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Life is full of twists and turns, ups and downs, the sun is shining brightly, and the rain is lingering; love in this life is full of ups and downs, uncertain separation and reunification, and sweet words. There are hurts and heartaches. In life, there are too many things that we can do nothing about, and there are too many emotions that we can’t help ourselves.
Therefore, you must learn to turn in life. Every time you walk, you must learn to summarize gains and losses, settle the past, throw the bad to the wind, and keep the good in your heart. Gathering and separation are all feelings. ; The wonderful and ordinary are all life. Don't complain about leaving without saying goodbye in life, and don't lament the fragmentation of the world.
There are some things that we cannot escape and are destined to happen. There are some people that we cannot avoid and are destined to meet. However, we must believe that the road under our feet will not be in vain and the suffering in life will not be in vain. Eat, God will never treat those who work hard; the people we meet will not see us in vain, they will always teach us something!
Everything starts from the heart. The world is what the person is like in the heart. Let go of the past, let the heart return to zero, don’t think wildly, let go of the burden, let the heart relax, and don’t care too much.
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It’s hard to look back on the past, it’s all just smoke and mirrors.
We are always too close to memories and too far from freedom. We never forget and cannot let go of memories. Some love disappears for too long and we gradually lose the courage to look back. Because the past is too painful to look back on, everything suddenly seems like a dream. , reciting a person's name silently over and over again, reading a past event over and over again, and then expelled and dissipated with the wind.
He comes to your world like the wind, and then leaves in a hurry. Your world becomes blank from now on. Once you leave, you can never look back in your life. A person's road seems to lengthen the scroll of time, but there is no reason to miss him, just like the soundless flowers blooming, those wandering thoughts make the eyes blurred. We always like to reminisce, look back, and be nostalgic, but we find that the things we once thought we would never forget have slowly faded away in the process of remembering them.
For past experiences, we can only reminisce, but cannot stop; for past passers-by, we can only be grateful, but cannot be demanding.
Life is a wandering journey. Every person, place, and person you meet will become an experience and a passer-by. There are always too many difficulties in life. If you care about them, you will complain everywhere; if you look down upon them, you will have no worries and live a carefree life.
Many times, our hearts are tired because we often wander between persistence and giving up. We don’t know how to choose. Those past emotions worth remembering, those inseparable things we have no choice but to face, want to Persistence, but giving up in the end is always too difficult for yourself.
In fact, in life, having the courage to give up is not a kind of courage, and learning to give up is not a kind of courage. In this world, there is no absolute right or wrong in everything, so there is no need to be too persistent.
It is said that love has its own destiny and love has its own destiny, so there is no need to insist on beauty. The past is all in the past, whether you love it or hate it, nothing can be done again. Let the past go with the wind and disappear with time.
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Let go of the burden in your heart, let the past go with the wind, and feel relieved.
Plato said: "If you are not happy, if you are not happy, then let it go; if you are reluctant to let it go, then let it be painful."
Whenever I look back on the past, It was a scene of dreams. The beauty of the past was torn into pieces. The past things and past feelings were entangled in my heart. It was too tiring. They said that if love has become a burden, why not let it go gracefully.
As the saying goes: "Those who have a heart matter, and those who have no heart don't matter."
A calm life is not about walking all the way in the world, nor is it about reaching the day of success, but it is about letting go of the past hurts and pains, love and hate, love and hatred, and no longer worrying about the past. , no longer entangled in right and wrong, and truly began to live a free and relaxed life.
There is no need to ask about cause and effect for some fate, and there is no need to dwell on some love and hate. It is best to let the love flow with the wind and clear up both love and hate. We are all the authors of our own lives, why bother writing so much to ourselves. Sad script.
No matter how beautiful the past is, no matter how good the old people are, they are just memories of yesterday. No matter how much you miss them, they cannot stop the passing of time; no matter how painful the past is, or how hurt the old love is, they will eventually be pieced together to form the memory of yesterday. History, no matter how hesitant it is, cannot erase the traces of yesterday.
Life is too fast, the remaining life is short, you turn around suddenly, the years are vast, you must eventually learn to let go, let go of love and hate, let the past go with the wind, the body is empty and the mind is calm, the clouds are calm and the wind is light, just live a simple and plain life , those who should forget, forget it. Things that are out of reach will hurt themselves.
The ancients said: "If the heart is big, everything will be open to you; if the heart is small, everything will be sick."
You don't have to bear too many burdens in your life, take off your burden, Clear the past and let your heart return to its true nature.
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In life, the more you care, the more you will be tortured; the more you care, the more you will be hurt.
The trouble in people's hearts lies in care; the pain in life lies in attachment; the difficulty in life lies in letting go.
Caress and resentment are like a prison, letting go is the only key. Whatever you care about will be troubled by it; whatever you resent will be imprisoned by it, which troubles the happy heart and imprisons the free soul.
Sometimes, being unwilling to get out of a relationship that has ended is like holding a piece of ice in winter, which is cold from your fingers to your heart. At this time, what really hurts you is not the other person’s unfeeling, but the coldness of the other person. There is still the persistence of illusions. If you can't get it, you can't let it go. The more entangled you are, the more heartache you feel.
The difficulty in life is not how many things you have, but how much happiness you get from these things. Things in the world are unpredictable, and people's hearts are unpredictable. Many things can be done not just by you, but by you. If you want it, you can keep it. Don’t be attached, don’t have delusions, don’t be demanding, and feel at ease in everything!
Whatever you care about will torture you. Only by learning to let yourself go can you touch happiness.
Everything has a cause and effect, and things in the world always go round. Let go of your obsessions and burdens, and don’t let trivial things hinder the pace of life.
This life is really not long. An inch of time is lost for every inch passed. An inch of time is lost for every inch of delay. Instead of chasing hard and seeking an answer that cannot be obtained, it is better to give up. Let go of the burden and live a happy life.