It is not so much that others make you suffer, but that you are not cultivated enough.
If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Trouble, just because of my heart, I can't let go.
People who are not blessed often hear right and wrong; Those who have enough blessings have never heard of right or wrong.
When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.
Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.
Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
It is not pitiful to know when you are confused, but it is most pitiful when you don't know when you are confused.
Don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers.
To admit your greatness is to admit your stupidity.
People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices.
When you advise others, if you don't care about others' self-esteem, then no matter how good it is, it is useless.
There's no need to look back at who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back?
It is not true wisdom to say that you can't do it.
Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your opinions in a hurry.
Why did you put the poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life.
It is shameful to cover up your shortcomings by hurting others.
Caring and blessing others silently is an invisible charity.
Tell more jokes and handle things with humor, and life will be easier.
Germany is naturally fragrant.
Adversity is a necessary process of growth, and those who dare to accept adversity will become stronger and stronger.
Thank those who point out your shortcomings.
If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.
Time will always pass, let time flow away your troubles!
If you tell one lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft.
Hatred can never dissolve hatred. Only sympathy can dissolve hatred. This is the eternal truth.
Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.
A stupid person always wants others to know him. Smart people try to understand themselves.
Only by facing the reality can you surpass it.
Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment.
Don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, and don't preach the evil of others. Naturally, you can turn your enemies into your friends.
A person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.
Although you hate a person, you can find his advantages and benefits. There are really few people in the world who have such cultivation.
A thousand dollars can't buy sincerity.
Our fatigue often comes not from work, but from anxiety, depression and resentment.
Don't aspire to success, aspire to be a valuable person.
No tree bears its own fruit.
The money has always been there, but the pocket is different.
If you want to master eternity, then you must control the present.
A bad mouth should never come from our mouth, no matter how bad it is. If you scold him, your heart will be polluted. Think about it, he is your good knowledge.
Never underestimate the power of good deeds.
To help the weak, a person should become strong on his own, not as weak as they are.
Good manners include many small sacrifices.
Peace is much more precious than a piece of land.
Pioneers attract attention, but they are often the loneliest.
Many things in the world have been solved with patience, and disputes in the world have been solved with carelessness.
Treat people with virtue, treat people with virtue, and treat people who hate them as people who can turn over a new leaf soon.
No matter what you deal with, it is helpful to respect other people's ideas.
Keep calm in a noisy place. In cold places, you must be enthusiastic.
We can't pray that the pain will stop, but we must pray that our hearts can conquer it.
Those who do often succeed, and those who do often arrive.
Walking wrestling is better than standing still.
Finding your own job is finding your place in this world.
Every big tree was once just a seed.
Talking without practice is a "mantra", and applying what you have learned is a "action Zen".
He who plants thorns will not reap roses.
A barking dog is better than a sleeping lion.
If you haven't set out yet, don't expect your ship to dock.
Laziness is the hotbed of temptation, the cradle of disease, wasting time and devouring happiness.
In my opinion, the enemy of everything is an ordinary person.
People who don't help themselves will never be blessed by God.
Take action and leave empty words to others.
The reason why the world can keep moving forward is because people are not satisfied with the status quo; Satisfied people always lock themselves in old boxes.
Creativity always comes naturally when you work hard.
A healthy body is the bedroom of the soul, and a sick body is the prison of the soul.
Hard work can rest the body, and labor can rest the spirit.
Extend a hand of friendship to others first. Let the other person become the right person. That doesn't mean you are wrong.
The less you need to prove yourself to others, the more peaceful you will be.
What bothers us are trivial things. We can avoid an elephant, but we cannot avoid a fly.
The mind is like a garden. If you don't water and farm, it will be full of rubbish and weeds.
It is not enough to be busy, the question is what we are busy with.
Don't expect to please everyone.
The biggest difference between "simple tea and simple meals" and "luxurious food" is only the "mentality" of the parties.
If you can still work hard, do it in time; If there is nothing you can do, then let go of your troubles!
Inferiority and pride are self-centered, and there is a sense of inferiority in the subconscious that is afraid of being hurt.
Filial piety to adoptive parents not only provides them with food and shelter, but also maintains their mental health.
It's not up to me to be rich and lucky. To be a man of virtue, I advocate not going to heaven.
A skilled carpenter need not be sad, because he has not been praised by laymen.
Enlarge your mind to see things, stand firm and be a man.
People who often think that others are paying attention to you, or want others to pay attention to you, will have a more troublesome life.
If you suck too much milk from a cow, you will get blood instead of milk.
In the eyes of mice, cats are lions.
