Ming Dynasty, Ark in Xu Fang's works, Wen Yu in Song Mei's works, Tong Ren in You Dong's works in Qing Dynasty and Ji Ren in Lin Ji's works all belong to this category. Also like Mao Qiling in the Qing Dynasty. Others divide their names into numbers, such as Gu Yue, an old man of Hu Jue, and Shuiyue Tianlu of Xu Wei in Qing Dynasty.

Adding a name means adding some strokes or radicals to a surname to form a new word, such as Linsen, Seo Woo, Jin Xin and Li Ji. Sometimes, I like to use the same names for radicals and promote it as a naming technique, such as Li Ji and Zhang Chi. This technology is not worth popularizing.

Step 4 avoid polyphonic words

Most surnames in China belong to monosyllabic characters. There are also some surnames that belong to polyphonic characters, such as the word le. This kind of surname will obviously cause trouble in communication. If the disyllabic surname is a helpless fact, then the drafting of the name can completely avoid this trouble. There is a student named Lele in a certain place in Shandong, and the teacher doesn't know how to call him in class. The teacher was stumped by this name. The three words of this name are all polyphonic and have eight pronunciations. Readers can organize themselves if they are interested.

It seems that this student's parents are deliberately against the whole society. A name actually has eight pronunciations. How to use it in communication situations? In the end, others dare not call if they want to, for fear that they will be laughed at if they call it wrong, and they will suffer. If others can't call, you can avoid it without calling. If a person's name is not called or used, what is the value of the name?

Therefore, polyphonic words should be avoided as much as possible. If you want to use it, it is best to link pronunciation and pronunciation into meaning to mark it. For example: Cui Letian and Meng. The former is happy to read L. The latter explained that he was happy to read through the rest of the chapters? . The last one tells you what meaningful reading is.

There are quite a few polyphonic words in Chinese, usually using only one sound. When naming such polyphonic words, don't worry about misunderstanding when using them.

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