Think and discover problems from the other person's perspective. Instead of just talking about yourself and discussing your own affairs, this is like a saying we often say: Wang Po sells melons, sells and boasts. 3. Evaluate the other person less and talk more about your feelings. In interpersonal communication, evaluating others is actually a bad habit. When you evaluate other people's words and deeds, whether right or wrong, it is easy for others to become nervous subconsciously. Once you are different from what others think, they may become defensive or even repulsive towards you. Therefore, when interacting with others, try to avoid judging them as much as possible. Because the insight you think you have may turn out to be annoying self-righteousness in the other person's mind. A better way to deal with it is to talk more about feelings. Therefore, the higher the emotional intelligence, the better at communicating feelings.