How to chat with blind date WeChat is an unavoidable topic for single men and women, but there will be many problems in blind date. Many people don't know how to chat after adding WeChat. Here's how to chat with blind date WeChat.

How to chat with blind date WeChat 1 1. How to chat with blind date WeChat?

1, two people don't know each other, so we must find a topic to talk about. In fact, sometimes people like to eat, so when chatting with each other, you can choose a special food to start with, talk about some delicious things you have eaten recently and recommend them to each other. At the same time, you can ask each other what kind of food they like, so that two people can have a topic to talk about.

2. A successful chat will make people feel unfinished, and sometimes even want the other person to meet you. When you speak, you should pay attention to where it ends. When two people talk enthusiastically, you must not end the topic, but after the enthusiasm lasts for a period of time, of course, not after menstruation, so that the other person will leave an impression in his mind and feel that it is just a pleasant chat.

I don't know how to contact you when chatting. You can ask each other for help. Of course, it's not substantial help. It's just a language method. For example, if you have something you want to eat, but don't know where to go, you can ask the other person to recommend yourself, or when a friend has a birthday, you don't know what gift to give the other person for advice.

Second, add WeChat prologue for the first time

When two people start chatting, they can first observe some information about her, such as her signature, or start from her circle of friends, such as the other person's name is pumpkin. How can you say that there is such a warm south at this time? This time, right? Most of them are responding to themselves.

Or when two people start chatting, praise each other, but not too much. Just after seeing his circle of friends, they should know some information about him, so they can talk about some topics that he is more interested in, which is also a better way to start.

In fact, many people in life will choose blind date, but blind date is a very embarrassing thing, because two strangers sit together and don't know what topic they like, so they don't know what to talk about. So how to chat with the blind date is something that both people need to know. Now is the era when WeChat is popular. When two blind date objects are in contact, they will add each other's WeChat, but how to make an opening remark after adding WeChat?

You need to be ready to chat. It is best to find some interesting topics from the beginning, which can be carried out in a humorous way. This will attract the attention of the other party and make the other party want to know more about your thoughts. If you don't know what the other person is during the chat, you can try to ask if you are interested, and you can see it from his answer. If you reply quickly, it means that he is interested in this aspect.

How to chat with the blind date WeChat first 2: Describe yourself first.

Because we already know that the other party is a blind date, we don't have to beat around the bush. When you just add the other party's WeChat, you'd better introduce yourself first. Of course, if you describe it directly, it will be embarrassing and far away. So, when you start chatting with each other, you can choose a humorous way to start. You can say hello with expression packs, which is also a way that young people like.

Then describe your work, family conditions and current situation. Of course, don't be so blunt when introducing. You can try to be gentle and have no sense of distance. But at this time, boys need to keep in mind that introducing themselves does not mean that they can take the initiative to ask about each other's situation. Even if you really want to know each other's situation, don't force questions, otherwise this way of communication will make girls feel strongly uncomfortable and will be particularly exclusive.

If a girl is really interested in you, if she really wants to talk to you, she will take the initiative to mention some of her own situation in future contact. Therefore, boys must not worry. If you force them to ask questions from the beginning, they will have a strong purpose and make people very uncomfortable. Whether it is a blind date girl or a girl you know, you should treat them equally and have minimum respect.

Second: we can find topics of mutual interest.

If you have a good first impression with the other person, and the other person has no obvious rejection, then you can continue to talk. You can ask the other person what you are interested in, and then try to mention some topics that the other person is interested in during the chat, so as to narrow the distance with the other person and increase some goodwill.

However, boys must pay attention to the degree of mastery of this process. After all, they are new acquaintances. At this time, whether you are joking or chatting normally, you must maintain a certain degree of discretion. If there is no good sense of distance, it will make girls feel disgusted. In this process, you can also send some small gifts to each other appropriately, paying attention to the fact that the gifts must not be too expensive. For example, send a cup of milk tea, buy a cake, send a small clip and so on.

These gifts are not too expensive. Although everyone is not familiar with them, I don't think it is too much to accept them. When the other person accepts your kindness and returns it, there will probably be a chance to have dinner on the next date, so that you can continue to communicate with me. There will be more topics later.

How to chat with the blind date WeChat 3 First, WeChat greets the opening remarks.

The prologue is your social card. Opening remarks are very important in the first chat with the blind date. The quality of opening remarks will directly affect your next chat, so it is necessary to master some opening remarks skills in WeChat chat.

1, starting with the details

Boys who pay attention to details can't be wrong in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl's WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends and so on. And then start the topic from the details.

For example, the girl's nickname on WeChat is "Flying Fish", and you can say the opening words: "Do you particularly like to eat fish, so it's called Flying Fish Cute". For example, girls' circle of friends often basks in pets. You can directly say, "Girls who like pets are very caring."

Of course, everyone should be specific according to the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as the opening remarks.

2. Praise the details

Women are vain creatures, and they all want to be praised and recognized by others. Knowing this psychological feature of women, we can start by praising girls. Of course, praise is not perfunctory and exaggerated. Be sure to pay attention to details and praise girls.

Details can be found from girls' hairstyles, makeup, clothes, accessories, hobbies and so on. Praise for details will be sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle and make you look small." Such praise for details will give girls a different feeling.

Second, the chat content

Chat content is how to find a topic in chat. The prologue is just chatting with girls, and the core of chatting lies in the content of chatting. The key depends on how you find a topic, how to talk about interesting feelings through the topic, and how to connect the topic with two people. After two people are familiar with each other, they must learn to talk about the topic with ambiguous feelings.

The steps to determine the relationship between two people are: stranger-friend stage-ambiguous stage-dating stage-love stage. Chatting with blind date is also such a step. Just after adding the blind date WeChat, I have a basic understanding with the other party first, and then lead the topic to the ambiguous stage step by step.

You can find topics from hobbies, clothes, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV movies, current fashion and so on. The topic is best humorous and interesting, focusing on attracting each other in the early stage, enhancing ambiguity in the middle stage, and inviting people to meet later.

Let's look at the following chat record:

Man: "I just went on a business trip and passed by the coffee shop where we dated last time, and I remembered our first date." (open the topic)

Woman: "You remember it so clearly."

Man: "Haha, I still remember you blushing shyly" (recalling details)

Woman: "Haha, isn't that the first blind date?"

Man: "If I see your red face, I really want to pinch it" (upgrade relationship)

Female: "If you pinch it, you will lose it."

Man: "OK, then I will give my life as compensation" (the girl didn't resist, and continued to work hard to improve the relationship)

Woman: "Hey, I don't want it."

Man: "I know a restaurant that makes Sichuan food." The food is really real. Don't you like spicy food? I'll take you to try it one day "(vague invitation).

Woman: "Really? I'm still a little greedy. "

Man: "Then it's a deal, you greedy cat" (confirmation date)