For example, when friends go to the toilet, they all like to play with their mobile phones, which are likely to fall into the toilet. Don't think this is rare. It has a high probability of happening. In many professional public beta, the professional service of fishing mobile phone has been derived. If your mobile phone falls into the toilet, whether you want it or not depends on the value of this mobile phone in your heart.
If a hundred dollars falls into the toilet, someone may shake their heads and leave, thinking it is not worth taking. But if the new Apple phone you bought for six or seven thousand yuan falls into it, I think many people will try their best to get it out. This is because its value cannot be ignored. As long as you clean it up, you won't feel so disgusting when you get poop.
If your partner falls into the cesspit, if he is very important to you, then you will overcome the psychological pressure to give him artificial respiration anyway. If he is not so important in your mind, then you may call 120 to try to save his life, but it is difficult for you to do artificial respiration.
Having said that, even if this person's position in your mind is not so high, many people will choose to force themselves to do artificial respiration, because in addition to this person's value in your mind, you should also consider the social impact. If your girlfriend falls into a cesspit and you dare not do artificial respiration, once he dies unexpectedly or something irreversible happens, you will bear great social pressure, be condemned by others and even have a great impact on your life, so most rational people will choose to compromise because of these pressures. And once this thing is done, you will be praised by others.
It may be difficult for everyone to measure this matter simply by interests, but many things in real life are true, but everyone cares about different interests.
In the shyness of Confucianism in our country, it is considered that the gentleman is righteous and the villain is beneficial, which requires higher personal morality. Relatively speaking, I prefer Mohism, that is, caring for each other and bringing out the best in each other. I explain emotions and interests clearly. Many times, moral pursuit can also be regarded as a kind of interest, which is spiritual, but when pursuing spiritual interests, one often sacrifices one's material interests, which will make one look much more noble.
If you fall into a cesspit and your life is dying, and your other half won't even give artificial respiration to save his life, then this person is not worth loving. He will pay more attention to his feelings in life. As an artificial man, breathing will not affect his life safety, nor will it cause property damage, but he doesn't even want to do this. Once in danger, he must run faster than you, so he will meet such a person.
There are other tests in life. Once these tests involve life, there is often no need to be so picky. In the face of death, people's choices are not necessarily so rational. If you want to avoid such a test and make yourself sad, try not to put yourself in such danger, such as walking around when you see a cesspit and never falling.