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Liu Tong, a best-selling writer who is good at writing inspirational essays, published his first novel "I'll wait for you later" after the series "Whose youth is not confused". In the time-travel novel based on "I", 36-year-old Hao returned to the age of 17. I come from the future, have a dialogue with my past, relive my youth and help myself grow and progress at the age of 17.
Speaking of Liu Tong, the most representative works must be "Whose youth is not confused" and "Your loneliness, although defeated, is glorious", which makes many young people feel the same; I've always been curious about why post-70s writers can write post-90s voices, and even some sentences are so touching that people want to cry.
There are many expectations for this novel, but there are also doubts. I will compare the new book with my previous works, but after reading it, I find it unexpected. These plain words are warm to read and have the feeling of healing. Generally speaking, this book is more realistic than similar themes, and it will be familiar with the scenes described in the book, and I can't help but think of my school days and my good friends at the beginning.
At that time, friends just quarreled and forgot in a few days, as if nothing had happened; At that time, there was endless passion and vitality. I gave up in my mouth, but I was still fighting in my heart. At that time, the more despised by others, the more I wanted to prove myself; At that time, I liked a person who didn't dare to say it. I just paid attention to it silently and didn't want TA to get any harm.
It's just that there are not many memorable moments in our youth, and we can accomplish one thing together. Watching these young people take part in the 5000-meter long-distance race proved themselves. Five good friends shouted "We love you" to people who wanted to jump off a building, sold out 100 Jin of soybeans together, watched the meteor shower on the rooftop in the middle of the night, participated in a cultural performance, completed an interview and investigation on the safety of the canteen, and went to Song Cheng to see the snow, all of which were the richest and most precious experiences in youth. He forged a deep friendship with several small partners until Chen Xiaowu dropped out of school and took over the bean sprout stand at home, smiling and studying abroad. Everyone's life direction has different trajectories and deviations.
For a moment, I saw myself from Liu Dazhi. I am self-respecting, timid and sensitive. No matter how hard I try, people around me are better than myself. I was confused and confused. I thought about giving up, but I persisted. It's just that no one told me at that time that you would be a great person in the future, only you and your friends encouraged each other.
There are many touching places in the book. It was not until many years later that we realized the love that dad could not express well. Lose your temper with your mother and ask for new clothes and shoes; Looking at the teenagers who dropped out of school, they accepted the family changes overnight and provoked the responsibility as the pillar of the family; Divorced parents will still have feelings and care for each other at critical moments; Young teenagers, let go of their misunderstanding of their parents and learn to accept the departure of their loved ones and the separation of their parents; Escape from the bondage of family and make your own decisions; Seeing the ending with "I dedicate this book to our indomitable youth", my heart thumped and I felt sorry for the lost youth.
Hao replied: when you come back every day, do a job you don't like, but be satisfied with the envy of others, your life will be over!
We will also want to go back to the past and live a new life when we are dissatisfied with our present life but unable to change it, but it is never too late to change. When Hao returned to 20 17 from the past, the first thing he did was to summon up the courage to confess to the girl he admired for many years. There are always many regrets in life. The important thing is that the decision he makes now will not make him regret it later.
Hao, 36, carefully missed a lot after returning home. He is determined to give Liu Dazhi a push at every cowardly moment. As for us, no one will tell you how to choose at the critical moment of life. We should live more bravely and freely, stick to our own opinions, do what we want, and not be influenced by others.
We often fantasize about the future and what kind of people we will become. I have a habit of writing some messages to myself before my birthday every year. When I looked back, I found that all my requirements had been fulfilled. That feeling is so wonderful. We can live as we like, but in the process of growing up, we have suffered various blows and lost our fearless self.
After reading this book, my biggest gain is that we can be our best at any age.
In a program, I was deeply moved by Carina Lau's answer.
The host asked, "If you can go back to 18, would you like to go back?"
