Insight 1:
Enjoy the process.
Matches don't cry because they are extinguished, just because they have burned; The eagle will not be depressed because its wings are broken, just because it has flown; Flowers will not be sad because of withering. It is precisely because they have bloomed before that we should not be discouraged by failure. It is precisely because the value of life often lies in the process, not in the result. Therefore, only by enjoying the process can we realize the benefits of life.
Enjoy the process, underestimate the gains and losses, and get pleasure.
After winning the Nobel Prize, Madame Curie gave the medals to her daughter to make toys. All she cares about is doing experiments, and the pleasure of exploring the truth is far greater than that medal! Coincidentally, at the Sydney Olympic Games in 2000, Russian diver Xiong Ni missed the gold medal, but instead of being depressed and decadent, he smiled and said that his every jump was a kind of enjoyment and he was very happy.
Xiong Ni failed and Madame Curie succeeded, but why are they so happy? The reason is that they enjoy the process and take the gains and losses lightly. If Xiong Ni was depressed by failure and Madame Curie was satisfied by success, would they still be happy? The answer is obviously no, yes, the road of life is always full of ups and downs, but as long as we learn and understand the process of enjoyment, then all the gains and losses, fame and fortune, are just fleeting, so that we can get pleasure.
Only by enjoying the process can we know the benefits of life and get the purest satisfaction.
The father of Pinter, a famous British writer, was an ordinary tailor, but he didn't feel inferior because of the disparity between his position and his son. He often educates his son: I am happy to make clothes for others, and the benefit of my life lies in doing things that are beneficial to others. But in ancient times there was a king who asked his coachman to ride a horse and gave him the place where the horse ran. But the coachman kept running, trying to win more positions. He was exhausted on land.
Pinter's father can live on Pinter, but he insists on self-sufficiency, helps others and enjoys the process of making clothes. For him, making clothes is all the fun of his life. But what about the coachman? Greedy heart makes him unsatisfied, dare to ask him if he enjoys the surrounding scenery when riding a bike? If he doesn't know how to enjoy and satisfy, what good is his life?
At present, many students jump off a building when they fail in the college entrance examination. They just don't enjoy the process of understanding. They study hard just for a paper diploma. Once they fail the exam, they jump off the building. Did you wipe out all the efforts of 12 years in one exam? The result is often a temporary excitement or depression, and the process brings the most precious experience. As teenagers, we should enjoy reading and live happily, because life lies in the process!
Insight 2:
Enjoy the process (introduction to Li Ka-shing)
"At every stage of life, there are things that can only be achieved at that stage. Appreciate all the troubles and happiness you are dealing with at the moment and cherish those feelings, because it is very likely that you will never find that feeling again. "
When I saw the above passage on the website, it was like the branches withered in late winter suddenly sown new green in the spring breeze overnight, and it was like sleeping in a lonely night and being awakened by a thunderbolt. The so-called "one word awakens the dreamer" is exactly the case.
Process ... process is very important!
Each stage is perfected by a process, and connecting each growth stage with the process is a life. In the impetuous growth, we often ignore or ignore the importance and necessity of the process, always fantasizing that everything can be done overnight and expecting to reach the sky in one step. But history and reality, two honest people, tell us that this is a mirage, just like an addict saying that he went into space, saw aliens and shook hands. Therefore, growth without process is an illusion that no longer exists.
Perhaps something unexpected has happened, and some people seem to have matured overnight (this phenomenon is a common plot in great stories). Just like the kitchen god played by Stephen Chow, he turned white overnight after being treated coldly by the world, and turned into an invincible kitchen god and god with "ecstasy meal" in the competition of kitchen gods. This seems to be a turning point of great enlightenment, ups and downs, great joy and great sorrow, as if each stage can be natural without fermentation. However, this is not the case. Behind every sign is the formation of appearances. As people say, people usually see the scenery and glory of success, but always ignore the sadness and hardship behind success.
From the day we were born, we became the golden shackles of our parents, and then grew from a burdened protagonist to a young man crowned in his twenties and began to be independent. After independence, we changed from a burdened protagonist to a completely independent protagonist, and then began to grow from sharing parental responsibilities to fully assuming all responsibilities. This is a process of the protagonist's transformation and orientation.
