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I know a girl, her name is Tian Xiaotian, her name is very sweet, judging from the name, she should be a cheerful, lively and simple girl, of course, in real life Yes, indeed.
She loves to laugh very much. She is indispensable in everything that is funny, and she can also find fun in even things that are not funny. In WeChat chat, every time I say a sentence, I will send a long paragraph of "hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha."
She gives the impression that she has no worries. Even if others complain about her, she can accept it happily. After listening, she will laugh and ask, "Am I so funny?"
It seems that everyone around her has been infected by her, she is careless and doesn't care about trivial matters. People around her are tolerant of her little problems and have even become accustomed to her silly way of bluffing.
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Among those who love to laugh, there are those who are innocent and cute, and there are those who don’t know what to say to express their emotions except laughing.
Seeing that Tian Xiaotian loves to laugh so much, I am sure that her family conditions are very good and her family is very happy.
Her daily routine is different from ours. She also leads a very comfortable life, sleeping until she wakes up naturally every day.
One night, there were just the two of us in the dormitory. There was nothing interesting to watch, so we all went to bed early. We went to bed but couldn't fall asleep.
The two of us started chatting at night.
She talked about her family. She had four brothers and sisters. Her father loved gambling and did not have a serious job. Her grandfather ran away from home and passed away. Her grandmother could not do heavy work at all. The most important person in the family was The source of income is my mother.
I didn’t expect that she, who is so cheerful and doesn’t seem to care about anything, would have such a family situation.
Her family is of modest means, and she cannot change her previous habit of spending money lavishly even if she wants to.
Pretend not to care, as if nothing happened.
I just hope that she can continue to be careless like this. Even if the world responds with pain, I hope she can still go on with a smile.
I asked her, since your family is already like this, why don’t you choose to work hard and rely on your own efforts to support yourself.
She said that she didn’t have any big pursuits. She just hoped to be a teacher after graduation. She didn’t want to make a lot of money. She just wanted to have a stable job after graduation.
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I thought she would continue to live as she imagined. After graduation, she would find a stable job and marry a good man introduced by her elders. That's it. Passed.
But life is so simple, and it is often more difficult to ask for simplicity.
She went to college, and many of her ideas were the same as those of her family. She would quarrel with her parents every time she went home during the holidays. One time during the Chinese New Year, she couldn't bear it anymore, so she bought a ticket to stay with relatives.
Relatives happened to go to visit relatives again. She was bored at home and didn’t know what to do. She happened to meet her classmates to visit the teacher, so she went together.
At the teacher’s house, she was happily making dumplings. She felt that she hadn’t been so happy for a long time, because the teacher kept praising her for making the dumplings beautifully.
Later, when dinner was served, a man in his thirties or forties came to join us for dinner. It turned out that he was a lawyer, and her major was law.
During the meal, she was still in a depressed mood, so she drank two glasses of rice wine!
People in society like to see my sister-in-law Liang drinking. The lawyer thought that this sister-in-law Liang was very angry, so they added each other on WeChat.
Although I added WeChat, no one contacted anyone.
The days are still going on simply day after day.
Suddenly, one day, after she had just finished studying economic law, she received a call from the lawyer, asking her to do something for him.
Then she agreed. After all, idle time was idle, and she would get paid anyway.
In the process of working, she was still clumsy. Halfway through the work, she broke the hard drive of her computer without backing up.
The work of organizing data is not that simple, and she is about to collapse.
Later, in order to complete the work on time, she had to ask a top student to help her work together.
After the work was done, her thoughts changed.
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She never thought that the lawyer would really help her, because no one had given her a thumbs up since she was a child, even though her work efficiency and quality of work were All very poor.
She felt that the lawyer was her best, so she began to help the lawyer do the tedious work that she had to do, and never tired of it.
She started to read some professional books in her major and started to learn something.
Her whole person changed. She got up at six o'clock to memorize vocabulary words, and then went to the library to read.
In fact, there is no such thing as a stable heart, only unsettled restlessness.
05
She joined us and studied with us for the exam.
It was as if she had started a new life style, and such a busy life made her extremely fulfilling.
Yes! Since a stable life is not easy to come by, why not work hard? If you lose, you will not lose anything. If you win, it will be the result of your efforts.
Come on! Xiaotian!