As a post-70 s aunt, the living environment in which she lived made her have such an idea, which is understandable. In her opinion, this idea is her life experience for many years, so I hope to teach my niece and not let her suffer. The starting point is good.

But the living environment I live in now is different from that of my aunt in those years, so there are many problems with this concept. So as a niece born in 1990s, I should have my own distinguishing ability, that is to say, I'd better find a friend who really suits me.

Finally: Auntie is good for her niece, and the idea is understandable. Nieces need to have their own ideas and learn some good things from the experience taught by their aunts.