It's sad to be ignored by people who care about you. What's more sad is that you have to pretend not to care.
3. Fate is like a palm print in your hand. No matter how tortuous it is, it is ultimately in your own hands.
4. If you want to be happy, you must be easy-going; If you want to be happy, you must follow the fate. Happiness is the pleasure of the soul, and happiness is the satisfaction of the soul. Don't quarrel with others, yourself and fate. There will be no absolute freedom in life, but if you can hold an indifferent and peaceful heart, you can reach the realm of free and pure soul. Life doesn't need to worship Buddha and seek immortality, just cultivate an indifferent and peaceful heart.
5, life is not a race, life is a journey, you should know how to appreciate the scenery of each section.
6. Life is short, please don't regret it. Life is short, please cherish everything around you. Only when you master yourself can you control your life. A lot of success or failure in life lies not in the quality of the environment, but in whether you choose the right position. There is a lot of emptiness in life, not in the loneliness of people, but in the loneliness of the heart.
7, life is full of flavors, condensed to the end, it is a faint word. Struggle is salt Without it, even the best food in life is tasteless food. You can't have your cake and eat it, which is the helplessness of life. Mature people can face all imperfections indifferently, so they don't insist, try their best and live with fate. Pursuing perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfection is a beautiful mentality.
8. True love is not a momentary affection, but an impulse to persist in knowing that there is no result.
9. Sometimes, it is also very happy to be bullied by the person you love all your life.
10, a wonderful life is not only vigorous, but more often, silence is a powerful force. Loneliness is not innate, but begins when you fall in love with someone. Don't refuse to give up things that don't belong to you. This is actually a kind of mind and tolerance; Don't let go of those who are destined to belong to you, let self-confidence and persistence become a quality and connotation. If you care more, you will have less fun; Looking down, everything will be relieved.
1 1. If you don't want to be afraid of tomorrow, you must first respect yesterday and love today.
12, has anyone ever appreciated your kindness? It seems that they will only push their luck.
13, looking at people who are unfamiliar now, I didn't expect us to be so familiar at that time.
14, peace of mind, peace of mind. People who are impetuous and lack kindness and patience will inevitably lead to a deadlock in life. Restrain impetuousness, only meditation. Many times, our pursuit is endless desire, which finally makes us lose the past, let the material bury our dreams, and let the temptation control the direction.
15, believe in yourself, you can live well alone. No one coaxed me when I cried, and I learned to be strong; I learned to be brave when there was no one to accompany me when I was afraid; Nobody asked me when I was bored, but I learned to put up with it. When you are tired and have no one to rely on, you learn to stand on your own feet. Everything depends on yourself, and changing your destiny depends on yourself. We should stick to everything, endure everything, give everything and do our best. There is no natural strong man in the world, and the strong man is honed.
16, no matter how deeply you are hurt, there will always be someone who will let you forgive all the difficulties in your previous life.
17, be kind to everyone around you, because they have made your life. Hating others is actually torturing yourself with pain points. Because I dare not take revenge in the light, I attack in the dark. Unconsciously, I made my personality more and more distorted and became a living villain. Simplicity is bliss, and all beings suffer from busyness. Busy with wealth, busy with fame and fortune, busy with competition, busy with caring about gain and loss, honor and disgrace. Fighting is always empty.
18, no worries, always happy; After doing my best, I will take fate as the starting point and fate as the end point, be happy with what happened, and my heart will always be satisfied. Many tastes of life lie not in external packaging, but in internal quality; Many realms of life lie not in following, but in trying; A lot of search in life lies not in Qian Shan, but in being close at hand.
19, a lot of success or failure in life lies not in the quality of the environment, but in whether you choose the right position; Many emptiness in life lies not in the loneliness of people, but in the loneliness of the heart; If you like someone, you will smile when you think of him. Love a person, when you think of him, you will look at the sky blankly. Like a person, is to see his advantages; To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings. Like, is a kind of mood; Love is an emotion.
20. When your brain says give up, hope whispers and try again.
22. Don't care too much about your perfect appearance. External beauty means that people have visual beauty, while internal beauty means that people have inner harmony. Exterior things such as looks and wealth will disappear one day. It is better to learn to examine and respect your heart and accept your existing life.
A true good friend doesn't need too many words. Many people always complain that they have too few friends. Actually, a true friend is not your call. Those who silently look at you, pat you on the shoulder, hold your hand and give you strength when you are frustrated deserve to open your heart and cherish your life.