She said, "I don't need to go back. Now I am my favorite appearance. Because 18 years old is too confused and too weak, unlike now, I can live my own life and don't care about other people's eyes. "
This mentality of "not fearing the future and not thinking about the past" is envied by many people. She has cultivated herself in the precipitation of years, becoming more and more beautiful and moving, emitting a temperament from the inside out, like wine-making, the more delicious it is.
Don't be limited by age, thinking that this age can only be like this, and you can't toss it. There is no extremely correct life at any age. We should believe in ourselves and believe that anything is possible.
17, 8 years old, it is that youth, simple and simple, full of expectations and hopes for the future.
In my twenties, I am a beautiful and embarrassing age, confused and anxious, and my ideal is trampled by reality.
After the age of 30, I accepted my shortcomings and gained rich experience and mature mind.
At the age of 40, his face, body and physiology have changed, and he is living more and more thoroughly.
50 years old, out of shape, physical condition began to decline, the mood is relatively peaceful, know how to enjoy life.
60-year-old, psychologically and physically close to old age, more than half of life journey, rich experience.
By my side, there are capable elites in their thirties who mingle with young people. There are 40-year-old entrepreneurs who pay attention to maintenance and study and live young; There is an elegant independent woman of 30 years old who lived to 50 years old; Some entrepreneurs who have reached the age of 60 and are suitable for providing for the elderly are still struggling and have gone to many countries.
Therefore, at the next intersection of my life, I won't expect someone to stand up and help me out. I won't comfort myself with the words "if I had". I won't pin my life and happiness on others. I will seize the moment, seize every opportunity, take control of my own destiny, make a choice worthy of my heart, firmly fulfill my inner promise and meet a better myself.
You will definitely thank yourself for your efforts now!
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Inscription: Under the age of 28, everyone thinks about himself in his twenties, himself in his thirties, himself in his forties, and it is not bad to think about himself in his thirties. This is the person who always wants to catch the lost time, and these lost time are often unstoppable. Just like now, you may know that you will envy yourself at this time in ten years, but you won't really stop thinking about going back to yourself ten years ago.
Since whose youth is not confused, I have been trying to understand: to understand the world, to understand myself more completely, and to "your loneliness, although defeated, is glorious." There is a kind of loneliness that you know that the ending is the end of the song, but now you have to laugh until you cry in such a happy time, and then from ordinary to ordinary, there will always be warm lights to illuminate this small place. He put young people's thoughts and feelings into words, which triggered another sales frenzy. This wave comes from "* * *". Under the adaptation and promotion of this form in the market, Liu Tong tried a new way of writing and created the novel "I am waiting for you in the future".
36 years old, underage. Recently, under the recommendation of a friend, I watched the movie "28 years old, underage" starring Nini. The heroine changed back to 17 years old because of a piece of chocolate, while the online drama version of "28 years old, underage" traveled back to 17 years with her boyfriend who just broke up. Whether it's a movie or a TV series, 17-year-old has the courage to pursue it regardless of the consequences. "I am waiting for you in the future" adopts this daydream mode, with the return of 36-year-old university teacher Hao as the main line. Only this time, he didn't change back to his 17-year-old self, nor did he return to his 17-year-old self. Instead, he became the head teacher of the internship in senior three, with the most familiar and unfamiliar people in this class? /kloc-Liu Dazhi, 0/7 years old.
36 years old, nothing has changed. Hao, like most people in reality, has a lot of dissatisfaction with his present life and work, so he hopes to return to the age of 17 and change himself at that time. When he met the boy of 17, all his fantasies about Hao came true, but the opening mode in all his fantasies was not that simple. Just like when someone asked me several times if I had any regrets, I always said no. "No" doesn't mean that everything I have done before is almost perfect and doesn't need to be changed, but I know that both major decisions and quarrels with relatives are prompted by my personality at that time and the current environment. As long as I am still me, if I am given another choice, the quarrel will still be washed away and the mistake will remain the same. This is youth, this is time and time.
