My sister-in-law was pregnant before marriage. The banquet for a pregnant woman is not very big, it is about five months old.

She is pregnant with twins.

Her mother-in-law, who is also my aunt, said personally when a bunch of relatives were sitting together talking about family issues: If the twins she was pregnant with were not willing to fight, Xiao X would not necessarily marry her.

Yes. From the beginning, this marriage seemed to me a tragedy.

She met my cousin when she was sixteen and has been with him since she was sixteen. My cousin lost his father when he was four years old, so my aunt took care of him alone. At first, I looked for a couple several times, but the men I found were all bad to my cousin. Later, my aunt took care of him alone. He dropped out of junior high school and went to study computer repair. He must be two years older than his sister-in-law. I forgot his zodiac sign. My sister-in-law seems to be a monkey, and my two children are horses.

That is, when my brother-in-law’s cousin was not married yet, my aunt’s sister-in-law’s children were several years old.

According to my aunt, there were two women chasing my cousin. My cousin called them together and asked: I want whoever can be nice to my mother.

So my sister-in-law was selected. Of course, I doubt whether this paragraph is true. My aunt is not very trustworthy, and she especially likes to brag about her son. She also said that the girl who failed to win the election has a very rich family, and she even gave my cousin a car. My cousin didn’t. want.

I didn’t see the thing, but I didn’t believe it anyway, so I just heard it.

My cousin is a very flowery person, and in my opinion, his character is not very good. My sister-in-law married him when she was 20 years old, and they had two abortions in almost four years of love. We went to the hospital twice. My sister-in-law is usually in good health and rarely catches colds. She didn't shy away from what she did during those two visits and just told anyone who asked. The two children were married because they were twins, and her health would be bad if she was beaten again. However, it is difficult to say whether my cousin and my aunt were concerned about the latter situation.

When I went to his house, my aunt asked me to rummage through her things. In the cabinet, I also saw a couple’s cup with photos of two people printed on it. There was no dust and there were water stains from wiping.

But she really, really bet on the wrong person. Even though my cousin is a relative of mine, my mother and I still scolded him for a long time. Even now that I am writing this answer, I still want to scold him for not being a human being. I'm really angry that all the verbal karma has been put aside.

My sister-in-law went out to find a job the year after giving birth. Working in a beauty salon, it seems to be about 8,000 a month now. My aunt said it, but I don’t know the actual amount. My aunt told me in a showy tone:

"Your brother keeps all his money in his own hands. XX (sister-in-law's name) spends all the money in the house, and he doesn't spend a penny. "I'm saving it."

Then I asked whose account it was, and she said

"It's all your brother's. Your sister-in-law's card is also in your brother's name. You still have to pay for your brother's account?" I don’t know, it’s amazing.”

I was quite shocked, but after all, it was none of my business, and I didn’t know if it was true or not, so I didn’t say much. Later I found out what he had done with his money.

My aunt is a talkative person. My grandma said she has a very special temper. My own mother said this, so it’s easy to imagine the real situation. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my sister-in-law has always been the tolerant one. She doesn't have much to say, let alone talk about. She is a really good woman. Sometimes I stay at his house because of work. My sister-in-law is really not impatient at all, let alone chewing my tongue behind my back. She is a very honest and gentle woman. When I'm not at work, I clean the house and take care of the children. In the years since my cousin got married, he hasn't washed a single piece of clothing or brushed a pair of shoes. When I get up, I shout: xx! I'm going to wear those blue pants with multiple buttons today. My sister-in-law said that you should find it yourself. I am here to mop the floor and take care of the children. My cousin immediately started scolding me.

He also beat my sister-in-law. My aunt has mentioned it several times before. She loves to gossip, so naturally she talks about her daughter-in-law. One time, I don’t know what he said to my sister-in-law. My mother was still there at the time. He rushed into the bedroom, pulled my sister-in-law’s hair from the bed to the door, and slapped her across the face.

My mother was so angry that she cried. My aunt didn’t care at all and sat aside. She said, “Oh, I can’t survive.” He also smashed my mother’s cell phone.

At this time, I would like to mention my mother’s famous saying: I hit you, why did I hit you, you deserve to be beaten, you have lost your humanity, your daughter-in-law married here, and the family is all your relatives, she knows everyone. There is no one there, and you still say that I don’t care about you? Are you asking your wife to jump off the stairs? She just has a lot of faults. It's your fault if you do it, and you do it in front of your children. You don't want to do it anymore, right?

