1. Without financial independence, there is a lack of self-esteem; without independence of thinking, there is a lack of autonomy; without personal independence, there is a lack of self-confidence.

2. Have the courage to give up something for the life you want. There is no justice in this world, and you will never get the best of both worlds.

3. When people grow up, they will make less and less demands and blame others, because as we slowly learn to put ourselves in their shoes, we will find that it is difficult for everyone. Everyone gives up while enduring hardships. Here we are today.

4. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

5. It doesn’t matter if you have a simple meal, it doesn’t matter if your friends are gone, it doesn’t matter if the war is in chaos, as long as you have a steaming soul, your life will not be bad.

6. Never show your weakness to others; never tell others your embarrassment. Because no one will think you are pitiful, they will only think you are incompetent and useless.

7. There are serious words hidden in all jokes, and those responses that seem not to be understood are probably the most tactful rejection.

8. On the long road of life, you will always make a few mistakes. If you cannot get over yesterday's hurdles, you will not see the smooth road.

9. A person’s biggest opponent is often not others, but his own laziness. Don't expect to get lucky. Luck can't always be with you. You have to rely on your ability at all times. You must try your best to be qualified to say that you are unlucky.

10. People who like to make irresponsible remarks and fabricate stories behind your back have three reasons: they are not at your level; they don’t have what you have; and they are trying to imitate your lifestyle.

11. We only need to do three things in life: know how to choose, know how to persist, and know how to cherish.

12. There are many high-level people in the world, and there are also many interesting people. However, there are very few high-level and interesting people. High-class people make people respect them, interesting people make people like them, and high-class and interesting people make people respect but not fear them, and make them intimate but not affectionate. The longer the communication lasts, the more mellow the fragrance will be.

13. Whether it is life or the supermarket, the cards will be reshuffled and positions will be changed. It's good if you can find what you want, and it's good if you can pay the bill. ——Zhang Jiajia

14. If someone hurts you, don’t thank those who hurt you. They did nothing to make you grow. What makes you grow is your reflection and strength. So just thank yourself and the people around you.

15. There are no assumptions in life, the present is everything. When you decide to follow a path, don't look around. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, don't linger. You should be clear about your purpose. You should be clear about what and where you are pursuing with your heart. Remind yourself from time to time.

16. The only thing in the world that can be obtained for nothing is poverty, and the only thing that can be made out of nothing is dreams. Nothing can be realized without taking action. Although the world is cruel, there is always a way as long as you are willing to walk!

17. You must understand one thing. No matter how much your relatives comfort you or how much your friends accompany you, at some point, you can only struggle to stand up alone and face the reality. The trials and tribulations of life.

18. On the road of life, it may be triumphant or bumpy. The colorfulness of life is that we have experienced too many alternations of warmth and coldness before we can reach perfection. Too many mistakes are like passing fireworks. We cannot Even if you catch it, you won't be able to pick it up, and it will eventually become indifferent in the dust.

19. Adults must understand a truth: No amount of chicken soup articles can compare with the sense of security that a banknote gives. Be less pretentious and work harder. The kind of life you want, you have to earn it yourself!

Twenty. When life is unsatisfactory, it is a long vacation given by God. At this time, you should enjoy the vacation. Suddenly one day the vacation ends, things turn around, and life really begins.

21. You cannot have spring flowers and autumn moon at the same time, you cannot have fruits and flowers at the same time. You have to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can gain something. You have to learn to accept the incompleteness and sadness of your fate, and then be at peace. Because, this is life.

22. When you learn to reject others and learn to retaliate in kind, they will respect you and even fear you. I finally believed that sentence: There is nothing wrong with being ruthless.

Twenty-three. A person who can make everyone's life good today will not be much worse tomorrow. Because true generosity towards the future means dedicating the most outstanding efforts to the present and cherishing everything in the present.

24. In a person's life, as long as it is the right thing to do, it is right to do it at any time. On the right path, you only have to decide whether you want to do it or not, and whether you are willing to start. There is no such thing as sooner or later. There are no excuses or too many worries. Just think about it and take action.

Twenty-five. Mature wheat ears always lower their heads, and the tolerant ocean always stays in a low position. Truly powerful people are not afraid of being in a low position. They can withstand the wind and rain and pretend to be grievances. Only by knowing how to put yourself down can you elevate your life.

26. Life is just a dream, and everyone may encounter happiness and joy. Life is like a mirror. If you smile in front of it, it will laugh. If you cry in front of it, it will cry.

In this case, we might as well smile along the way and grow old leisurely and calmly.

Twenty-seven. Only when life has bitterness and sweetness can it be called complete; only when love has troubles and peace can it be called interest; only when the mood has sadness and joy can it be called understanding; only when days have cloudy and sunny days can it be called natural. Life is too short, don’t pursue too much; your heart is small, don’t overfill it. Home does not seek luxury, but only warmth; love does not seek romance, but a lifetime of companionship.