17 years old, I will wait for you later. Every time we think and act, our time is passing by. Fantasy, longing and hope are all gathered in the years when youth is no longer there. Everyone wants to work harder in the past and let today's self have more capital to enjoy life. But as Liu Tong said, "What really needs to be changed is the grown-up us". Compared with the future, we are in youth now.
Reflections on I Wait for You in the Future
I'll wait for you in the future-it's 1 09 in the morning. Fourteen hours and nine minutes have passed since I signed for the express delivery. I told my brother responsibly that I read the whole book before opening the envelope. To tell the truth, the dormitory lights out at 10: 30 at night, and then for a while, it's very strange. Especially when I was writing about school worker Zhou, my back was cold, accompanied by my roommate's breathing and turning over, and then I looked at the small envelope, so I was afraid that I would scratch it as soon as I opened it. I hesitated for a second, but I still opened it. I am so funny. I think if I meet my future self, I'm probably supernatural. ) Well, let's get down to business. You are the author of the book and I am the reader; The scholar laughed at the writer's deep involvement in the play, and the onlookers laughed at the scholar's emotional feelings. Fortunately, I read the first few chapters during the day, and Liu Dazhi's daily conversation made me very happy. The classic quotation of Dazhi's mother is "You look like sneakers, so what sneakers do you buy?" The first thing Teacher Hao said to Dazhi's mother was, "Don't always say what Dazhi looks like in the future, it has left a shadow in his heart." (Writing here, laughing alone in bed) Besides being funny, I believe that Chen is the kind of school grass that our girls appreciate, and his laughter can cause a sensation; And smiling is also the kind of girl that we girls can't envy. It is best to have a good family and a good heart to study or a black belt in Taekwondo. Dingdong and Xiaowu are the green leaves that set off the protagonist. Liu Dazhi lived a whole book like a fool, and Liu Dazhi browsed it. I like the return of Hao who crossed to 1998. He is proficient in video games, he can fight in groups, he is handsome, he can lead the group to run with him, and he can plan news themes? He used all the "known" in the future to try to change everyone and become better. In this process, Hao, who returned to 20 17, suddenly found that it was not that he changed five small things, but that five small things changed him. How nice! While everyone liked him, he found the meaning of his existence. The most touching plot: Dazhi went to the hospital to talk to his father; At Chen Cheng's wedding scene, Chen's father said, "Everyone eats and drinks well." Later, in the bathroom, Chen Tong found the handwritten letters of Chen's father and the true feelings of Chen's father towards Chen Cheng after the banquet. At the age of 36, I went back to the hospital to secretly see the feelings of my grandfather and divorced parents; She took care of her return for the last time and came back to embrace her return when she left. My favorite passage is what Teacher Yang said (forgive me for being insensitive to English names, but I always feel that I have written it wrong. ) Teacher Yang said something, which probably means that some people have written their thoughts on their faces, but they are obviously unwilling, but they will be gratified. She also said that such people are the most annoying. If you really do, then even if you are unhappy, you should hide your unhappiness, and don't make us (peers) unhappy because of your unhappiness; If you really can't do it, just refuse. Every inscription carefully selected by Brother Wu is a golden sentence. Lu, this is not a time-travel novel. Hao returned to find his former self (ambition) with his appearance, experience and background. If these memory connections do not exist between Hao's regression and Hao's regression, then they are two independent individuals. They are a simple love between teachers and students, and then the relationship is upgraded to unforgettable friends who can talk to each other, and finally a family-like friendship. If everyone has the return of Hao in their life, it should also change their life trajectory. He can always accompany everyone and give advice in the lowest period of everyone, even though he may be defeated. In order to be with everyone, he also worked hard to prepare for the evaluation. He tried his best to say goodbye to everyone; So he didn't know the director's good intentions, so he didn't know that Wang Daqian had prepared for the worst. I admire him. To put it bluntly, I admire him. In fact, there are such important people in my life who are also teachers and friends. 