Someone once said to me, "You should boil the cold water spilled on you and pour it back." But I prefer to be a person like Lyme. The more someone throws cold water on me, the more my life boils!
-Huang Xiaoming
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"Actually, I am really lucky."
Huang Xiaoming seems particularly fond of saying this sentence.
I was admitted to Beijing Film Academy. Fortunately, it was Mr Cui Xinqin who pushed his way through the crowd to protect him.
I starred in "New Shanghai Beach" with Chow Yun Fat. Fortunately, Fage was his childhood idol.
Shooting "bride with white hair", I fell from Weiya and broke my foot. I was lucky that my head didn't touch the ground. This is a blessing in disguise.
While speaking, his eyes bent with laughter and sincere eyes gave birth to an inexplicable goodwill out of thin air.
What happened recently in Li XiaoLu made many people wonder why Li XiaoLu's life is so beautiful, and he didn't know how to cherish it.
I think maybe luck will only be a temporary opportunity, and treasure is a learning that can be studied for a lifetime.
But from Huang Xiaoming, we can see that once luck comes to a person who knows how to cherish gratitude and is willing to give back, it will really become a lifetime of luck.
A while ago, Hugh knelt down and signed an autograph for an 89-year-old man and touched countless people.
But strangely, Huang Xiaoming insisted on doing public welfare for many years, but few people praised him.
Even if it is mentioned, it is inevitable to dismiss it. Isn't he pretending?
As a public figure, it is not difficult to pretend to be smart for a year or two.
But there is a good saying, even if it is false, it is likely to become true after a long time.
Everything suspected of "pretending" often takes the most time to prove.
Huang Xiaoming proved with time and real money that since 2004, he has sponsored more than 40 children to study, and his road to public welfare has never stopped for more than ten years.
No praise, it doesn't matter, just his own sincerity.
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This sincerity has nothing to do with what kind of actor Huang Xiaoming is.
Shortly after his debut, he became a hit with Son of Man. He is not a talented actor. Although he has suffered, his experience is not the most special.
From a young newcomer to a popular star, Huang Xiaoming's transformation went smoothly.
But because of this, Huang Xiaoming's "luck" became a kind of "sin".
If you are lucky for a while, others may envy you.
But if you are lucky more times, jealousy may gradually become a sword. The name of the sword is "Why".
In fact, it is not easy for a young, experienced and introverted boy to break himself up and learn to perform. People who have always been introverted know that this is not easy.
As the only child in the family, Huang Xiaoming has a happy family and a harmonious environment, and has been loved by his parents since childhood.
But at that time he never wanted to be a star. At the age of 7, she was changed by a children's film because she was too introverted and shy.
Fortunately, shyness does not prevent him from being at home in school. Huang Xiaoming is not the best student, but he has always been the teacher's favorite student.
This is quite similar to his position in the entertainment circle now. His acting skills are not the best, and his looks are not the best. It is said that English is too noisy, and his height and figure are obstacles in the eyes of the audience, but this has not affected his popularity outside and inside the circle.
Popularity makes Huang Xiaoming bring his own topic. After the age of fresh meat, it still has the effect of flow.
As for his popularity in the circle, just watching the ah wedding on 20 15 shows that Huang Xiaoming's wedding is comparable to walking the red carpet at a film festival and coming to more than half of the entertainment circle.
Being popular is an advantage, but being too popular is not a good thing for Huang Xiaoming who loves swearing.
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When Huang Xiaoming was named in nirvana in fire, there was an uproar on the Internet, and netizens complained that the good reputation of fire nirvana was over.
Some fans even said directly, "We won't watch Huang Xiaoming." .
It's not that netizens deliberately hacked Huang Xiaoming.
Judging from his previous works, Huang Xiaoming's acting skills fluctuated, and so did the quality of his performances.
For example, just relying on "Chinese Partner" won a wave of goodwill and won back many awards, which proved that Huang Xiaoming had acting skills. In a blink of an eye, he and his daughter-in-law made such an unintelligible film "Love Story" and returned to the pre-liberation period overnight.
("Chinese Partner" Huang Xiaoming stills)
("Love Story" Huang Xiaoming stills)
In fact, Huang Xiaoming is not without acting skills. As can be seen from nirvana in fire, Huang Xiaoming's acting skills are really underestimated.
Xiao Pingzhang's role makes Huang Xiaoming change the greasy evil in the public impression, and makes him relaxed without any unnecessary burden. Netizens think that Huang Xiaoming reminds me of the son of heaven.
In Nirvana in Fire, Xiao Pingzhang's love for his younger brother, his wife's deep affection and family ties are all handled properly by Huang Xiaoming.
Even if you slow down the camera, the details are still delicate and sincere.
After the program started, it showed a trend of low opening and high going, and now the Douban score has soared to 8.4.
Apart from the critically acclaimed Nirvana in Fire, Huang Xiaoming is not without his representative works after many years as an actor.
The young Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, many netizens who have seen this drama, still think that Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty should be like Huang Xiaoming when he was young;
Takeda in Wind, a ruthless officer, did not torture Li Bingbing, but could destroy all the dignity of a woman and lead to the psychological collapse of the other party.
Cheng Dongqing in "Chinese Partner" seems clumsy, but there are wolves in it?
But these high-quality works are not many in Huang Xiaoming's total production.
In the audience's ridicule of Huang Xiaoming, there is actually a kind of hatred of iron not to produce:
Why do you always like to roll around in a pile of bad movies when you have acting skills?
