Apart from the daily jokes of Xiao Xin, who is only five years old forever, he actually said many words full of philosophy of life.

When we have experienced the ups and downs of life and look at this cartoon again, we will all sigh:

"I used to laugh when I saw Xiao Xin, but now I want to cry when I see Xiao Xin."

Laugh, because we want to live an innocent life like Xiao Xin; Crying, or do we want to be as naive as Xiao Xin forever?

So when you are confused about life, let's take a look at Xiao Xin's five maxims full of life philosophy.

Maybe it will cheer you up.

0 1: "I'm playing hide-and-seek with the rain" is a dialogue between crayon Xiao Xin and a big sister when they are hiding from the rain.

Elder sister: "What are you doing, little friend?"

Xiao Xin: "I'm playing hide-and-seek with the rain."

Big sister: "Oh, you are hiding from the rain."

In the adult world, when it rains, it should be "hiding from the rain", but in Xiao Xin's world, he is playing hide-and-seek with the rain.

This sentence, apart from the naivety and children's imagination we see on the surface, is actually an expression of life attitude.

"Rain" is equivalent to the difficulties and setbacks we encounter in life. When we are faced with an unchangeable dilemma, it seems to be an instinctive reaction to avoid it helplessly, and even complain that "the weather is really bad".

Xiao Xin's words gave us a revelation: it is normal to be unhappy in life, and we should also keep a good attitude when it is inevitable.

Take difficulties and setbacks as a part of our life and exist like "playmates", then you won't feel anxious because of these difficulties.

02: "When you want to make up, you should say you are sorry." In our adult world, it seems very difficult to say "I'm sorry".

Especially when dealing with the closest people, the word "I'm sorry" is as difficult to say as it is in the throat.

Xiao Xin's view on this is:

"When you want to make up, you should say sorry. We are all like this in kindergarten. As long as this is the case, we can make up again. "

When we get along with our relatives, we are usually reserved in emotional expression. For example, we seldom say "I love you" and "I'm sorry" to our parents.

But in fact, we have always understood that as long as you can tell your true feelings, the relationship will be greatly eased and improved.

This warning is actually telling us that it is more effective to express your true feelings directly to people close to you than to get along with any skills.

Therefore, don't be ashamed to express your feelings and feelings, and speak your thoughts directly. This is the best "skill" to get along with.

03: "Love alone can't fill your stomach." There are many people around you who give up their life plans for love. They think that love is everything to them, and even give up their relatives and careers.

They bet the rest of their lives on love, thinking that as long as they get the love they dream of, it is a blessing in life.

These people all have a mantra: "How can I live without him?"

The reality is that these people who regard love as their whole life have failed to get the love they want.

Dreams are poetry and distance, but I finally married you.

Therefore, Xiao Xin's words are the real wisdom of life: "Love alone can't fill the stomach."

Love is really beautiful, but it must not be the whole of your life.

In this way, in fact, many people live worse than a five-year-old child.

04: "Crying can't solve the problem." Maybe we don't cry easily when we grow up, but cry in another way, that is complaining.

If you encounter something unsatisfactory, you should complain; If others don't agree with themselves, complain; If you encounter setbacks in life, you should complain. ...

Finally, you may find that complaining can not only solve any problems, but also make your life more difficult.

As Xiao Xin said, "If you feel that there is nothing difficult in the world when you cry, it is all wet."

As long as you "cry" when you are unhappy, it is certainly impossible to change your present situation.

When we were young, we liked to "cry", because as long as we cried, our parents would come forward to help us clear the obstacles ahead;

When we grow up, we like to "complain", but there is no one to help you solve the problem anymore.

In the face of the confusion of life, "crying" has no meaning.

05: "Life will encounter good things and bad things." Many times, we are confused about life because we want to pursue good things too much and don't want to meet bad things.

When we pursue good results wholeheartedly, we don't expect bad results.

So if we can't meet our expectations, we will feel confused and at a loss.

So if you want to be more cheerful, maybe you should first understand the normality of "life" like Xiao Xin:

"Life will encounter good things and bad things. This is life. "

In this way, we can truly treat the dribs and drabs of life with a normal heart and truly be open-minded and cheerful.

How do you know what happiness is like if you haven't tasted the bitterness of life?

Without experiencing the hardships of life, how can you understand that happiness is hard to come by?

Conclusion We realize that we have been looking for the true meaning of a happy life, but it is always difficult to see the truth clearly.

You can't see the confusion of nature clearly, and the more confused you are, the easier it is to lose yourself.

So what kind of life is happy? Maybe Xiao Xin's point of view can give us some inspiration.

"Ordinary is the happiest. We sometimes want to live an ordinary life, and it is not so easy to do it. "

"Illness, accidents, bankruptcy, divorce, these things don't know when they will happen."

"If you can live an ordinary life, it is certainly a gratifying thing."

As Xiao Xin said, we should strive to live a more ordinary life, not to mention a more extraordinary life.

Ordinary does not mean mediocrity. As long as we are still working hard, even if we live a little ordinary, isn't it a very happy life?

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I am Zhiyang, thank you for reading.

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