What is the process? The process is to destroy fantasy, break the hot air balloon floating in mid-air, down-to-earth, step by step. The description of the process has always been hearsay, and no one can give you a correct concept. When you go from step to step, you may find a perfect interpretation of the process.
Just like every excellent actor, it is a process from walk-on to superstar. Therefore, ignoring and ignoring the process is against the law of development, just as the corresponding system that violates the law of development must have a rigid stage. The essential meaning of a good beginning and a good ending is to follow the perfect process and complete the transition at the least cost and with the greatest effect. Development is the last word, and hard development is unreasonable.
In our young growth, the pressure response to contact with society comes from inner impetuousness and spiritual blindness, which leads to doubts and vacillations about the growth process.
Loneliness is an inevitable stage of growth, and it is precisely because of loneliness that individuals can understand that "I think, therefore I am". If loneliness is rejected and personality is replaced by sex, then the tide of people drifting with the tide will be a fleeting wave, lost in the rolling world of mortals. (qq signature classic sentence)
"Can stand loneliness, can't stand loneliness, can't stand loneliness, can't stand loneliness."
It is very important to learn and understand the process of enjoyment, because each stage is unique and can never be found back. If you feel that every stage of your growth process is tasteless and you can't give up, then the life connected by every process will be a cartoon with no theme, no plot and blurred lines. Even if you turn it out one day, it will be even more incomprehensible than outsiders.
At every stage of our growth, everything that seems difficult or even frustrating in front of us may seem so insignificant in the future. We don't have to be afraid of suffering, besides knowing that the firewood under suffering will eventually be annihilated, we should also know the mature breath that comes out after suffering.
We should love the pain and joy in every stage of growth. Even every failure and setback should be sung. It is because of pain that you break out of the cocoon, because of wind and rain that you bloom, because you grow up, because you love it, because you only enjoy it. ...
Insight 3:
Enjoy the process.
Some people say that life is boring; Some people say that life is like a huge trap; Some people say that life
Is the source of trouble. I want to say that the difficulties in life are not terrible. Treating life calmly will benefit you in the end.
When I watched the fisherman go home happily, I thought he must have gained a lot this day. However, just when I went in to look, I found that the bucket was empty. I can't help asking the fisherman, "Why are you so happy? You haven't caught 1 fish yet! " The fisherman smiled and said, "Don't you know? The greatest pleasure of fishing is not what your result is, but whether you really made efforts and did your duty in the process of fishing. So even if I didn't get anything, I think I should be happy because I gave! " Yes, in the fisherman's eyes, even if there is no harvest, he enjoys the fun of fishing!
When a beautiful butterfly emerges from its cocoon, we can't help admiring her beauty. As we all know, how much effort has been put into the exhibition of these wings. The butterfly knows. She understood her hard-won self, and even more understood that without the painstaking preparation of the former, how could she have today's wonderful beauty? The final result is important, but the process is also precious. Although her life span is short, she knows that she is a real butterfly and enjoys that sad journey. She is very satisfied. (strong personality signature)
I can't help feeling sorry for the cleaner when he cleans the busy market. I asked her, "Why do you clean the street? Even if you clean up, others will not applaud you. " The cleaner smiled and said, "Don't you think I am a happy person? When cleaning the streets, I pay attention not to the results, but to the fun at work. In this process, I understand that even if it is a big difficulty, you don't have to choose to escape. To understand, we must treat life calmly! "
Yes, treat life calmly. Even if there are thousands of disappointments in life, you still enjoy it.
The fun of the process. The process is precious, and I hope it can inspire you to cope with life calmly.
Feeling 4:
Enjoy the process.
