Having tea with my father at home that afternoon, I asked my father about choosing a job. My father handed me a cup of warm black tea without saying anything. When my mind calmed down and I was no longer anxious, I slowly said ten words:

Settle down first and then take dreams as horses.

I was surprised, and my father repeated it hard.

Settle down first and then take dreams as horses.

I bowed my head and thought, suddenly enlightened.

These ten words are better than a thousand words of encouragement, encouragement and guidance.

I posted the ten words my father gave me on the social network with excitement, but I didn't expect it to cause all the voices in my circle of friends and an epiphany. Many friends' personal signatures have been changed to settle down first and then take dreams as horses, and many friends have followed suit and sent friends and Weibo. Father's refined words, first settle down and then take dreams as horses, deeply poked the hearts of young people.

At that moment, I understood that most young people have dreams, but many people keep their dreams in their hearts, suppressed in boring work and strong life pressure.

Otherwise, how can so many people settle down in their homes, take dreams as horses, wander around and feel sad? Otherwise, how can so many people have strong feelings and emotions about these two words?

As the only child of an ordinary family, we must strive for progress steadily, because our parents have devoted all their energy and wealth to cultivating us, and their future is in our hands. Whether they have enough food and clothing or are short of money depends on our achievements.

Therefore, no one can pay the cost of chasing our dreams, and no one will clean up the mess for us. Not only ourselves but also our parents are on our shoulders. We need to bear not only the hardships of pursuing our dreams, but also the responsibility and feedback to our families.

What is it that young people suffer a little? In fact, what more people fear most is to let their parents be wronged.

I remember that Aran, who dropped out of school because of his father's illness, told me with tears that I could keep my head down and even lie prone on the ground, but I couldn't keep my parents from eating breakfast.

This is the purest gratitude-you worked hard for me when I was a child, and I sheltered you from the wind and rain when I grew up.

But it is precisely because the feedback is too heavy that too many people have settled down and lost the power of their dreams.

But if you don't settle down, how can you make your dream a horse? Lay the foundation with the blood and tears of parents? Too risky, too cruel, too crazy.

I have been struggling to choose what kind of job can not only realize my self-worth and ideals, but also have a good salary.

Regarding occupation, skills, wealth, status, dreams and pursuit, I want to put all the delicious and beautiful sweets in my pocket like a greedy child, but the pocket is so big and there are too many beautiful sweets, and I don't want to walk home and past the candy store again and again, so I hesitate and struggle in the dazzling candy window.

Don't try to eat, don't try to choose, just look around quietly and painfully.

That's right, so I didn't have a job and I didn't actively look for a job. I'm afraid of missing better opportunities because of my wrong choice, I'm afraid that decent jobs are not well paid, and I'm afraid of rejecting high-paying jobs.

So at that time, apart from my shrinking wallet and lack of self-confidence, the rest was endless anxiety and self-doubt.

I thought I was the only weirdo in the world, but I was so prepared for my work. I linked my work with my emotions and was infatuated with my career and love. It was not until my father told me to settle down first and then treat my dream as a horse that I realized that there are too many young people in this world who have been wandering at such a crossroads for a long time like me.

It is normal for young people to hesitate when choosing a job. Not escape, not weakness, not laziness. Only out of extreme respect and protection for their ideals, but also out of responsibility and consideration for their families.

I didn't understand at that time, so I gave myself too much moral condemnation and pressure. Now I am suddenly enlightened, respecting myself and my peers at that time. At the beginning of life, it is difficult to settle down and take dreams as horses, both of which are urgently needed, so it is normal to fall into deep self-pull.

The university is a lover who loves to change his face. He is slow and romantic to chat with you, but he becomes heartless and selfless in an instant. He boldly kicked you out of the ivory tower. He doesn't care whether your shirt is on, whether your boots fit, and whether you can find a home in a stormy place outside.

Even if you cry again, the door of struggle will not open to you again, and your life will go on. You need to find a city, a skill, a job to settle down, wipe your nose and tears, earn money to support yourself, then earn money to honor your parents, and finally make money to supply your dreams.

This order cannot be disturbed. After all, every dream consumes a lot, and not everyone can realize it.

We must first gain a firm foothold, accumulate a certain amount of capital, and be able to protect ourselves and our loved ones before we are qualified to hire Sky for Ma Chi with dreams. Tie the roots well, give yourself a reassurance that you need parents and others, and also give yourself an immortal way out.

Settle down first and then take dreams as horses. What seems like compromise is actually powerful. Every little makes a mickle, and all your sufferings will become medals. In the future journey of chasing dreams, you will be honored to dormant all obstacles and rumors, and your dreams will come true.