1. Instead of carrying burdens and bending down to suffer, it is better to put down the burdens and enjoy life; instead of complaining in vain about the unfair fate, it is better to smile at life calmly and calmly.

2. In life, there will always be unexpected warmth and endless hope. No matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as you go in the right direction, no matter how bumpy it is, you will be closer to happiness than standing still.

3. One day you will understand that being kind is harder than being smart. Intelligence is a gift, kindness is a choice.

4. The most important thing in life is not what has been lost or what has not yet been obtained, but what is possessed at this moment. The past cannot be undone, tomorrow is still unknown, only the present is real.

5. Being too easy to talk may not necessarily prove that you are a good person, but it can prove that you have an uncertain stance and vague principles.

6. It’s not your wallet that determines what clothes you wear, but your body. What determines your temper is not your character, but your position. What determines your taste is not your academic qualifications, but your experience.

7. Not caring about other people's private affairs, not getting involved, and allowing other people's moral values ??and lifestyles to be different from your own will eliminate more than 90% of the troubles in the world.

8. Don’t pay too much attention to the superficial emotions between people; people who are close friends don’t need it, and people who have casual acquaintances don’t need it. If you don't care about emotions, they won't hurt you.

9. All unsatisfactory things in the world must be carried through force, accept growth, and accept all unhappy endings.

10. The stronger a person’s self-healing ability, the more likely he is to be close to happiness. Be a man of few words, but have a big heart. Don't hurt others or yourself. Be peaceful and comfortable in indifference.

11. True maturity is to do what needs to be done at the right time, let nature take its course, neither looking forward or backward, nor looking left or right, nor being impatient or panicking.

12. The right position in life is neither close to money nor power, but close to the soul; true happiness is neither wealth nor everything is right, but a clear conscience.

13. Time retains true friends; time retains true possessions. In times of adversity, one understands the warmth and warmth of human nature, and in ordinary times, one realizes the fickleness of fate.

14. In this world, there are too many whys without answers, and too many answers without whys. This road can only be walked alone, no matter what attitude you take.

15. Don’t show your weakness to others and complain about your pain. You will only earn ridicule from others, and no one will pity you.

16. Life is full of ups and downs. You will never know what will happen next moment, nor will you understand why fate treats you this way.

17. Without financial independence, there is a lack of self-esteem; without independence of thinking, there is a lack of autonomy; without personal independence, there is a lack of self-confidence.

18. The older you get, the more you learn to let nature take its course. You don’t want to keep anything, and you believe that what is meant to be will not go away. Be calm with gains and calm with losses, strive for the inevitable and let nature take its course.

19. Look back occasionally, otherwise you will always be chasing and not know what you have lost.

20. In life, everything goes as planned. In life, everything goes as planned. Therefore, don’t be serious with others because it’s not worth it. Don’t be true with yourself because you can’t afford to be hurt. Don’t be true with the past.