After that, my sister-in-law went back to her parents’ house without saying a word about it. He said the injuries on his body were from a fall. My sister-in-law's family has quite a bit of background in the local area, and a group of relatives are all very angry. Knowing that my sister was beaten by her brother-in-law, I wouldn't want to mess around.

Where is my brother? Even more powerful.

I got divorced a while ago. Last year, I didn’t know the specific day. The two of them did it without saying a word. It seems like you are checking something? My second aunt found out first. My second aunt went to ask my eldest aunt, and my aunt said, oh, did xx (sister-in-law) know about Xiao Wu’s incident?

My second aunt quickly asked Xiao Wu what was going on. It happened to be summer vacation at that time, and all relatives were here, so we held a family meeting directly.

The aunt said that Xiao Wu was a client whom his cousin met at work and lived at home for more than a month.

Jump to the next floor and live upstairs. My sister-in-law and my cousin's master bedroom are downstairs.

Female customer. Lived at home for more than a month. My sister-in-law is there too.

My mother was furious at that time. She scolded her directly, saying, "What's wrong with your little x? You brought another woman into your home to live with xx (sister-in-law) for a month?" What are you thinking about? Do you want some shame? How will you behave in the future?

The aunt said, isn’t this a divorce? I didn’t know at first that Xiao I couldn't tell the names of people for a while.

My mother was even more angry, and I was so angry that I had to coax my mother.

I was living at his house at that time. My mother was angry with him and took me directly to my second aunt’s house. Everyone in the family advised my sister-in-law to remarry. My grandma came forward and directly warned my cousin not to get entangled with Xiao Wu anymore and to remarry my sister-in-law immediately.

Then it seems that they got remarried. I was no longer there at that time, I went back to my hometown. Then one day I heard my mother chatting on WeChat, and her tone was very bad, so I asked what was going on.

My mother said that my cousin went on a business trip and took Xiao Wu with him.

I said, didn’t he go with my aunt? My mother gritted her teeth: Yes! I took my mother and mistress to play for half a month!

I don’t know how to persuade him. Before the divorce, my sister-in-law’s circle of friends always contained their wedding photos. Now the background picture of her circle of friends is of two children, and the signature reads:

No one is sorry to anyone, only one does not know how to cherish the other.

She really felt that she was married to love. Otherwise, he wouldn't be so hard-working and willing to take care of the whole family, even a relative who lives in his house temporarily. Then she gained something.

Betrayal. Violence. harm.

My mother helped take care of my cousin for several years when he was a child. Equivalent to half of her son. She was really angry. When she called her, she said, "Xiao x, you're sorry for xx (sister-in-law), and you'll have to die in peace."

I was with him when I was sixteen, and divorced when I was twenty-six. The most youthful ten years. He almost couldn't get off the operating table, and he still dares not wear tight clothes on his belly. He gave birth to two big, fat boys. As a result, his husband and his mistress bought a house.

She had everything figured out. Isolated. The bank card accounts all belong to my cousin.

In fact, there are clues to this. One time, his family took a short trip in his car. He said he wanted to get a fake divorce from his sister-in-law, marry a Beijing friend he knew, have his children register as Beijing residents, and then divorce and remarry his sister-in-law. My mother immediately said, don’t think I don’t know what you think. What if you don’t remarry? What will you do to xx (sister-in-law)?

He no longer wants to live with his sister-in-law.

Or maybe I didn’t want to marry her in the first place.

He doesn’t like those two children very much either. Usually we are not close at all. Once my child was sick and my sister-in-law couldn't take care of her alone, I went to help. My brother also went to help with the procedures. When I came back, I took the order, knocked the boss on the head, and said with a smile

"Why do you spend so much money? Cost me so much money."

The expression on my sister-in-law's face at that time was unsettling. It was so right, but I didn’t say anything.

Ten years. A person only lasts for a few decades.

If you are a good person, let alone get pregnant before marriage, you will be happy if you get married first and fall in love. But are you really sure that your vision is good?

People often don’t even believe in themselves. How can you trust a stranger you have only known for a few years or even a few days?