It's really hard to say, but looking at couples who have lived together for a long time, it seems that they are beginning to believe in love again.
Many people are gone, and some people are old. Time is always fleeting. Maybe you are still in love this year and will be a mother in a few years.
Maybe you are still arguing about trifles today, and the children will go to college in a few years. So, how hard is it to be real forever? In fact, as long as you stick to your original intention, it will never be too difficult.
Time flies and people's hearts change. It seems difficult to keep the original heart. Some people may break up because of a joke, or they may change their lives because of one thing.
In fact, if you want a long-term marriage, it is enough to do one thing: keep your heart.
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People who really love their whole lives are often moody people.
At the beginning of the year, Mr. and Mrs. Lao Lin had a stable job, a happy marriage and two children. Although they are not rich, their lives are smooth sailing.
Suddenly one day, Lao Lin wanted to buy a second suite, and decided with his wife to see how much money he had. If he can buy another suite, he thinks he can lighten the burden on his children.
But it's still not enough for the down payment of the second suite. If you can get a fake divorce, then the down payment can be reduced a lot and you can afford a second suite.
In this way, the two divorced, and Lao Lin bought a second suite as he wished. When he offered to remarry his wife, she didn't want to.
She said, let's live like this first. I think it's nice to be alone. I spend my own money, I have a job, and I don't have that much housework. I feel good.
Maybe we can make do with many things, but we often pursue perfection in what we care about. Even though he seems a little absent-minded, I can still feel his determination to you.
With such a person, you don't have to worry about divorce, and you don't have to worry about his change of heart, because their initial intentions will not change, as long as they are good to him, they can keep doing it.
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Try to be nice to someone who deserves it, and your marriage will last forever.
Today, I saw a person's signature written like this: If you dare to last forever, I will dare to last forever.
Obviously, this is for each other. The same is true of the premise of marriage. As long as one person can make it last forever, another person dares to last forever.
As long as one of them doesn't change his mind and the other only needs to be kind to him, then marriage will become much simpler.
Although their hair gradually turned white, their way of getting along remained the same. The man is in charge of the work, and the woman just takes care of him. The two people are getting more and more harmonious and have a tacit understanding.
At the age of fifty, Lao Fu told his wife. I will never divorce you in my life. You will be the only woman in my life. Even if I have money now, my promise to you will not change. ?
Now my wife nodded and said, I used to think it was always too difficult. Now it seems that my kindness to you is worth everything. I don't think I can do anything in my life, but you are enough. ?
Marriage needs husband and wife to run together, and Qi Xin can work together to advance side by side, without selfish distractions. This kind of marriage can really last forever.
Therefore, if you don't know how to run a marriage, it is essential to learn some knowledge of marriage psychology.
It will help you fully understand marriage, not only the simple management, but also tell you how to properly solve the contradictions in marriage so as not to hurt the feelings between husband and wife, as well as the mentality and skills necessary for marriage.
Marriage is sometimes like this. There is no love. As long as you have a constant initial heart, you will surely grow old unexpectedly.
We don't know how far it will be forever, but in a limited time, it is enough to keep your heart.
So, the secret of long-term love between husband and wife: management? Heart? .
There are too many temptations in a person's life, and it is actually very difficult to be kind to only one person all his life. However, as long as you work hard every day, time passes quickly, and you will be forever in the blink of an eye.