1. Everyone is a mud bodhisattva who can’t take care of themselves. Don’t expect anyone to help you cross the river of reality.

2. People with different views cannot be friends. Just like I said the sea is beautiful, but you said many people died in it, I treat you with my heart, but you treat me with your heart. I can't afford it, but I can afford to hide.

3. If you don’t try your best, you have no right to criticize others for not paying attention. It's easy to complain, but those who keep their mouths shut and work hard are more respectable.

4. Only when we owe each other can we break the ties; if we don't owe each other, we can only let go of the past. Many things are not good or bad, just appropriate or inappropriate. When you can't sleep, it may not be a problem with the bed, but with your posture.

5. When the millet is ripe, it lowers its head; when the sunflower is ripe, it also lowers its head. Raising your head is to accumulate energy, and lowering your head is to avoid danger.

6. Learn to clear your life regularly, throw away the clothes you no longer wear, and forget about the person who doesn’t love you. A person who always looks back cannot go far. Don't get entangled, don't look back, and don't miss the past!

7. Not disturbing others’ peace is compassion; not hurting others’ self-esteem is kindness. When people are alive, just shine their own light, and don't blow out other people's lamps.

8. Time is really the best span in the world. It makes pain pale and allows persistent people to choose to leave. Then after going through vicissitudes of life and people coming and going, you will understand that everything is the same. Life is not up to you at all.

9. Why don’t you want to choose kindness again? Because no one can recognize kindness, everyone thinks it is giving in.

10. It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, and it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Instead of putting down your face and pleasing others, it is better to work hard to change and live a good life. When you succeed, you will not be afraid of wind and rain. When you are strong, Don't be afraid of being bullied.

11. You always like to put things off until the next day. You can't always put them off like this. One day, you will have so many things to do, and the rest of your life will not be enough for you.

12. Never indulge in comfort and muddle along. What can shelter you from the wind and rain can also make you invisible. Only by making yourself stronger can you truly hold up the sky.

13. Don’t wait until innocence loses to reality, then you will realize how stupid you are; don’t wait until sincerity loses to hypocrisy, then you will realize that you are not tactful.

14. Instead of being lively and eye-catching and pressing every step of the way, it is better to be a real and natural person among the crowd, not ostentatious, not pretentious, and always keep a retreat. The mind is set and just focus on doing things.

15. The best love is when two free souls love each other. Two souls that castrate each other, or even souls that castrate themselves, are not the best love, let alone a good life. . ——Gao Xiaosong

16. Circle determines life. The kind of people you approach will determine the path you will take. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. Poker friends will only urge you to play cards, drinking friends will only urge you to drink, but reliable people will teach you how to make progress.

17. Give yourself time, don’t be anxious, go step by step, day by day, please believe that the resilience of life is amazing, cooperate with your own upward heart, and don’t give up on loving yourself. ——Sanmao

18. Don’t be too sensitive as a person. If you think too much, you will hurt yourself. The speaker has no intention and the listener has intention. Just say a casual word and you have to think about it. , Aren’t you tired of pondering over and over again? Many things are remembered by the listeners, but forgotten by the speakers.

19. Every sensible and calm present has a silly and naive past. Every warm and indifferent present has a sad and uneasy past. Knowing the world but not being worldly is the most kind-hearted maturity.

20. If your life is at a low point, then go boldly, because no matter how you go, you are always moving upward. Whether life is happy or not depends on your mood, and whether you are happy or not depends on your mentality. In a long life, nothing can be seen at a glance. A moment of success is nothing, and neither is a moment of failure.