You don’t have a boyfriend at the age of 27, which is normal.

But you are very anxious, but you can’t eat hot tofu in a hurry.

Most people fall in love at the age of 20 At that time, people were judged purely by their feelings. It was very simple for everyone to be together, as long as they were happy, and it did not involve family, career, or marriage. At most, they could talk about life and ideals together, and watch the clouds and the breeze in front of flowers and under the moon. .

But you missed it, maybe because of your studies, you missed this opportunity to deepen your understanding of the relationship between men and women.

You are working now and have your own understanding of society. It can be said that it is a lot more realistic, and as your first love, emotionally you want to talk about life, ideals, and spending time together, but realistically speaking, you want to talk about career, family, Marriage. This is very contradictory. It is indeed very contradictory.

So I give you a suggestion, don’t do it for the sake of it. Don’t find a boyfriend for marriage.

Find someone you feel good about. Talk about feelings first, make up for lessons first, find someone to hold hands and find out the feeling.

After talking, you will know that men will usually show their advantages. In fact, you don’t have to worry, it’s not intentional. Hiding one's own disadvantages is just a kind of inertia, just wanting to leave a good impression in front of one's friends.

Finally, I hope you can relax and be loved by you.