20 1 1 After the first mid-term exam in Senior One, the English teacher asked me, "How many points are you going to take in English in the future?" "90 points! Just passed ""When can you get 90 points! " "College entrance examination!" The English teacher looks ashamed. Later, the college entrance examination was 89, and the teacher blessed me. 20 14 every computer theory class will be called to the stage by the teacher for actual combat drills. (It was also the first time I came to power in college, and then I learned photoshop. ) The medical chemistry score in the mid-term exam was the first in this major, and the teacher informed me to take the stage ten minutes in advance to share my learning experience. (Later, when I resumed school, this teacher accompanied me for another semester, and we have always remembered each other since then. The math teacher in senior three saw my notes and exclaimed, "You have written more than a thousand questions by hand!" So when I asked for my grades in advance at the end of the term, she told me openly. If so, it's the second grade. ) 20 16 the experiment teacher found out the little tricks of a classmate and me, and I always wrote his paintings for our experiment report. Apologize to the teacher. I thought the teacher would give me a good scolding, but the teacher said, "it doesn't matter, each has his own strengths." You get what you need, and he gets what he needs. " I don't like rigid education. What can you do? "20 17, I made a big taboo in the experimental class. After class, I was in a hurry to eat. I put the experimental report of the whole group of eight people in the book and took it back to the dormitory. I didn't realize the seriousness of the situation until I went to bed at night. A person secretly cried in the bathroom for a long time, so cold. The next day, I found the No.2 teaching building, and I didn't ask which district of the Agricultural Bank, and then I looked for offices one by one. God has not failed me. The teacher always looks sad and sad. At that time, I had already made the tragic ending of "Teacher, because it is my fault, you don't have to grade me, but I beg the teacher to accept my classmate's report." You give it to me. I remember you. You did a good job yesterday. "I also want to be a good student in the eyes of teachers, a good daughter in the eyes of parents, a good girlfriend in the eyes of friends and a good classmate in the eyes of classmates. Now, I want to be a good student of teacher Hao. I hope I can bring meaning to his life. Nine people bought three books, and the largest number of people placed orders on time. Brother Tong said that no matter what number it was, it was our exclusive, so I bought myself one that placed the order on time. My number is 056664, so I finished it here. I will wait for you in the future and hug you at every intersection.
Reflections on I Wait for You in the Future
To tell the truth, I have never read a book as carefully as I do now, because I want to write down my thoughts after reading it. I received the book on June 6th, 65438 10, and didn't get it until June 3rd+10+April, 65438. I read it all in four days and recorded my feelings at that time.
I don't necessarily have any comments on this book, but it reminds me of many things that happened around me at that time.
10On June 55438+05, after Liu Tong attended the signing ceremony in Zhongshan, on June 5438+04, when reading "Miss Yang came to see Teacher Hao" on page 32, there was a passage: "Every school has such a female teacher who has her own journalistic temperament. No matter who she talks to, everyone thinks there will be a story. " This reminds me of a group of young teachers who just graduated from Harbin Normal University when I was a freshman. One of them is a female teacher in China, and I like her appearance very much. It's a pity that she teaches liberal arts classes. Because I like her temperament, I will always pay attention to her. Along the way, she was upgraded from an ordinary Chinese teacher to the head teacher of the liberal arts class, and was interviewed on behalf of our school. I'm glad that my favorite Chinese teacher can make good grades, which proves that my vision is ok, just like the author of Zhong Yishu (there is a smirk here). It has been many years since I left high school. She had a boyfriend who was a graduate student. I don't know how they are now, whether they have blossomed or not, and whether they have a good harvest in their families and careers. In a word, I sincerely wish them all the best.
Let's talk about the female Chinese teacher in our science class, SM, whose name will never be forgotten. She is also one of the teachers who came here, and we are her first students. Although my Chinese is not good, because I am good friends with girls with good Chinese and boys with whom she has a good relationship, she cares a little about me (to get rid of the teacher, you can get rid of the people around her first, shh ~ fake smile constantly). Even so, I just don't like her, because she came to work in our school and has lived with her boyfriend. Before my boyfriend had a formal job, I especially looked down on him and got married as soon as I graduated. Really never heard of it? Alas, am I feudal and snobbish?