24. In the face of difficulties, if you can persist for one more second when everyone gives up, then the final victory will definitely belong to you. A firm belief is also the driving force for success. Success often comes at the last minute. Therefore, we should not do anything by halves.
25. Don't compare your life with others, because you don't know all about their lives. Never compare your love story with that in the movie. Because those things are just made up by writers, and yours is written by God. Don't regret what you have done. I just regret that I didn't do some things when I had the chance.
26, tired, is often hovering between persistence and giving up, indecisive. The trouble is that you have a good memory. What should be remembered and what should not be remembered will remain in memory.
27. Don't cherish until you lose it. The happiest people don't necessarily have all the best things, they just cherish everything they encounter in life. Therefore, the existence around you is the most valuable. Pay attention to these people and things, take care of them and pay attention to them. Over time, you will get more "spiritual wealth".
28. It can be said that success depends on three things: hard work, hard work and hard work.
29. There are too many temptations in modern society. For example, if you go to Hainan at the same time, you will miss the splendid ice and snow in Harbin. Everyone often wants to have both, so it's hard to choose. Personal positioning is not clear. There are many opportunities to choose from, but many people are at a loss, don't know what they like and want, and finally struggle.
30. People always have a little spirit when they are alive. Life is a long or short process. In this process, we shorten the distance of life day by day. We can only prolong life with tolerance and love, learn to face every moment that gives me pain and happiness, and enrich every day of my life.
3 1, many people, excessively pursue perfection. Some people are eager for perfection and don't allow themselves to make any mistakes. As a result, I dare not decide. There may also be some people who are too dependent and used to following others' steps, and it is difficult to make a decision after encountering something.
Sometimes, some precious moments, until become memories, you will really realize its value.
Don't pretend in life, don't rely too much on love, don't worry about making excuses when listening, and don't intentionally offend when speaking.
34. All great events begin with a firm determination and a passionate desire for concentration. It is the seed of all creation, full of energy to make the whole universe run in the direction you choose. Calm down and ask yourself: what is my passionate and persistent desire for life? When your desire is for love and nourishment, not for fear and comparison, the universe will give you full support!
35. I would rather be a child than watch too many things and listen to too many grievances, just for a lifetime.
36. There are always some songs that make us cry. But in fact, it is not the song itself that makes us cry, but the people hidden in the memories.
37. The philosopher said, "The difference between wisdom and cleverness is that a wise person knows how to choose." Getting rid of entanglements can make us more open-minded and live more freely. When you are struggling, tell yourself "you are going to lose something". Choose watermelon and bravely throw away sesame seeds.
38. Even if someone breaks your heart, there will always be someone willing to repair it.
39. Life is like a shower, which is hot in the wrong direction.
40. Always smile at the brightest moment, I am afraid that happiness will suddenly leave me. I dare not show my happiness too clearly, for fear that one day happiness will leave me and I will be embarrassed by everyone. Therefore, I always walk carefully in the crowd with a smiling mask, but the expressions under those masks are unknown.
4 1, be yourself, there is always one thing you can do better than others.
42. Sometimes I don't understand, just don't want to understand; Sometimes I don't know, but I just don't want to say it; Sometimes it's not that I don't understand, but that there's nothing I can do, so I keep silent. Some words are suitable for hiding in the heart; Some pain, suitable for silent forgetting; Some memories are only suitable for occasional aftertaste. A lot of things, experienced, it is good to know.
43. What you said is not harmonious because you no longer like this person's excuse. When you fall in love, what is right, and when you don't fall in love, what is wrong.
44. Even if a contract is signed, it can be broken and the sales contract can be torn up. What's more, if a person has to talk a lot a day, don't even pay the deposit. The person who talks about a promise is precisely the person who regards it as a cloud, and the person who forces it to death is the person who speaks with weight.
45, a person's day, you have to do only one thing, let yourself become excellent.
46. Life will not always be kind to us, and there will be setbacks and failures. We should learn to face it calmly with a philosophical attitude towards life and meet it with a calm and indifferent attitude. When we regard these as precious wealth of life, the sky in our hearts will not be overcast all the time. Cherish these experiences, treat your life well, and believe that the bright sunshine will definitely fall in every corner of the world.
47. When you encounter bad luck, strength and cowardice are the watershed of success or failure. Whether a life can overcome bad luck and create miracles depends on whether you give it the power of faith. Life driven by the power of faith can work miracles on the earth.