Huang Xiaoming, do you really like playing the overbearing president that much?
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Huang Xiaoming sighed. As a good man, he really didn't know how to refuse.
Just like people often ask him for money, but next time, Huang Xiaoming will still borrow it.
At most, he stated in advance that I wouldn't borrow money, but I can give it to you if you need it, so that we can be friends in the future.
By the same token, even if he knew the quality of the work was average, Huang Xiaoming would pick it up and show it to his friends.
While lamenting that he really doesn't want to be a bad guy, he has begun to compromise and convince himself to take this bad film: why don't I make a guest appearance?
This is Huang Xiaoming, an unchangeable villain.
Huang Xiaoming's friends said that he was too good for me to lie to him.
God probably likes to take care of such "fools".
Shortly after entering the Beijing Film Academy, Huang Xiaoming made his first fortune in life by advertising-1500 yuan.
This $65,438+0,500 has made Huang Xiaoming proud for a long time.
"Mom's salary is only 800 yuan a month. I earned her salary for nearly two months in an advertisement."
Making money for the first time is naturally significant.
Teenagers naturally want to buy some good clothes for themselves and change their image of being too "simple" in front of the goddess Zhao Wei.
But after thinking about it, I still held back.
In the end, most of the money was used to buy gifts for parents and family, and the rest was used to invite classmates to dinner. Finally, Huang Xiaoming bought himself delicious food with the rest of the change.
The use of this first bucket of gold also represents the way Huang Xiaoming spent money for many years.
Always put family first, friends second and yourself third.
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It is said that from the beginning to the present, every Spring Festival, Huang Xiaoming will carefully prepare gifts for every family member. Every year, everyone's gift is different. Over the years, there have never been any mistakes or omissions.
He's not surprised himself. "I'm just special to my own people."
His wife, Yang Ying, once said that it was his attitude towards his family and the extremely harmonious relationship between Huang Xiaoming's parents that made him determined to marry Huang Xiaoming.
This can be seen from the state of Huang Xiaoming's mother. The old lady was a beauty when she was young. What is even more rare is that after years of wind and frost, there is almost no sadness on her face and she always smiles happily.
This is probably the unique girlish feeling of a woman who has been spoiled all her life.
However, the love between Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy still caused large-scale group ridicule.
In the end, Huang Xiaoming resolutely defended his love and lover.
With laughter all the way, she and Angelababy entered the marriage hall and gave birth to their son Sponge.
This time, The Wind in nirvana in fire made Huang Xiaoming get rave reviews, and even he was flattered.
In fact, before Xiao Pingzhang, Huang Xiaoming had mixed his acting career for many years.
There is no big black material, but the slot is full.
No acting? Too much trouble? Height stalk? Fifty-fifty short legs? Pretending to be the spokesman of the world?
His every move may become a new stalk of online group ridicule.
Huang Xiaoming, who had a smooth journey, was frightened when she first experienced group ridicule.
He lived a warm and comfortable life since he was a child, and suddenly the cold wind and rain all over the world came at him.
Huang Xiaoming almost depressed, he can't understand, overnight, how the world has changed?
Praise turned into ridicule, and all the works taken in the past were pulled out and hung up.
Tang Bohu in Tang Bohu is too pretentious, Yang Guo in The Legend of the New Condor Heroes is too unsuccessful, and Wei Xiaobao in Duke of Lushan is too obscene?
("Romantic Tang Bohu" Huang Xiaoming stills)
("Romantic Tang Bohu" Huang Xiaoming stills)
(Stills of Huang Xiaoming, Duke of Lushan)
Many years later, Huang Xiaoming recalled those days and said with a smile that it was indeed blx.
I think all efforts should be rewarded,' he said.
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Many years later, Huang Xiaoming has been a first-line student and has turned a blx into a diamond heart.
He understands the hard truth that actors should rely on their works to speak.
But I still have my own helplessness.
In the final analysis, it is still abusing the feelings of good people.
The audience accused him of making a bad film.
He has no choice but to explain, because there are too many people, and sometimes it is not what he wants.
Being a good actor often means giving up more comfort zones.
Zhang Ziyi, for example, has been criticized since her debut. She didn't care, just turned her ambition into a real movie frame by frame.
Tony Leung Chiu Wai, for example, is not sociable in her spare time. He likes to fly to London Square to feed pigeons, talk to himself and be alone.
But Huang Xiaoming is different. He made many rules and regulations for himself.
For example, don't let others down, don't disturb others;
For example, doing or doing well;
For example, actors have the obligation and responsibility to be scolded by the audience.
But they are extremely tolerant of the people around them.
Over the years, he has become accustomed to such a painful and happy worry and busyness.
However, the rave reviews of Nirvana in Fire seem to make Huang Xiaoming realize that it is time to slow down and strive for more high-quality works.
In fact, for Huang Xiaoming, it is more difficult to overcome than acting.
Some people don't understand why Huang Xiaoming's acting skills are not so good, but he has been popular all the way up to now.
I think besides his underrated acting skills, what is more important is his attitude towards life for many years.
It is true to abuse good people, but you can always be humble, sincere, polite and have fun with others.
He is very lucky, cherishing his blessings and knowing how to give back.
This may be the magic weapon to make Huang Xiaoming popular all the way.
And that's his real charm.
This 40-year-old man who has spent his whole life in the forest may become a new beginning for Huang Xiaoming.