Ten efforts+extreme practice = becoming a person in a million.

strategy can be regarded as the direction. The direction is not well determined, and you have not thought about what you want to do and what you want. You may only move yourself by relying on blind efforts.

There are more than 1, meals a year, and every meal is very important. When you start to invite people to dinner selectively, you may get an ideological feast.

I quite agree with Uncle Mao's initiative to consult modestly and communicate in time. I thought for a moment, in addition to eating, there are activities such as taking friends out for a walk and playing ball games. People who can order food like Uncle Mao are more powerful at dinner, so we can actually choose to climb mountains outdoors and visit parks to communicate.

The essence is to get a collision of thoughts from entertaining guests. If you eat food, you will eat it. Activities that are beneficial to your body and mind are also worth choosing.

This is deeply touched, especially when Uncle Cat said, ask yourself, how many books can you remember up to now? How many classes of knowledge are digested and utilized? Buying books and classes is not the end, but the beginning. Good content needs to be familiar ten times and a hundred times. Why? In order to make it your own, you can use it.

why do we buy so many classes only for a moment of comfort, and then we are still anxious? Because of insufficient digestion, no matter how good the food is, if you eat too much, you will feel uncomfortable with your stomach and even affect your brain's thinking. The same is true of knowledge. Don't be "greedy" and "absorb".

Uncle Cat said that he closed his circle of friends, closed the message reminder and concentrated his attention on doing something valuable.

Looking back on our day, how many people were chatting, and WeChat took up time. It seems that I am a busy person, and I have to reply as soon as I have information. But I have made my time cheaper.

Pay attention to the value of your time, don't spend too much time chatting without much value, and brush your circle of friends.

(I have a logical question here: Uncle Cat said that he often brushed his friends' circle to pay attention to their latest developments and send greetings in time.

If all the old iron and awesome people I want to get close to have closed their circle of friends, how can I strengthen my hardcore power by brushing his circle of friends? Ask Uncle Cat to answer)

This point is vividly reflected when I introduce myself and write about my achievements in 217. I feel that I have done a lot of things in 17 years. I seem to have read a lot of books. I seem to have signed up for a lot of classes. I seem to have participated in a lot of punching, but why do I still feel empty?

I didn't finish my studies in time, and I didn't spend all my valuable time in 217, so I didn't write a summary.

I always think that "the end is the next beginning". If we don't make a good reply at the end of the day, we will start tomorrow. One day, we may go to the company at home and the dormitory to the classroom for two days, or even become a boring endless cycle.

We need to jump out and give ourselves 1 minutes every day to sort out and think about whether I spent enough time today. How to spend tomorrow's time is more valuable?

each of us may be too far away from the big coffee shop, and we need to be able to be illuminated by the lights and paid attention to. Uncle Cat said that he had experienced a long and even painful writing period before being paid attention to, which made people want to give up. But suddenly one day, someone said, Uncle Cat, what you wrote made me learn a lot. Uncle Cat's articles began to appear on the homepage, which became his milestone.

In the community, he saw the growth of many people, which made him have a stronger sense of mission, and the sharers who boarded ted-x began to help the small partners in the group with their dedicated speech technology, and kept optimizing until they could help more people.

There is also an assistant Yi Qing's growth story, which was appreciated by Uncle Cat at the lowest ebb-this is her milestone, doing a good job in the community, reading the official number in the morning, and letting more people harvest the essence of good books-this is her sense of mission.

Uncle Mao's point of view reminds him that the name of the school he wants to go to and the level of achievement he wants to achieve will be posted on the desk wall and classroom table during the college entrance examination.

Uncle Cat felt that he lacked atmosphere, so he asked someone to write a sub-character and hang it where he could see it with his eyes open, and so did "Six Strives" and "Today".

Look up and see, meditate in your heart, and what you want will always motivate you to change.

Uncle Mao used his dedication to eating food to send all the delicious things he thought to his old irons. As a foodie, he deeply felt that Uncle Mao was true love.

After all, let foodies share their favorite food, just like a hungry tiger, giving his hard-earned rations to his baby.

Uncle Mao's taste sharing, I want to gain not only food feedback, but also his more iron relationship maintenance and strengthened personal assets. He can hear Lao Tie's help from his own experience. Of course, I'm sure Uncle Cat will spare no effort to help his old irons.

therefore, we need to accumulate personal assets a little bit, and we need to accumulate them with quality. No matter when time, energy and money are spent on Lao Tie, feedback is easier to achieve "financial freedom" of contacts.

I think this actually requires us to be clear about our own characteristics. The core of Uncle Cat's action is: "We can be better friends together."

Whether it's a fierce cat's ten late-night stories, or a fierce morning reading at 6:3 every morning, or a small kitchen group and reading camp that are constantly optimizing the price increase, Uncle Cat has done a lot from beginning to end, but he always spreads the idea of hoping to make more ordinary people better.

He did something to link the intersection of ordinary people and cattle people, and gave ordinary people a chance to evolve into cattle people.

this point coincides with what I have heard before-sharing my understanding of the workplace planning of Ms. Chen Lanzhen, ceo of Youcai.com. Ms. Chen Lanzhen did something to strengthen others' recognition of her: blue clothes, pearl necklaces, posters and the same clothes on the spot, which is to show the world: Chen, Lan (blue clothes) and Zhen (pearls).

Uncle Cat said that he wanted his words and words to be remembered, so he spread them in different scenes. Just as entering the preparatory group of reading camp, I feel that the first meaningful thing-doing more altruistic things can be remembered more.

find your own characteristics, do it well, be powerful to people and strengthen communication. I am the person I want.

Uncle Cat said that we may not be able to find our own milestones for the time being, and our strategic strength is also insufficient. However, if we communicate with a group of people who insist on reading well, meeting great people, writing diligently, practicing hard, sharing frequently and being altruistic for a month, a year or ten years, we will not only gain progress together, but the platform will also attract people with similar energy to accelerate their growth.

I remembered what Luo Pang said in Luo Ji's mind: What kind of person you want to associate with, what kind of person you must become first. Energy is similar and attracts each other. This is probably the amazing driving force brought by this community.

"Indirectly smug, constantly eating and waiting for death", I think if I am complacent a few times and driven by a dynamic environment, I may be able to take the first step.

Uncle Mao said that he had been in many awesome communities, and he couldn't finish his flag properly, so he was embarrassed to speak in the community.

And many people in these communities have become his nobles, Lao Tie. This is a process of positive accumulation: I will become better, my ability to solve problems will increase, I will know more people, it will be easier to solve problems by myself, and then I will change well.

Uncle Cat concluded with such a bloody but heartfelt remark. Really, think about his own 217. How many books can he tell the golden sentences after reading, and how many lessons can he use after learning? How much work have you done to make a good summary?

I believe it's possible in this community. I thought I could join the reading camp by paying for registration. However, it took me an hour to write an email application and two hours to introduce myself. I want to spend half a month's salary registration, which is still under scrutiny.

Let me immediately correct my attitude towards the reading camp. I don't want to share and be altruistic in this community in 218, but I have to do it.

I know that I will have the idea of muddling along and waiting for death, which makes me delay, but the pressure of being easily eliminated if I don't practice it will stimulate me to do it.

Do it, and reward yourself with a chance to spend money on dancing classes, yoga classes and swimming in the gym (I didn't want to do it before).

I can't ... I can't!

I also wish other friends can do it, make it to the extreme, and grow into their favorite appearance.