The following is the chapter of the math teacher ~
The math teacher in senior one and senior two is very good, and the class is super interesting ~ when I was in senior three, I actually changed my math teacher, and the lecture was not interesting at all. Then I didn't want to attend class. I kept telling her behind her back that she couldn't give any classes, so I went home, but the teacher told her class silently after hearing it, and she was very good-tempered and never angry. A classmate whose parents are teachers said: Although she doesn't speak well in class, she gets full marks in almost every teacher exam. Your favorite math teacher is not as good as her. As he spoke, his eyes were full of envy, and mine were full of surprise? She also said that because this teacher has a good temper, her husband often bullies her at home and feels sorry for this teacher inexplicably. I feel that what I did is too childish and I am so sorry for her.
The high school math teacher's name is X Tie Niu, and we regard him as Brother Tie Niu. He taught in the late 1970s and 1980s and acted like a child all day. I don't remember whether he taught three classes or four classes. In a word, he likes our class very much. I don't know why. Anyway, class is to shout loudly and then take notes. It's tiring to attend his class. I can take notes, but I never read them.
In junior high school, because the biology teacher was inexplicably good to me, I chose science without hesitation in senior high school. I lost my chemistry exercise book in the third grade, and then the chemistry teacher gave me the exercise book of my classmates who didn't study, and specially said to me, "I stole it for you!" " "If there is a word" kneeling ",I will use it on her. The chemistry teacher in high school is the head teacher of Class Six. Our two classes are sworn enemies. Fighting is common, but the teacher is very responsible and lectures seriously. I like the way the teacher lectures, and I will accept it easily.
I recalled so many teachers, I wonder how they are doing now. I sincerely wish them!
Back to page 46 of the book, when Mr. Hao visited for the first time, his father called, and Hao responded with a slight sneer. I began to learn this sneer. What kind of sneer is it? I learned it many times and finally learned to laugh.
120 page, I feel that "when I dare to make a mistake, I start to be right", and I wonder how much courage it takes. I have been afraid of mistakes and failures until now.
Page 142 "The best thing about teenagers is that they talk about giving up, but they hold their breath in their hearts." I used to be a teenager, but I still am.
On page 144, when Liu Dazhi asked his mother for running shoes, I was really amused by the conversation between the mother and son, and then I thought of poor Liu Dazhi. The conversation between mother and son reminds me that my brother once sent a Weibo, which is also a chat record between mother and son. I asked my aunt if her arm was broken during the college entrance examination, but she replied that she didn't remember. Laughing to death, what is this mother and son (ahahahaha? )
172, in the second paragraph, Master He said that Hao had returned, which made my eyes water. I don't know why, just a little shocked, just tears.
On the page of 18 1, I cried again when I saw the part where Dingdong ate the cake. In fact, children's happiness is really simple.
Page 194 I like this sentence very much: although I can't change the result of a known event, I can change everyone's attitude and view on things. The mentality is more important than the result. My mentality needs to be adjusted.
On page 204, Liu Dazhi handed Chen Xiaowu a piece of sesame seed cake, and then helped Xiaowu soak beans. I was moved by the friendship at that time. It was really naive. I thought that for my cousin, I could play with me as soon as possible and help her shovel the snow in the yard. As a result, my mother scolded me when I got home. My mother stared seriously and said, "I never know how to work at home, so I have been diligent?" Really, the mood at that time dropped to freezing point.
On page 206, in order to attract Hao's attention when he returned to China, he pretended to be sexy. At that time, she burst into laughter, which reminded me of chatting with my deskmate in class when I was a freshman. Two people are laughing at the table, but they still dare not make any noise. They often have stomachaches. After laughing, they had to look back at the two male students in the back seat. They often look at us blankly and see their faces. We looked at each other and then smiled. It is estimated that all the students behind are thinking: It's funny to think about it now, although I forgot the content of the chat at that time, and I don't understand how I often laugh until my stomach hurts. It's like watching a meteor shower on page 233: "After a certain period of life, no one can tell you that it's boring." If one can find some of these things. Bullshit? Dear friends, it should be considered a happy thing. "
2 13 page, Liu Dazhi's sportswear, with Nike outside and Puma inside! Laughing me to death, children are easily satisfied. I feel that the characters in this book are not like high school students, but more like primary school students, especially this paragraph.
