People who don't know these two sentences at all can't help you answer! What do you mean? You haven't counted yourself! Literally, it may be that you don't love her. She never had you. How could she lose you? It may also mean that she doesn't care about you at all, how can she lose it! But a woman's mind may be duplicitous! It's up to you. How did you get along before? Don't you know if she loves you? Chase if you like! I don't even know how to talk about love.