Life is like a horse. If you don't control it, you will be controlled by it.
Self-restraint is another form of courage.
A truly great man is to show others his extraordinary things through his own actions.
Enjoy the glory of success with others, but bear the blame of failure alone.
The greatest feature of a great man is that he can persist in the end when he encounters misfortune or adversity.
Just challenging tradition is not necessarily a true brave; Really brave people should be able to come up with better methods than tradition.
With courage and strength, a person can be regarded as a gentleman, but a truly brave person must overcome his anger and forgive others.
Good luck never favors those who have no courage.
There is no such thing as luck, and the most accidental accident seems inevitable.
People who are short-sighted and act only in front of their eyes are the weakest.
Enrich yourself at any time, you never know when the opportunity will come.
I believe in luck. I find that the harder I work, the better my luck.
Luck sometimes appears in adversity.
Life is like a self-directed and self-acting play, the protagonist is himself, and there is only one chance to "perform".
Never say that the world didn't give you a chance.
Every difficulty is an opportunity.
We can't predict when the opportunity will come, but we can cultivate our own strength in advance.
If you have strength, you must have opportunities.
Change others, it is better to change yourself first.
People who often forgive themselves are often not forgiven by God.
People are very strange, they don't know themselves, but they want to interfere with others every day, which makes them very painful.
Where people live, there will be right and wrong. Take it as normal, and you won't be sad.
As we all know, anger is ignorance and uselessness, but there is nothing we can do about it. It is precisely because of the lack of "consciousness" that we can't let go of gains and losses.
Defaming others is like spitting blood at others, polluting your mouth first.
Believing hearsay is like a stupid dog. Someone threw a stone at random, so he rushed to pick it up.
Hate others, but it is yourself who suffers.
Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others.
With a grateful heart, forget the shortcomings of others!
People who can endure are satisfied with everything; Angry people are always in hell.
Instead of making money, you are made by money, because money takes away your youth, time, physical strength and life.
Ambitious people make a wish once and stick to it all their lives. People who have no ambition make wishes every day, which are superficial and false.
When the ears of rice are ripe, the head naturally lowers.
It would be a disaster to get something you don't deserve.
The real pay is to let go of worry, worry, separation and persistence.
If there is no "right and wrong" to worry about, it is a good time on earth.
Each has his own karma, so don't envy others.
Those who are willing to bow their heads will never hit the low door.
Don't be superstitious about authority, authority sometimes makes mistakes.
Worry makes people look old more easily than time.
People who often let others live a happy life must be happy themselves.
Prosperity is indifferent, adversity is calm.
A calm sea never makes a good sailor.
Facing the reality, adversity will turn to prosperity, and there is always a turning point. Escaping from reality, although I have temporarily stolen a sense of security, there is no room for turning over.
Take off your mask and you can enjoy the happiness of nature.
Ordinary people do not look back, and saints do not look back.
The past, has become the past, it is just the afterimage of memory.
A wise man walks away knowing the illusion, but a fool holds the illusion to be true.
Everyone in the world is pursuing happiness, but no one really knows what happiness is.
I know how to take out the garbage at home, but I don't know how to take out the garbage inside (greed, anger and delusion).
Sincerity can move people, modesty can convince people.
Think of others when you encounter difficulties, and think of yourself first.
I lost a duck and hurried back. My conscience found it, but no one was in a hurry.
Bitter in heart, happy in interests, magnanimous in bearing, cautious in words and deeds.
Admire others, in public; Blaming others must be done in private.
Wise people have fun around them, while people without wisdom want others to give them happiness.
If a person is not infected by bad habits, happiness is around!
If you don't let go of your gains and losses, it's impossible to be painless.
There is a business in the world that always loses money, and that is losing your temper.
With wisdom, you can naturally understand the truth, you can understand the truth, and life is naturally happy.
The real magic is to get rid of troubles.
The principle of right and wrong is to put yourself in others' shoes.
Right and wrong happen every day. If you don't listen to nature, there will be nothing.
Can feel the fraud of others, not in words, humiliated by others, indifferent color, the road is near!
When we don't know the truth of a thing, we'd better take a respectful attitude, otherwise it will show our ignorance even more.
He who lowers his desire to the lowest point and sublimates his reason to the highest point is a saint.
A contented person is still happy lying on the ground; Those who are not satisfied are not satisfied, although they are in heaven.
Busy people are not blind, but determined.
The mountains don't turn, and the environment doesn't turn.
People who realize the impermanence of life will no longer be dissolute and greedy, so the awakening of impermanence of life is the beginning of wisdom.