48. People or things you care about may disappear as early as when you don't pay attention.
Pay attention to unexpected success or failure.
Paying attention to unexpected success or failure, whether it is unexpected success or unexpected failure, is unexpected, but if we look at these unexpected things, we may find successful business opportunities from them, or learn from them and pull back from the brink. In short, managers should pay attention to these subtle unexpected things.
Unexpected success always makes us afraid to grasp it, thinking that we have made good progress and don't have to take risks. As a result, this unchanging thinking leads enterprises to miss opportunities.
Looking at the problem from a changing perspective, only by abandoning inertial thinking can we make a rational and correct judgment on the accident. Often unexpected success, if the internal reasons are investigated, may have rules to follow, let us grasp its development direction, and then make a decision, so it is not a risky action. This shows that we must have a keen sense of the market.
Similarly, unexpected failures also require us to learn. Failure is the mother of success. Only by recognizing your mistakes can you take the following road better. But if you can't pay attention to failure, you may go downhill.
An import and export company deals in padlock export business. This kind of padlock is not very strong, it can be opened with a pin, so the boss seriously improved it and the result was unsalable. Another small competitor noticed the same thing and produced two kinds of padlocks: one is the appearance lock; The other is a safer padlock, the former is sold to rural guests; The latter was sold to city people, and they succeeded.
Although the unexpected failure of this import and export company has brought some troubles to the company, if we can find the reasons for slow sales and explore better product design methods, then they will definitely find a new sales market.
For example, it may be that the design or marketing strategy of products or services is no longer realistic; It may also be that customers' values and perceptions have changed. Although they still buy the same thing, they actually buy completely different values. It may also be that the original same market or the same end use has now split into two or more markets, and each market has completely different requirements. In short, if you study hard, you will find the reasons for failure, avoid going astray in the future and find a new way out for the company's development. Of course, many failures are mistakes, the result of greed, ignorance, blind pursuit, or poor design and implementation. But if it fails after careful design, planning and implementation, then this failure often reflects the hidden changes and the opportunities that follow.
In short, we should pay attention to unexpected success and unexpected failure, which contains opportunities. When the opportunity flashes and comes, seize it and actively control it, and you will certainly achieve better results.
Flywheel effect: beware of Viacom speeding.
Drucker, Dali's manager, said: Rapid development is another reliable sign of crisis in organizational management. For any organization that has doubled or quadrupled in size in a relatively short period of time, its mode of operation certainly cannot keep up with its development. The rapid growth of enterprises is divorced from reality and objective laws, especially in today's market economy environment, and risks must be fully considered in operation; Otherwise, it will inevitably fall into crisis or even bankruptcy.
1In August, 1994, Wu Bingxin-based Jinan Continental Extension Company and its subsidiary Nanjing Keli Company in Wu Siwei merged to form Jinan Zhu San Industrial Co., Ltd. (hereinafter referred to as Zhu San Company). In the same year, the sales of Zhu San Company reached 654.38+25 million yuan, and 1995 increased to 2.3 billion yuan, 1995. However, the actual registered capital of the enterprise was only 300,000 yuan, which increased by 6.5438+0.6 million times in just three years, and the debt-to-capital ratio was zero, which can be said to have created a miracle of modern enterprise marketing.
The rapid growth of the three companies is caused by the expansion of sales network and production capacity. In a short period of 12 years, Zhu San Company registered 600 subsidiaries in major cities, provincial capitals and most prefecture-level cities, set up 2,000 offices in counties, townships and towns, and absorbed150,000 sales staff. Only 1997, Zhu San invested 500 million in one breath and merged more than 20 domestic pharmaceutical companies.
However, with the development of enterprises, the management problems of the three companies have gradually emerged, covering up their brilliant sales performance. Wu Bingxin's younger brother went to the countryside to check the sales situation at that time, and found that the sales site was chaotic and there was no management system. They are fooling consumers and superiors. He was so angry that he called Wu Bingxin and said, "It's terrible. It's all a lie." . Changde incident happened in 1997, and the internal organization was already quite fragile. There are too many levels in the organization, the instructions of the headquarters are distorted or deformed at different levels, and the internal control of the superior to the subordinate is weak. As a result, in this incident, the three companies were slow to respond and did not form an organic resistance, which eventually led to the failure of the enterprise.
