Taking and giving seem to be a pair of contradictions, but they are always interdependent. If you take it, you must give it up; If you give up, you must accept it. Today, I compiled a composition about learning to choose. Welcome to learn from it. Let's have a look!

Learn to choose a composition 1

Japanese sundry management consultant Eiko Yamashita's concept of "breaking up" reveals the relationship between people and things. It allows people to simplify and choose goods, thus saving a lot of time, space and energy, thus achieving an efficient management level. Therefore, no matter what you do, only by being good at choosing can you unload your ambition and go into battle lightly.

Be good at choosing, travel lightly, and reflect decisive decision-making. Yes, sometimes this kind of decisiveness that is good at making choices is also successful in life. At the end of the Qin dynasty, there were wars everywhere, and peasant uprisings, like a single spark, could start a prairie fire and spread all over the land of Daqin. However, in the face of the still powerful Qin Jun, many peasant insurgents are still unable to fight. In 20 1 year BC, the Zhao army was surrounded by giant deer. Although governors from all walks of life came to the rescue in succession, in the face of 400,000 Qin Jun, many governors could only look at the "army" and sigh. In this case, Xiang Yu deeply understood that if Qin Jun's main force was not eliminated with the determination and action of death, the vigorous anti-Qin war would be destroyed. Who else could it be? So, Xiang Yu led five Wan Chu armies to cross the rubicon, vowed to fight to the death, gave up the determination to find a way out, made Chu soldiers risk their lives and be invincible, and finally made the famous Qin surrender. Therefore, it is precisely because he abandoned his private beliefs and distractions that he became more persistent in the pursuit of dreams and success, and made great achievements in the war to destroy Qin.

Good at choosing, traveling light, showing the wisdom of strategizing. This kind of wisdom provides a shortcut for people to succeed ... At the beginning of the Western Han Dynasty, Xiongnu invaded the frontier continuously. Huo Qubing, a famous soldier, abandoned the heavily armored infantry after discovering the Xiongnu camp, and took only 20,000 Qingqi into the desert for 8,000 miles. Until the Xiongnu lair, he was captured by Khan. He sent troops to Xerox and made great achievements. Coincidentally, in the Toyotomi era, Daming Ishida Mitsunari gave up the practice of directly transporting goods into North Korea by large ships, and adopted the way of giving consideration to both large and small ships and unloading goods halfway, which greatly improved the efficiency of goods transportation and ensured the sufficient supply of overseas combat troops. So that the Japanese army can minimize casualties and win. It is this wisdom that makes Huo Qubing, Ishida Mitsunari and others famous. It can be seen that the choice is to give up the small and take the big wisdom, dare to abandon what seems useful, so as to unload the ambition, move forward lightly and create convenient conditions for success.

Being good at choosing and traveling light contains a philosophical realm. Life is just comparing things with me, then giving up the troubles of material desires, dissipating distractions and clinging to the realm of life with weak aspirations. In the face of adversity, Su Shi took the initiative to give up those worldly and utilitarian distractions, adjusted himself with Taoist thoughts, and obtained the realm of "a bleak wind and bitter rain in Ren Pingsheng", and concluded that "everything between heaven and earth has its own master, not for me, not for the slightest ... my son and I are in the right place." Eliminate the obsession that "mourning is greater than dying in your heart and looking up at the Yangtze River infinitely", and so is Fan Zhongyan's sigh that "you don't like things, you don't grieve for yourself". In the War of Liberation, the People's Liberation Army abandoned big cities, occupied hatchbacks and surrounded cities with rural areas, which surrounded the Kuomintang troops in the northeast and wiped out their effective strength, thus gaining the initiative on the battlefield. Then, there are still many disappointments in life. Only by putting down the burden and traveling light can we have a different mood and usher in a better tomorrow.

It is a kind of determination and wisdom to take the essence and discard the dross, and it is also a philosophical thought. Pay attention to choice, give up decisively, stay away from "slug-like greed", unload your baggage, go into battle lightly, and welcome a bright future.

Learn to choose composition 2

Frost, an American poet, once wrote a road that was not chosen in his poems. He wrote: "There are two roads in the yellow forest, but unfortunately I can't set foot on them at the same time." Among the "two roads", Frost chose the "more attractive and beautiful" one.

At the same time, he also abandoned another road. Isn't this the way of life? Maybe not two roads, but three, four or even more. In the face of choice, we will hesitate, compare and be confused. After the choice, all the dust settled. You chose one path, and then you gave up the other.

Every time we choose, we will have a choice. Isn't reading an option? You chose to enjoy the Red Chamber with Cao Xueqin in the moonlight, and you gave up holding a cup of green tea and enjoying the Three Kingdoms with Luo Guanzhong. Everyone is interested in different books, so everyone has different choices. Sometimes, in fact, there is no need to care too much about others' evaluation of your choice, because that is what others think after all.