Giving is happier than receiving.
Appropriate desires are necessary for human beings, but beyond the scope, pain and evil will follow.
When there is beauty in your heart, the world you see will be different.
The gap between people often lies in that people like to make doors with words and lock doors with their hearts.
Mistakes will lead to trouble, and evil will eventually perish.
Give hope, not despair.
Only by tolerating the existence of dissidents can we achieve our greatness.
I can't get rid of my inner troubles, and I can't be happy even if I travel around the world.
Thank god for what I have, thank god for what I don't have.
Being brave enough to accept criticism from others can just adjust your own shortcomings.
It is a blessing to bear the burden of humiliation.
What does the name matter? What we call a rose, no matter what it is called, is still as fragrant.
Mediocrity in ancient and modern times has been defeated by the word "lazy". Talented people in ancient and modern times were defeated by the word "pride".
A wise man turns to do good, but a fool is ashamed to drive away evil.
People with real talent and practical learning will not praise them, and people with real talent and practical learning will not praise their knowledge.
If you make up your mind, it makes no difference whether you are good or not.
I would rather forgive others myself than let others forgive you.
Sometimes, we have to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?
A bright light is in your heart, let it shine all over the world.
Really enjoy life, there is no comparison.
Sleepless nights are long, tired people are long, and fools who don't know the correct truth are long.
If you don't ask for it, you will be yourself, and if you don't ask for it, you will be safe.
The fire of greed burns your conscience. The water of compassion is cool in your heart.
Use the warm candle in your heart and light another candle beside you, and the world will be illuminated.
Only those who can let go of their troubles can get real happiness.
Even a gentle compliment brings us closer.
If you are narrow-minded, you will have more troubles, while if you are broad-minded, you will have more wisdom.
Everyone has two sides. Try to look at the problem from the perspective of others and solve it, which will make you suddenly enlightened.
Everyone's heart is the most skillful craftsman, who can carve himself into a Buddha or a demon.
Don't always feel unhappy, there are many people in the world who are more miserable than us.
It hurts the body and is easy to heal; Hurting people's hearts is the hardest to cure.
You can't correct everyone in the world to make the world peaceful, just as you can't clear the stones and thorns all over the world to make all roads smooth. If you want to walk flat, you must wear a pair of shoes. If you want to get inner peace, you must learn to control your feelings.
Don't lose your temper when your mistake is exposed. Don't think that being willful or noisy can cover up or overcome your shortcomings.
Thanks to everyone, I live much more comfortably with gratitude.
Most people can see through it, but they can't stand it.
With selfless love, you have everything.
The best education for others is everything you say and do.
If you can treat dedication as a kind of happiness, you will be welcomed wherever you go.
Training your concentration can keep you in chaos and prosperity.
The weak focus on one thing and achieve something. The strong are distracted by too many things and get nothing.
The saddest thing in the world is to betray your conscience.
Don't make yourself a burden to others.
The future belongs to those who are diligent in the present.
Time is the harshest tyrant, ruthlessly squeezing our health, physical strength, looks, talents and life itself.
It's true to be obsessed with the mystery.
Don't blame others for being too young, don't give them privacy, and don't miss their old sins. The three can accumulate virtue and harm far.
Trouble comes from unreasonable desires.
Having beautiful feathers is not necessarily a good bird, and having a beautiful appearance does not necessarily bring happiness and beauty.
No matter how much wealth you have, it is best to have a moment's peace of mind.
There is no one in the world who will never be vilified, and there is no one who will always be admired.
I don't like it when I hear praise, I don't worry about it when I hear slander, I don't move my reputation, I practice both inside and outside, and I am famous all over the world.
Prosperity is not necessarily good, adversity is not necessarily bad.
If you want to be a miracle of the world, you must take the Wan Li Road.
Don't make something out of nothing, let alone vilify others.
Being good, although a scholar, serves people's virtue; For evil, although people are extremely loyal, people say their things.
Bring disgrace to oneself, who doesn't respect himself, looks for trouble if he doesn't fear himself, benefits if he isn't complacent, and is well informed if he doesn't.
The beauty of a gentleman as an adult is not the evil of an adult; Divide people's mistakes, regardless of right and wrong.
The earth is the meanest, and everything is born on it.
Don't go looking for trouble, and don't be afraid to do something difficult.
Memory is only the afterimage of consciousness. Never be a burden.
Delusion is a meaningless waste of life.
If you want to go to the other side, you can't just run along the shore.
The embarrassment of the mind is the most terrible poverty in life.
It's easy to work, but difficult to complain.