In the struggle of life, success is of course the best result. However, for those who are destined to be mediocre, life is immersed in the ocean of mediocrity. Are their lives really bad? On the other hand, for those who have stood on the top of success, when they suddenly look back, they may find that I have achieved nothing but fame and jealousy. They often ignore the process of hard work, and the vines of this process may be more brilliant than the flowers of success. Therefore, it is essential to enjoy the process. Xiaohe composition network zww
Life will be enjoyed anytime and anywhere, and enjoyment comes from that beautiful process. Xiaohe composition network zww
In daily life, there are indeed many people around us who only pursue the ending and don't pay attention to the process. Just like in understanding, some students only pay attention to their grades, but don't appreciate the sweat process of getting good grades at all, or expect to get something for nothing, or enjoy it, and most of them end in failure. Therefore, the ending is not the most beautiful, but the process of striving to realize your dreams is the most beautiful. When we do a calculation problem, if we write directly according to the answer, it can only be someone else's answer. It doesn't belong to you, just because you get nothing from it, you don't think about the process and gradually get the answer. Maybe when we are doing a difficult topic, we should study it carefully, think about its root, and then follow the trace to find the answer. This result will be gratifying, because we have paid the sweat that should be satisfied, and the harvest will not let our efforts fail.
Madame Curie is a famous female scientist in Poland. She won the Nobel Prize for discovering and refining the radioactive element radium. This is the supreme honor of the scientific community! But few people really appreciate the hardships of her struggle. This is what she and her husband Curie got after thousands of experiments with thousands of tireless days and nights, precious youth, healthy body and beautiful face. However, she regards fame and fortune as dirt. She donated the prize money to France in scientific research and war, and gave those medals as toys to her 6-year-old daughter. What a noble character this is! She knows that her ultimate goal is not to win a medal, but to enjoy the process. Not only those celebrities we are familiar with, but also in life.
When fishing for leisure, if you are impetuous and impatient, pull up the rod for a while and then put it down, then you are empty-handed and depressed at the same time. But in fact, you didn't get nothing. You have gained an extraordinary idea beyond material things ―― seeking inner peace and quiet. If you wait and see when the fish is hooked and take action, you will return home with a full load and benefit a lot. Experiencing thoughts in the process of failure and harvesting joy in the process of success is the true meaning of enjoying the process.
Insight 5:
Enjoy the process.
Race against time, my favorite song, the footsteps of martyrs in my hometown, really excites me. No distractions in the heart, no dust in the world. There is sunshine in the story of old photos, and the world is bright and motherly.
Life is to complete an arduous task, which is full of fun. When you treat this task with a loose heart, it will teach you a lesson. On the contrary, when you do every detail meticulously, you will feel the indescribable beauty when you reach every success. But whether it is a lesson or a wonderful one, after the past, you will find that this process is a kind of enjoyment.
Life, with the moment will give people a lot of enjoyment, is derived from the beautiful process:
When fishing for leisure, if you are impetuous and impatient, you will get nothing if you pull up the rod for a while and put it down for a while. At the same time, your mood will be thorough and you will not achieve the expected purpose. So you should enjoy it and feel the fun with your heart. When the fishing line shakes violently and the fishing rod shakes slightly, the fish is hooked! At this time, if you pull the pole again, the lively fish will jump out of the water and splash around. What a spectacular scene, what a process to celebrate.
It is not difficult to find that work is actually a kind of enjoyment. In the morning, when the sun rises, you are caught in a busy day, and you are creating something with your own hands. With the watch of blue sky and white clouds, accompanied by brilliant sunshine, the breeze comes slowly, relying on everything in the world, like playing cheerful music. You see, isn't it a pleasure to be so comfortable?
The way home is also a process of enjoyment. Whether by bus or on foot, the "guards" on both sides of the road flashed by quickly, and their eyes were full of fresh green. Moreover, the coming and going vehicles always give people a clear and brisk sense of speed, as if flying over white clouds, which suddenly relieves a lot of fatigue after work. This is enjoyment, pleasure and relaxation.
Of course, life can't be smooth sailing, and there are still many uncertainties, including sour, sweet, bitter and spicy. This is life. Living is actually an emotion. When you encounter failure, don't be discouraged, be strong no matter how difficult it is. If your heart is there, your dream is there. Try to think of good things, happy things, people who love themselves, people who love themselves, and then sort out the mess, find out the reasons for the failure, take a warning and start all over again. Then constantly enrich yourself and improve yourself. After the storm, you will find that you have grown up because of this failed process.
When I am old, I sit in the garden and watch the sunset, recalling how long I have traveled in the past, but I have no regrets. Enjoy this process of life and finally walk into the next century with a sweet smile.