How to chat after adding a girl's WeChat? Interacting with girls and adding WeChat is only the first step. It must be strange to chat with a girl who just added WeChat. So how to chat after adding a girl's WeChat will be attractive? Follow me to see how to chat after adding a girl's WeChat.
How to chat 1 1, the familiar relationship after adding girls' wechat. If the two sides are familiar with each other, then choose some topics to talk about, such as what happened in study, work and life.
2. Unfamiliar relationship. Unfamiliar relationship, don't say too much at first, just say hello and greet politely at first. Starting a chat with too much content will cause the other party to resent it.
3. Get to know each other. By observing each other's circle of friends, photo albums, personal signatures, nicknames, etc. Be familiar with and master each other's personality, preferences and interests. This will prepare you for your future chat.
4. Prepare the topic. After knowing each other's hobbies and other aspects, we should prepare what to talk to each other in advance, and then talk to avoid no good results.
5. When you start to get in touch, briefly talk about it. A single relationship, a single character, and a single emotion are easier to cut into.
6. Talk about things that girls are interested in. You can classify the messages sent by her circle of friends and see which one appears more frequently. Focus on the near future, but also take into account the previous content. The content that appeared a long time ago can be inadvertently mentioned in the chat, and there may be unexpected joy.
7, step by step, and gradually improve the goodwill. Chatting should give girls a way out, not coercion. Girls feel more secure and open their hearts more easily when they have choices.
Finally, sum up. If you are familiar with it, you can choose some topics to chat, such as what happened in your study, work and life. If you don't, don't talk too much at first. Just say hello at the beginning. Chatting too much at first will cause the other person's disgust. By observing her circle of friends and other contents, I am familiar with and master her personality, preferences and interests. So you'll almost know, get it, and get ready for chatting and finding a topic in the future.
How to chat after adding girls' WeChat 2 1 and explain why you are here.
This is why many people directly make the scene super embarrassing from the beginning: the other party has no idea of your arrival, and the other party doesn't know why you want to chat with her when you catch her from the sky.
If you want not to be embarrassed at first, you must have at least three factors:
Know who you are, why you know people, and why you should know people.
As the opening remarks, you'd better be careful not to say too many fancy opening remarks, otherwise the other party may think you are crazy from the beginning.
First, keep the other person familiar with you and introduce yourself clearly, so that we can have a chat. Otherwise, if you don't do well at the beginning and the other party doesn't have a clear understanding of you, it will be even more difficult to talk about it in the future.
2, with the help of * * * the same topic, establish your familiarity.
As a newcomer, your early chat with her must be tied to the same topic. Otherwise, as a new acquaintance, the other party will give you little patience, feel that there is nothing to talk about, and generally will not reply directly, leaving you alone in the wind.
You took part in * * * activities and got along in * * * environment. To some extent, you have the same hobbies. This is a good chat material library before you find more topics. You should first learn from this material library, establish a topic and start chatting.
* * * The function of the same topic is to let you have a sense of connection between two unrelated strangers, and build a bridge of communication between them, which will not only deepen your impression now, but also build the cornerstone of communication for the next chat in the future.
Step 3 build attraction
How do people we just met attract our attention and attraction? I think it can be divided into these three situations:
1, this person is very interesting, and it is very interesting to get along with him.
2. This person has done well in the field you are interested in. You can consult him in the future.
This person shows you the other side of life. He not only has the same hobbies as you.
To sum up, after adding WeChat, there are three steps: introducing the purpose, establishing familiarity and shaping attraction. This is a process, you can't eat a fat man at one breath.