1. Start with greetings
When chatting with a blind date, many people will say "hello" and other topics. This way of chatting is not conducive to the progress of future chats. In fact, boys can say hello to girls like this: "If you add it, you can feel a smell coming over." Girls will ask "What's the smell?" You can easily answer "the taste of love" and then start introducing yourself to each other.
2. Chat topics should be humorous
After greeting and introducing themselves, many boys will fall into a misunderstanding, which is to ask each other questions such as "Have you eaten?" This will only make Your chat is stuck in question and answer mode, so don’t chat like that. You can use some humorous tricks to make girls happy, such as "If your ex-boyfriend and current boyfriend fall into the water at the same time, will you be my girlfriend?" Isn’t this much better than the Q&A chat mode?
3. By observing the other person’s circle of friends
A person’s circle of friends can reflect many aspects, hobbies, lifestyle, work, etc. You can make decisions based on your understanding of them Choose a topic and you can’t go wrong. For example, if you see his/her hair in his circle of friends: "Good porridge and stinky tofu!" Then one day you can casually say: Oops! There is a stinky tofu on the road, it is so delicious, I have missed it for so long. This way, we can get closer.
4. Ask for help
This trick is basically tried and tested, and it is difficult for anyone to refuse help from others. For example, you can say: I really want to eat hot pot recently. Do you know any good hotpot restaurants? Or: I have a friend who is having a birthday recently. Don't know what to give. You are all boys/girls. What do you think I should give you better? But it’s best to ask open-ended questions and not be too closed. For example: Will you go to work tomorrow? Most people will go back or not, and then it will be awkward if they don’t change the subject.
5. Start with the details
A boy who pays attention to details will definitely be right in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl’s WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends, etc. , and then start the topic from the details.