This poem by Li Shangyin is called a famous sentence through the ages, and this love has become a lifelong regret of the poet. Whenever I think back, it will also make the poet doubly sad. It is true that those sincere feelings are sometimes irretrievable. When you can't be with your loved ones, it will cause lifelong pain, so this feeling is unforgettable. There are many literati who have written famous sentences through the ages because they lost their loved ones, which shows how great this kind of love will affect a person's mood.
However, there are also many people who are desperate to pursue love. Although the people around you strongly oppose it, it can't match the feelings of two people who really love each other. They are happier than those who love but can't. Eighteen years ago, the Henan girl who married Obama's younger brother, she was desperate to fall in love with herself. What is the current situation of this girl?
Obama's half-brother: Mark was abused by his father when he was a child
Obama is the former president of the United States. Although he is a black man, he has been able to make a successful career in American politics and become the pride of African-Americans. Obama's younger brother is equally outstanding, and his younger brother Kyle and Obama are half-brothers. When Obama was young, his father used to drink a lot. When he got home, his alcoholic father would beat up his mother and sometimes punch and kick Obama. Moreover, his father abandoned Obama's mother and started a family with another white woman, so Obama had a bad impression of his father, and his younger brother Kyle was the son born after his father remarried.
Although Obama's father got married again, he still punched and kicked his wife and children as before, so both Obama and Mark suffered the same kind of abuse and torture from their father, and both of them hated their father. However, because Obama's father abandoned his family, Kyle and Obama had never met before. It was not until his father died unexpectedly in a car accident that Mark learned about Obama's recent situation, so under the communication of his family, he took refuge in his brother.
Mark decided to come to China to develop and meet his lover.
After seeing his younger brother, Obama felt that Mark was very down-to-earth and willing to work, so he introduced him to a job, but he soon encountered an economic crisis in the United States. At that time, Mark finally found a job, but he was going to lose his job. Later, Mark didn't want to bother his brother any more. After all, he knew that his brother was very busy, so Mark offered to leave the United States and come to Shenzhen, China to seek development opportunities.
After coming to China, Mark made active preparations, hoping to make great efforts to start his new career in Shenzhen, China. Later, Mark learned Chinese culture from many people in China and practiced Chinese and Chinese characters hard to improve his survival skills in Shenzhen. Under Mark's hard work, he finally got familiar with Chinese and Chinese characters, and then he met a girl from China. This China girl is from Henan. She is very quiet and gentle. When they met for the first time, Kyle was unforgettable. Subsequently, Mark made a rapid pursuit of this China girl, and then decided to stay in China and settle down.
After Kyle's unremitting efforts, he finally caught up with the girl he liked, and their relationship was also very good. Slowly, they reached the point of talking about marriage and decided to meet their parents. The girl's parents are very conservative. Because Mark is black, they don't want their daughter to marry a foreigner. It's not right for them to be married. The girl's parents are even more afraid that the girl will be bullied after marriage. However, the feelings of the two people are very good, and they have reached the point where they are inseparable, so they came together regardless of obstruction. In the end, parents can only agree to this marriage. Then Mark took on the responsibility of the family. It was not until many years later that the girl in Henan knew that Mark was Obama's younger brother.
Eighteen years have passed before you know it. Mark lives well in China, and with the help of his wife, he learns fluent Chinese. After their marriage, Mark was still scrambling to do housework, and he was very serious. Today, Mark can also write very beautiful running script and cursive script, and the husband and wife even started a company together, hoping to earn more money to prepare for having children later. When they are free, they often go to charity in the name of the company and make contributions to society. After seeing the stories of two people, many people praised their love. Mark is also very great. Although he is Obama's younger brother, he didn't take shortcuts because of his brother's aura.
Love is too precious to be measured by money
the stars of last night and the wind of last night, are west of the Painted Chamber and east of Cinnamon Hall though I have for my body no wings like those of the bright-coloured phoenix and yet I feel the harmonious heart-beat of the Sacred Unicorn. -Untitled by Li Shangyin
Two people who really love each other can empathize, and even if the other person doesn't talk, they know what he thinks, and Mark and this China girl are just like that. Two people have suffered many obstacles, but the true lovers can overcome these obstacles. No matter how many difficulties lie ahead, they will bravely cross over and finally embrace each other and form a happy marriage. Love is always very beautiful, it will make two strangers fall in love at first sight and attract each other. People who really love each other will never give up on each other because of small things.
Nowadays, many people's love is mixed with material things, and a small bride price will break up a pair of lovers. Not long ago, there was a news that a man beat his ex-girlfriend in the street. The reason is actually because of the bride price. The two of them have reached the point of talking about marriage, but the woman has to pay a very high bride price, which makes the man overwhelmed. This is the scene of beating his ex-girlfriend in the street. After this incident came out, it caused widespread discussion: some people think that the man is wrong to hit people; Some people think that although the man is at fault, the woman's fault is even greater, and 3, bride price can't be borne by ordinary people. Behind this incident, it has aroused everyone's discussion about the bride price.
nowadays, there are many lovers who really love each other, but when it comes to this crucial step, their feelings are broken because of money. The bride price is indeed a deep-rooted custom in China, but in some remote places, the bride price has become sky-high, with a price of 2, to 3, yuan, which makes many men feel pressured. For men, buying a house and a car before marriage, paying exorbitant bride price and paying for the wedding expenses are all done by money.
However, nowadays most people are just ordinary working class, and their income is not high. How can they get so much money? Therefore, the bride price is a big social problem. When we come back to see Mr. and Mrs. Kyle, we can find that although the woman is also an authentic China girl, she doesn't dislike some down-and-out Kyle. It is precisely because of this characteristic of the woman that they can gain a beautiful love. In fact, no matter which country or age, love should not be measured by money. Marriage is the crystallization of love between two people, and love is sacred and great. May more girls in China marry love instead of material things.