The failure of the three companies inspired us to think deeply. With the rapid growth and scale increase of enterprises, it is precisely because the management system failed to keep up that the three giants fell. Therefore, if an enterprise wants to grow from big to strong, it must build a standardized management system after completing the original accumulation of market resources and capital. Only in this way can we ensure a solid backing and escort the crisis that enterprises may face.
Therefore, the rapid expansion of the mechanism is not necessarily a good phenomenon. We should always be vigilant, slow down, pay attention to the hidden dangers of enterprises and eliminate them in time. In general, fast-growing enterprises will encounter the following problems.
1. Management issues
With the rapid development of enterprises, the expansion of business scope, the increase of business points, the sharp expansion of personnel, the management span needs to be expanded, the management level needs to be deepened, and the management structure is more complicated. Therefore, the management difficulty has also greatly increased. The original management will be greatly weakened, and it is difficult to carry out the management thought and spirit to the end. Even if it is carried out to the end, it will inevitably be completely out of shape. When there are problems in enterprise management, it is inevitable that employees will be lax, inefficient and not competitive.
2. Cultural issues
With the expansion of the organization, the number of employees in enterprises has increased dramatically, and the composition of personnel has become more and more complicated. Enterprises will have different cultures and values. These cultures are likely to cause the deformation of corporate culture. Therefore, corporate culture is facing severe tests and great challenges.
3. Talent problem
If the enterprise develops too fast, there will be an obvious shortage of talents, mainly in the serious shortage of needed talents, especially middle and senior management talents, who are influenced by corporate culture. Because when you are in an enterprise, you can't reserve a large number of high-quality management talents. Even if you have the heart to do it, because the enterprise itself lacks enough professional appeal, it cannot attract more outstanding talents. With the development of enterprises, the phenomenon of talent shortage will appear.
In view of these situations, enterprises should be vigilant, speed up, improve management as soon as possible, strengthen corporate culture, and hire outstanding talents to fill vacancies as soon as possible. After everything is completed, it will not only delay the development of the enterprise, but also make the enterprise more solid and powerful.
Terry's law:
Legal interpretation:
Terry rule was put forward by Terry, former general manager of Tennessee Bank. It means to admit that mistakes are a person's greatest source of strength, because those who face up to mistakes will get something other than mistakes.
Terry's Law tells us that although mistakes are a part of the world and human beings have to accept their own fate, as long as we can face up to them and learn from them, we can succeed.
The courage to admit mistakes and failures is also the law of enterprise survival. The market is not a battlefield between the two armies, nor is the enterprise an army. By admitting mistakes and failures, enterprises can avoid greater market losses, adjust market strategies and regain market opportunities.
Classic Quotations: Don't lust after meaningless people or things.
1, a confidant is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature.
2. Behind the smile is a disguised happiness; Turn around and endure a perseverance to be brave. Not being sad and unhappy does not mean heartless; Silence doesn't mean not to think.
Don't covet meaningless people or things. How to make room for gifts with a hand full of garbage?
4. The probability of two people getting back together after breaking up is 82%, but only 3% can get to the end after getting back together, and 97% break up again for the same reason as the first time.
I like to follow people who interest me all my life, because in my mind, real people are crazy. They love life, love chatting, don't show their abilities, and want to have everything. They never get tired, never talk about ordinary things, but they keep sparking like wonderful yellow Roman fireworks.
6. In fact, everyone will leave you in the end, but the time sequence is different.
7. Never mind the original oath, the moment of commitment must be true, but there were too many accidents later, and no one expected to be separated.
8. Sleeping is like charging my body, but I'm never fully charged.
9. There is no empathy in the world. You feel that your heart is torn to blood and your intestines are broken. In fact, others simply can't understand it. People look at you in horror for a while and sympathize with you for a while, so they should be comfortable and happy, because you are you, I am me and he is him. Our heart, our meat grows on everyone, sweet and sour, and we only know the taste we taste.
10, you can only say, I understand you after experiencing some similar things and having some similar emotions.
1 1, you must talk to the sun, moon, stars, rivers, lakes and seas, shake hands with every tree and be intimate with every grass, and you will suddenly realize that the universe is big, life is tiny, time is expensive and death is near.
What do you mean by growing up? It's that we finally realize that one thing is no longer so charming, and there are more charming things to pursue.
13, often the person who was closest to you, made your heart gradually cold and hard.
