My friend Xiao Q said, "Go home by yourself, Xiao Zi is back." In order to avoid the advice of menstruation, the first uncle of middle school, he failed to avoid the instructions of his parents before leaving the platform of Super Six. "Be sure to bring your boyfriend back next Spring Festival!" It is simply a new era version of "Back" that makes people cry, and what Zhu Ziqing sees is shame.
It is said that life needs a sense of ceremony. Recently, the Spring Festival is no longer as simple as family reunion. The Spring Festival is also becoming a serious way of urging. Even if you don't want it anymore, you should bite the bullet and meet that moment. Over the years, I have heard all kinds of unconventional ways of urging. For example, the signature of parents' circle of friends reads "The greatest wish is that their children get married early". An uncle's menstruation child murmured that he was married and had a particularly happy life. In addition, for example, if you attend all weddings, you will grab bouquets for your daughter and send WeChat photos to convey "good color". In order to let the children get married early, parents' hearts have been hidden in all the life. It's really skillful, but young people are more skillful in coping with the way of urging, so that I can chat with you about the touching stories I heard.
My predecessors asked me to work in South Africa to prevent marriage. Not only do you not go home during the Spring Festival, but it is also very difficult to return home once a year. Parents' concerns range from urging marriage to urging marriage to returning home. Because he was too afraid that he would find his daughter-in-law in South Africa. Besides, what she heard from her former colleagues is that her best friend can't stand her parents' nagging. This year, I helped my colleagues in my hometown, and the couple pretended to cross the sea. I didn't expect both parents to be satisfied. I spent such a happy and unsupervised Spring Festival. As for the popular method in Weibo, it is inconvenient to convey the sentence of "the danger of urging marriage" in the circle of friends for many times. It is said that his parents' relatives urged him to suffer a lot before marriage, and he was preemptive and could not bear his parents. A hundred schools of thought contend about the method of urging marriage in various ways, but it is essentially an escape. Escape is a psychological defense mechanism, which isolates the truth and problems, and isolates us from our parents.
Some girls can see that the gentleness and strength of women's strength can not only bring changes to ourselves, but also make our own lives better, and make changes in the interaction with the closest people. We can take the first step of change without considering the risk. When we urge marriage again, we look forward to not escaping and worrying any more. Whether we call or write letters, we can bravely express ourselves and give our parents a chance to communicate and understand.