It is said that a teacher’s stage is on the podium. In her tenth year of teaching, teacher Wang Hongxia’s stage extends from the podium to the family:

Formation of the “Ten Families Connected Hearts” online learning organization , leading students, involving parents, and building a happy family, the troublesome relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was quickly resolved with her...

Why would she do this?

1. Letter from Wang Hongxia’s family

This is my tenth year in education and I have come into contact with hundreds of children and families. Because of the good family tradition and good education, we have been able to form many good relationships. Therefore, we have excellent teachers who have always supported us and have cooperated with us for ten or eight years. We also have parents who highly recognize and trust us, from elementary school to high school, and are willing to entrust their children to us. us. I was very satisfied when I saw the outstanding achievements of my children and would show them off in front of others...

Learning Chinese culture, especially after participating in the course "Building the Most Beautiful Family with Ten Families", I fell into deep reflection: What have I brought to each child’s family in the past ten years?

A few days ago, the grandmother of a pair of twin brothers (left-behind children) who had studied in our school for 6 years called me: Because of their studies in our school, the two children have always been among the best, but At home, the two of them never call each other grandpa. Grandma was sad and anxious about this.

I have never understood anything like this before. Even if there were some attempts to understand the children's families, they were finally given up because of other people's disgust. After further studying Chinese culture and reflecting on the phenomena in life, I feel even more that many people have big problems in family construction. Through my own study, I have become more and more aware that building "the most beautiful family among ten families" is urgent and the general trend.

I quickly established a group and convened ten families to hold the first family meeting. Give each family a number, and one family will clock in and be on duty in the group every day.

"Ten Families Connecting Hearts" just started in a lively way.

Every family is reading "Cultural Confidence and National Rejuvenation". Early every morning, the sounds of parents reading are heard, and the sounds of children reading are loud and beautiful.

The changes in the families in the group are also very obvious: parents no longer yell at their children, and they make breakfast for the children in different ways every day (many children did not eat breakfast before); the children go to bed early and get up early, and follow a regular schedule , learned to praise others and take the initiative to do filial piety. Everything is moving in a good direction...

An old man complained to me that his daughter-in-law was ignorant, and the daughter-in-law also complained against her mother-in-law. My granddaughter, who is in second grade, said: "Grandma is the only good person in the world. What my mother loves most is herself, and she is the worst person..." Her mother-in-law's signature on WeChat read: "My son is unfilial and my mother is scolded by my daughter-in-law."

After feeling the huge conflicts in this family. , I found my mother-in-law and my daughter-in-law to have in-depth discussions many times, and also led the children to see the goodness of their mother. My mother-in-law was touched by my sincerity, and not only cooperated with me, but also happily accepted my suggestion - the signature in the circle of friends was changed to: The most beautiful family, learn from it. The relationship between the family has also undergone great changes...

Yesterday, our family also held a family meeting. My parents were wearing Chinese New Year clothes, their faces were solemn, and the whole family was sincerely reflecting on each other. and confession. At the meeting, I burst into tears while holding my mother's warm and dry hand. It is a greater filial piety to parents to pass on their parents’ good family traditions and tutoring.

In this process, I also established an invisible link of kindness with my daughter. Before, I always hoped that my daughter would choose a job close to home, but after learning Chinese culture, I put the motherland in my heart. I told my daughter: "It doesn't matter where you work, what's important is that you have to be a good person for the country and society." Useful people. ”

In the future, we will also participate in family building workshops, ten family meetings, etc. to build ourselves and go eastward!

Learning Chinese culture allowed me to find the direction in which the river of life flows. The meaning of life is to achieve others and perfect yourself.

Starting from the "heart", we will lead ten families to learn and progress together and build a higher level of spiritual quality. On this basis, it is my mission to help more families succeed!

2. Editor’s Thoughts

When integrating family construction into school education, Wang Hongxia not only reaped the mutual progress of students and parents, but also reaped the growth of her own life.

It seems like "not doing a proper job", but in fact it is a well-intentioned thing - home is the harbor of human life. The family is a child’s first classroom and a lifelong classroom. If you run your child's first classroom well, your child's growth will have a steady stream of motivation!

A happy family can be learned. Ten families are connected, making families better and education better.

You will reap melons if you sow melons, and you will reap beans if you sow beans; action and reaction are important truths in life. This truth is profound, profound, and infinitely wonderful. The basic principle it follows is that whatever the nature of the action, there will be the nature of the reaction.

“Doing good deeds without seeing the benefits is like winter melon growing in the grass.” Don’t be anxious because good deeds have no good results for the time being. Work hard every day and plant seeds of kindness wherever your thoughts arise. Over time, good results will surely come.