14, I don't ask+you don't say = this is the distance; I asked+you didn't say = estrangement; I ask+you say = trust; You don't say+I don't ask = this is the tacit understanding; I didn't ask+you said = this is dependence. When the heart is near, words and deeds will be as natural as running water; If the heart is alienated, words and deeds will only be as dim as the tree of Sanqiu.
15. The first sign of true love is the timidity of a boy and the boldness of a girl.
16, cried and married a rich man, and later enjoyed an ordinary life; People who used to be obsessed with rock and roll youth ended up with IT men. Swear not to marry long legs, and finally find a shoulder that is not tall but wide enough. Instead of taking time to think about what kind of person you are looking for, it is better to understand what kind of yourself love will meet. The best love is not how good the other person is, but because you love someone, you become more lovely.
17, become the person you want to be, and then meet the love you want to meet. The so-called love story with just the right temperature, the so-called heroic dream in a tired life.
18. If you are under great pressure, go to a concert; Go to a book club when you are lovelorn; If you can't find the direction, choose to move on; If everything you long for still comes, make the gesture of waiting more pious. There are countless possibilities tomorrow, so don't stop being enthusiastic tonight. Our efforts are for a better life, but the premise of a better life should be to please ourselves first. A person doesn't even have the ability to make himself happy, how can he talk about warming the world?
19, regardless of black pig and white pig, they are all pigs, regardless of stupid pig, they are not lonely together.
20, some things are not indifferent, just don't want to say; Some people are not harmless, just don't mind; Some feelings are not missing, but not representing.
Classic wechat signature: there is always a sentence that will be your mood, or sadness, or joy, or heartache.
Love articles:
Fish said to water: You can't see my tears because I am in the water.
The water said to the fish, I can feel your tears because you are in my heart.
Don't be confused, don't fall in love, don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past, so be safe.
I want to be a woman in my next life and then marry a man like me!
In fact, waiting itself is a ridiculous mistake, knowing to wait for a happiness that I don't know if I can come.
If love is pure fiction and not real, why is parting the beginning of sadness?
I chat with him late every day, play with him and speak my mind, but we are just friends.
Household goods:
When parents are here, there is a place in life. When parents are not here, there is only the way home!
We took so many exams to leave home. From then on, there is no spring and autumn in our hometown, only winter and summer that pass by in a hurry!
The old man took his mobile phone to the shop for repair. The staff told him that the mobile phone was not broken. The old man suddenly cried. "Then why didn't my child call me?"
From today on, I can no longer proudly say: I still have a complete home!
I have never made you proud, but you still regard me as a treasure. _ _ _ _ _ to my parents.
The mother used the needle and thread in her hand to make clothes for her long-distance son. Before leaving, I had a stitch for fear that my son would come back late and his clothes would be damaged. Who can say that a filial child like the weak can repay his mother's love like the sunshine in spring?
Children want to raise and relatives are not there, trees want to be quiet and the wind will not stop!
Working article:
Being a man like Bajie sometimes looks silly, but he is actually very smart. Be as comprehensive as Wukong.
A caged bird hates Guan Yu, but can't Zhang Fei. Life is alive, and it's more important for Bajie to be Wukong!
If it works, it makes sense to fart. If you fail, it makes sense to fart again
The more arrogant people are, the more modest they are, and the more incompetent they are.
When you make a mistake, the enemy scolds you when everyone else comes, and the friend scolds you when everyone else leaves.
Glowing is not the patent of the sun, you can also shine.
Inspiration:
It's too late to be young seriously. When you understand, you can only grow old seriously!
Be yourself who you like better first, and then meet someone who doesn't need to please.
Others see shoes, but feel feet. Don't covet the luxury of shoes and wronged your own feet.
If a person doesn't know which dock he is heading for, then no wind is downwind.
Our world will never give a medal to a sad laggard.
I thought "not getting" and "losing" were the most precious things, but … it turned out that grasping the present was the most important thing.
Don't look down on anyone, the humbler they are. Often do something unexpected.
Chicken soup:
Forgive my unruly life, indulge in love and freedom, and fear that I will fall one day.
The more people I know, the more I like dogs.
Four things that must be thrown away: meaningless wine games, people who don't love you, look down on your relatives and fake friends!
Being insidious and keeping a low profile are the same thing. When there is no money, it is called insidious, and when there is money, it is called low-key.
Losing is just a gesture, and gaining is not the same as happiness.
Above people, treat people as people; Under people, treat yourself as a person.
You must know that people are gentlemen after them; Know that the villain is watching people behind their backs.