My roommate will pour you a glass of water and wash things when you sleep. I told her it would only last for a few days. Isn't this obvious and intentional?
Maybe it's because she has procrastination, she doesn't take a bath very late, she didn't develop good habits from childhood, her parents didn't educate her so carefully, and her inner awareness of this aspect is not strong, which leads to her living in her own world, not fully integrating into the same environment as you, thinking of you everywhere, and not knowing how to care about others.