Agentleman, the word first appeared in Britain. Generally speaking, English gentlemen at that time usually wore a civilized stick, a hat, a straight suit and leather shoes. A lady's temperament and demeanor are even more precious. The meaning of "lady" is definitely not a moral standard in the traditional sense of China. Under the new historical conditions, it has the unique feminine charm of China in appearance, speech, manners, thinking and behavior habits. A lady is the other half of a gentleman and a person who pursues perfect character all her life.

Gentlemen and ladies are definitely not affectation, but a baptism from the heart. Be tolerant, be strong in the face of setbacks and difficulties, and cultivate noble virtues and beautiful cultivation. This is the essence of a gentleman and a lady. As long as you are a real man, you can be a woman's friend. It doesn't matter even if it's ugly. On the contrary, if you are difficult, you may be welcomed by women because of your "personality".

A psychological treatment center once conducted a public opinion survey. When answering the question of what kind of men are sexy, many women almost said "self-confidence" in unison. If a man is confident, he won't look embarrassed and embarrassed in front of women. This attitude alone is enough to make women find him attractive. Men who lack self-confidence are likely to bore women, so the first secret when you deal with women is to strengthen self-confidence.

And where is the body part that best reflects self-confidence? Eyes! Not pecs, fists or waistlines. A female college student said, "Just look into a male classmate's eyes and you will know whether you are interested in him." If a man's eyes are distracted, it shows that he lacks self-confidence.

There is a song in the United States called "Diamonds are a girl's best friend", to the effect that although girls get expensive gifts, they lose their pure and lovely personality. In fact, women are very wary of expensive gifts. In fact, flowers and chocolates are also good gifts that women like. They are not expensive, but they are not bad. Xiao Lin fell in love with a girl named Wang. One day, he gave her two green loquats with a letter saying, "Spring is coming, but please take an umbrella when you go out, because the rain is very cold." Two olives symbolize our love, which has just begun, but we all cherish it! " It's simple but fragrant, and the gift is unique. Awang cried with joy after receiving it ... The proper choice of gifts can not only express his sincerity, but also show a high-grade flattery and hospitality.

Don't be stingy with your praise.

But not everyone, they all say "you are so beautiful". Because very young people think they are beautiful. A kind of "curve praise" is often easily accepted by women. That is, men praise women's looks or achieve their goals by praising their packaging, such as "I like your hairstyle, which makes you more noble" or "You look beautiful in red".

Don't neglect her career.

Contemporary women often attach great importance to their profession, because it is the profession that gives them equal status. Participating in talking about her work can show your concern. It is not enough to express your enthusiasm with sweaty hands. Learning to listen to her work and make some suggestions is the most pragmatic care and love for women by men, and it is also a kind of respect.

Be good at expressing feelings in words

Men often solve problems by talking, while women often use talking as a means to express their feelings. The content of the conversation may not matter, what matters is that the conversation will make women feel better. In view of this, sometimes men just need to listen carefully, or make them laugh properly, and be good at capturing a woman's feelings, because she likes to "follow her feelings".

I often hear some female friends sigh: "I am so stupid." Everyone is talking about books, movies and politicians, but I haven't seen the books and movies they said, and I don't know about political celebrities. I must sit still. "In fact, the problem is not that she is stupid, but that she is too frank.

Too much honesty is not conducive to social interaction. I'm not encouraging people to lie, but I want to say that socializing requires art, which is as effective as a matador avoiding the edge of his horn.

There is such a woman who is very good at using social art. Once, someone asked her, "Have you read Othello?" Her answer was vague: "Not recently." In fact, she has never read a book, but after hearing such an answer, who will reveal her story without knowing the inside story?

Indeed, conversation requires good emotional intelligence. Even if a person is not beautiful, he will be popular because he can talk.

Prepare a few safety topics to make sure that there is nothing wrong with what you say. Unless an expert is present, you will see your flaws.

For example, you can talk about quantum mechanics, and even Einstein dare not say that you are wrong easily. Or tell a rare book, almost no one has read it; Or a historical figure with few records in the history books.

Talking about such topics can keep you from being exposed. But it's best to know who the people around you are first, so what topics to avoid.

"Safety" means that this statement applies to all kinds of things. For example, if someone asks you about a book or a play that you have never heard of, you can answer, "I think the author's early works are better and simpler in style." Or "I think his later works are more mature" is the same.

Everyone is talking about something, but you are distracted from thinking about something else. Suddenly someone asks you, "What do you think?" You don't have to tell the truth, or you will bring yourself embarrassment. You can say, "Be specific." "You can't generalize." "Sometimes things are not that simple." Wait a minute.

If someone calls you a liar to your face, don't panic. Try this method.

Disturb each other's thinking: you can answer, "said Danish physicist Sur." There are two kinds of truths in the world, one is a small truth and the other is a big truth. The opposite of a small truth is a bad lie, and the opposite of a big truth is still a fact. "Say that finish, leave politely. Let the other person ponder your words, but he can't come back for a long time.

Or point out the window and shout, "Look!" People have been looking in your direction for a long time, and there is nothing special except seeing two dogs fighting. At this time, their attention has been distracted.