In the dim environment, all kinds of feelings are bred, fermented and even dispersed together, and some small tacit understanding and ambiguity between men and women are getting stronger and stronger at this time. For modern urbanites, going to the movies is one of the important social activities. Going to the movies is not only the best pastime to kill time, but also one of the best reasons for men to ask girls out. People choose this activity because watching movies in the cinema is not only an audio-visual enjoyment, but also a moment for you to share and witness your fate or miracle with many strangers in the dark. However, there are more and more cinemas now, and the threshold for going to the cinema is getting lower and lower. When people feel less and less about going out to watch movies, what kind of activities will be a better choice? Obviously, going to the theater to listen to a concert is a good choice, which not only provides a good viewing environment, but also shows your elegant taste to your sister.
Watching a play is actually quite similar to watching a movie. The difference is that drama is a live performance with no subtitles. Now ordinary drama is popular in small theaters, mainly to create a good and suitable appreciation environment and atmosphere. The scale of stage performance is much more exaggerated than that of TV or movies. Even if you don't necessarily see the actors' expressions clearly, you can express their emotional contagion through their body and language.
1. If you have an appointment with your sister who is going to see a drama for the first time, a short message from you the day before the performance will enable you to show your good artistic accomplishment in front of her. The content of the message is to remind my sister to wear dark clothes on the day of the performance, because you will tell her that the concentration of actors on the stage is very important and it is a challenge to face the audience. Actors on the stage will be distracted when they move lightly under the stage, especially a beautiful girl like her. Bright clothes will make her more attractive, which will not only affect the performance of the actors, but also affect your appreciation of the performance, because you are worried that all your eyes will be attracted by her.
Most performances will start at around 8 pm. Before that, you can invite your sister to a restaurant near the theater for dinner. A delicious dinner will make you feel happy to watch the evening performance. For the sake of etiquette, it is best not to bring colored drinks and snacks into the performance site. As an old hand, you have to treat your sister to a full meal as compensation, and remember to bring two bottles of water. It seems unreasonable not to drop water into the performance for an hour and a half to two hours.
3. Control the time, enter the venue fifteen minutes in advance, and take your seats accordingly, because if you stand in the aisle or walk around looking for a seat, it will not only affect other audiences' watching, but also affect the actors' performance on the stage, which is not elegant. I believe that as an old hand, you sometimes make mistakes when buying tickets, such as the seat is too far back or too far away. In fact, watching the drama too far also affects the viewing effect. The ideal seat should be in the middle of the first third to half of the whole theater according to the size of the theater. If you can't choose a better seat, choosing a seat fifteen minutes before the performance is a good starting point. You can tell your sister that the appreciation of drama is actually artistic expression, which is the tension of actors' performance. Through the performance of actors' body and language, they can be emotional contagion.
This, like the last one, happened within fifteen minutes before the performance. Remember to remember performance information. In order to do your homework and even memorize the information of this year's famous plays, you can easily show great confidence in front of your sister, but you must grasp the degree of this kind of thing, and it will be bad after it.
5. Compared with the concert, watching the drama is not so high. In the art of drama, the interaction between the audience and the actors is sometimes very important, especially in comedy. When the audience laughs, how to laugh, when to clap, and how long the applause and laughter last, in fact, together with the actor's performance, constitute the "rhythm" of the whole performance. One of the rhythms is wrong. Of course, actors can go on, but there will always be. Therefore, your correct reflection will make the girls around you get a better performance experience. Watching a play is sometimes the same as watching a performance by Deyun Society. If you are watching a performance by Deyun Society, you find a man sitting next to him in a suit and tie, silent and with wide eyes. When the actor leaves, he only coughs half a voice. When Lao Guo comes out and comes back, he is scared to hold back the remaining half cough ... What do you think?
6. Never take photos and brush Weibo while watching the performance. An old bird who often goes to the show disdains doing such a thing. Your focus is on acting and the girl next to you. All you have to do is smile and ask the girls next to you after the performance, and then comment lightly on today's performance. For example, the rhythm of the whole actor's performance today is well controlled, and some set audiences are also very cooperative, and the overall level is very good.
7. Many plays will have a signing ceremony after the performance. At this time, you can take your sister to experience. Don't worry too much when you line up with your sister and the protagonists to sign. When the actor signs your autograph, remember to shake hands with him, and then smile and say to the actor, "Thank you for your performance. Great. " Remember to control the volume and make sure that the girls and actors next to you can hear it.
Listening to a concert is actually similar to watching the first three games of a drama. The same thing is to dress neatly. It is necessary to wear formal clothes. What cannot be ignored is the "respect" behind it.
1. Or choose a seat, the best position should be near the center line of the stage, and the horizontal height of the seat is slightly higher than that of the band. If it is too far ahead, the sound of the instrument will feel like floating overhead, and the air of the stringed instrument will be too strong, which will cover up other instruments, and the defects of the stringed instrument will be more obvious. If you are too left or right, it will weaken the sense of surround brought by the architectural structure of the theater itself, resulting in a slight imbalance in loudness between the left and right ears. Ahem, this is also used to blow water and pretend to be forced when chatting with my sister before the opening.
2. We often choose to listen to symphony concerts, and it is best to ask our sisters to listen to the concerts as "New Year Concerts", because most of the New Year concerts will choose familiar tracks, and the overall style is cheerful. "Blue Danube" and "Radsky March" are the required tracks for the New Year concert, and there will be cheerful and interesting string works such as Polka. I believe that when your sister hears a song that she has heard but can't name in the performance, and you help her solve her doubts at this time, she will definitely cast a star eye on you.
3. The old bird listened to the concert quietly and applauded at the right time, without clapping between the movements of the same work. Generally, concerts are divided into two halves. At the end of half-time, there are often standing ovations. There is a 15 minute break between the upper and lower performances. During this time, I can discuss with my sister the feelings of appreciating the first half, and talk a little about some defects of strings, such as: "Today, some strings feel suppressed and the loudness is slightly insufficient." Most New Year concerts will choose to play johann strauss's family songs in the first half. Remember to be familiar with johann strauss's classic songs. If you can also understand some anecdotes behind the songs, it will undoubtedly give you extra points.
4. At the end of the concert, everyone usually stands up and applauds, and the conductor will choose whether to play encore or not according to the warm applause of the audience, that is, whether to return to the scene to thank the audience. There are usually two or three encores, but this year's New Year concert, when I went to listen, I met the rare situation that encores played six songs in a row. At the end of the applause, you might as well shout a few words of Bravo to show your enthusiasm for classical music in front of your sister.
An important reason why symphony is called elegant art is the high concentration of performers and listeners. The appreciation and creation of art need special training. The longer the training, the more you can appreciate the beauty. If you just want to show your girl how tall you are, just wear formal clothes when watching the performance, give the right response at the right time, applaud at the right time and watch the performance quietly.
The reason why I chose to watch a play and listen to a concert is because the basic costs of these two activities are relatively low and their popularity in China is not high at present. Moreover, these two activities are easy to remind people of words such as "elegance" and "artistic taste", so that you can get a relatively high score in front of your sister and leave a good impression.
According to my experience and careful observation in drama and concert performances, this paper draws the conclusion that it should not be regarded as a process of picking up girls. At the same time, the content of this article only involves the relevant matters when you go to see the girls with you. As for how to get to know girls and how to enhance feelings with them after watching the performance, please go out and turn left to enter the topic of "PUA" and consult Daren @ Hao for details.