Everyone cares about different things and makes different choices. There is no need to go with the flow, just "follow your heart". The famous singer Andy Lau once wrote an article in which he described his hesitation in choosing the road and his feeling of relief after choosing it. In Wireless Artist and Higher Education, Andy Lau abandoned the latter and chose the former.

Life is almost always making choices. Some choices are made subconsciously, while others are made after careful consideration. After each choice, there will be a trade-off. At the moment of choosing, I was either relieved or quite dissatisfied. However, all this has been settled and cannot be modified.

Learn to choose composition 3

You will meet many things you like in life, and you need your own efforts to get them.

Two months ago, on my way to school. Passing by a gift shop, I accidentally saw an extremely exquisite hourglass-crystal sea sand shining in the light, and I saw it at first sight. I was deeply attracted by it. I can't wait to buy it at once, but the price of hourglass makes me stop. I'd love to buy it, but I don't have that much money. Although I want to give up, I still want to buy it. It will take months to save it. I wish I could ask my mother for money, but the ideal is beautiful and the reality is cruel. Mom didn't agree, let me save money to buy it myself.

So, for my beloved hourglass, I started a journey to save money.

I don't spend much money at a time, but I spend a lot of money. After a month, there is not much money left. Not more than 30 yuan, counting the wallet. I shook my head in disappointment. I always tell myself to save, but I never do it.

This time, I made up my mind to save money for the hourglass.

For two months, I didn't buy snacks or magazines. I passed the supermarket on my way home, and I made a detour. Today, I finally saved enough money to buy an hourglass. I took my wallet to the gift shop. I am glad to find that the hourglass is still there. I took out money to buy it. I held it in my hand and watched it carefully, playing all the time. ...

This hourglass taught me patience and persistence, and also taught me a truth: everything may not be satisfactory. If you want to get what you want, you can't just rely on others, you have to work hard to get it.

Learn to choose composition 4

Mr. Lu Xun once commented on "takenism" like this: "We should learn to choose. For good things, such as western advanced technology, we should' bring it' and bring it. For people with good and bad, we can take away their good side, such as opium, and send them to pharmacies. For those who are useless, such as aunts, you should give up. "

The above passage tells us: learn to choose. Indeed, today is in the period of reform and opening up, and the outside world is wonderful, but we should learn to choose, just like opening a window, breathing fresh air and preventing flying insects from entering. Accept the good and give up the bad.

I went to the menstrual home to congratulate her on moving to a new home. The upper and lower floors of the house are almost magnificently decorated, but I found a trademark on the sofa: "Piggy" (Pigsoy), and I couldn't help asking why. Menstruation said shyly, "I found this in a shop and I don't know what it means." Anyway, foreign languages are popular now! " Suddenly, I felt the room was eclipsed. Say goodbye to menstruation in a hurry and go home.

In fact, such examples are not uncommon. Modern people like to package themselves as "foreign goods", thinking that they are avant-garde and "cool", but they are actually just taking the dross of others. This also reminds me of a report I read not long ago: an instant noodle factory bought a set of instant noodles machine from abroad for millions, but it couldn't be installed. I didn't know it was a foreign machine that had been eliminated in the 1970 s until I asked. The loss of such "taking" is really painful. Therefore, learning to choose is more important.

Learn to choose composition 5

In this troubled world, we always unconsciously face choices and trade-offs. And these final results can always affect our originally peaceful life, or, in other words, our life.

Calm and turmoil are like two parallel lines in a world, which will never intersect and will never intersect. But they can always exist in one space without interfering with each other. And the truth of taking and giving up is similar to this? If you selfishly choose to take, then you will lose everything you don't know, such as family, love, friendship and so on; If you choose to give up, then you will get a kind of affirmation, recognition and goodwill invisibly. ...

Take and give up, always between a thought. Maybe you will get everything you want, maybe you will lose everything. Giving up doesn't mean you have lost everything, but in the dark, God gave you everything. Life is like this, there is no such thing as unfairness. God is fair to everyone and will not deliberately favor someone or something.

What we sometimes deliberately wait for with our lives may be what we are doomed to lose. If you really lose it, you don't have to worry about it. We should suddenly choose to give up. I firmly believe that only by choosing to give up and delete the remaining memories will you realize that letting go is so easy. ...

Watching the epiphyllum wither a little, I will unconsciously think of their short lives and can't help secretly feeling sorry for them. Maybe at this time we should choose to let go instead of pity them. Think about the real meaning of their existence, even if their lives are short, but they show their charm to the world with all their strength, and we will suddenly be enlightened.

When the opportunity is only one step away from us, seize it tightly and don't let it go. Maybe your letting go will cause a lot of trouble that shouldn't exist. Even if you catch it, you should make good use of it and don't let the "waste collection station" become its new home.

Perhaps in people's life, we should learn more about taking and taking. What you give is what you get. Always remember this sentence, because it may determine what you should lose and what you should gain. ...