2 14 page, feeling "I always thought that being liked by a person should be excellent. In fact, one person's warmth is enough to ignite another person. " Actually, I think so, too, but it is more difficult for me to be "enthusiastic enough" than "excellent" For me, only Excellence can lead to enthusiasm.
On page 308, I saw what Kevin·Z said to Liu Dazhi before he transferred to another school. I don't know why I cried again.
On page 3 12, I looked at Chen Xiaowu and said, "There is nothing Liu Dazhi can do. Good friends are at a low tide, and any comfort seems to be showing off. " It's true. I hope my good friend can be happy when his family relationship is bad, but I don't know what to do, for fear of making things worse.
Page 329 "Some people always want others to be good, so they do things under the guise of being good for others. In fact, in the end, they feel comfortable because of this, all for their own feelings. " I am always afraid of this situation, so I will be at a loss.
On page 364, "The reason why people have a bad life is not that a certain choice has gone wrong, but that a person's personality determines what choice he will make at a critical moment." Personality is very important, as I said before, so is mentality.
There is also a passage in the book saying that Dingdong's father was suspected to have been put in prison, and Dingdong's mother knelt down and begged Chen Tong, which deeply touched me, but I didn't write that page at that time and I couldn't find it. Time is pressing, and the end of the month is coming soon. I was afraid I didn't have time to write my thoughts, so I wrote these in a hurry. Let's do it. I will continue to work overtime now.
Reflections on I Wait for You in the Future
I am waiting for you in the future is the first novel of Liu Tong after the series whose youth is not confused. Each of Liu Tong's novels let me see myself, and also let me find the power to move forward when I am confused. Suddenly I feel that life is beautiful. Thank you for letting me meet such an absent-minded author.
This novel mainly tells the story of a 36-year-old university teacher. Hao's return to life is not satisfactory, and the ending can be seen at a glance. He really wants to go back to his 17 years old, back to that sunny and naive era and start over.
Do you occasionally have the idea of "I wish I could go back to that year"? I feel that back in those days, many things can be changed with our current knowledge and mentality.
By chance, he really went back. However, he had no chance to start over.
He is still 36 years old and has become the head teacher of the internship in senior three. Met 17-year-old self in the class? Liu Dazhi is in chaos. When Hao came back, he knew his future, his happiness and misfortune. He wants to change him. Slowly, he was moved by his 17-year-old self, because he saw himself braver, more loyal, more sincere and more upright. Facing the girl he likes, he is honest with himself and the girl he likes.
He finally realized that it was not how bad he was at the age of 17, but that he learned more compromises when he grew up, lost his courage and enthusiasm for life, lived step by step, and was not fully involved in life, which was too numb.
"After meeting you, I remembered myself. I'm not afraid of your jokes, but I always think it's because you are so bad that I'm so bad now. So all I can think about at first is how to change you. But gradually, I woke up little by little, not how bad you are young, but that I am too numb now. " Finally, I really want to hug you again. Thank you. My age is 17. Thank you, Liu Dazhi. I will wait for you in the future and wait for you in the best way.
This is a reconciliation between Liu Dazhi, 36, and Liu Dazhi, 0/7/kloc. It took a long time, but it was worth it.
Although I am 17 years old, I can vaguely see myself in school uniform, standing on the playground with fists in both hands, silently vowing to get into a book with my classmates. I can vaguely see myself who didn't give up in the last month, but I will never forget that when I first entered high school, I was very playful because of my ignorance. I have always felt that this choice is my favorite self.
However, if I go back to 17 years old, I don't think I will interfere with myself. I just want to tell myself at 17 years old, believe in myself, and you are fine.