Wedding tips 1. Guests give red envelopes.
It is impolite to count money in front of guests. Don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope in front of the guests. This behavior is as impolite as counting gifts in person. But not counting, it will also cause confusion in final accounts. The best way is to collect the gift money by one person. Mark the guest's name on the red envelope when you receive it, and then keep it by another person. When the wedding ceremony begins, take it into the lounge for counting and accounting. Marking red envelopes should be accurately marked according to the signature after the guests sign the guest book and enter the venue. It may not be appropriate to mark a red envelope in front of the guests.
Wedding Tips II. Bring jewelry directly to the couple.
But many newcomers will choose to send jewelry, like to put gold ornaments, jewelry and so on. Go straight to the new guy when you send it. When the size of the gift given by the guest is not suitable and can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite to put it aside if the newcomer just says it is not suitable. In this case, the newcomer can explain it in a humorous tone. In this way, if both parties accept the gift, they will be happier. It is impolite to take it off on the spot, but bring it anyway. Therefore, the income of jewelry is very confusing. Take it down and put it away, because some ornaments are petite, sometimes one or two are accidentally lost, and the newcomers don't understand it at all, which wastes the guests' thoughts. Therefore, in the process of receiving gifts, a person should record the names of the guests, the variety and quantity of gifts clearly and put them in a special box for easy counting afterwards. Of course, it's best not to record in front of guests, which is also very impolite. This person had better stand behind the guests, so as not to attract attention and to see the new place clearly.
Wedding Tips 3. Guests send checks.
A check is as big as paper money. If you mix a lot of cash, it is easy to lose it. Therefore, a notebook or wallet should be specially prepared to store checks and cash separately. When receiving the check, the checker can roughly check the details such as the head portrait or signature on behalf of the newcomer. Don't show surprise when the amount on the check is surprisingly small. If you really suspect that the guest has filled in the check incorrectly, you can ask the guest to confirm the check again by checking the signature or recognizing the handwriting. Whether the check can be cashed is more suitable for the couple to go to the bank afterwards. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to handle them in the future.