I believe everyone has read this story: a businessman saw a pencil seller in rags, and without thinking about it, he put 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand as a donation. After a few steps, he felt that it was wrong to do so, and quickly came back to apologize to the pencil seller and said that he forgot to take the pen. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are both businessmen like me." Unexpectedly, a year later, in a warm and grand social occasion, a salesman in a suit and tie greeted the businessman and said gratefully, "You may have forgotten me long ago, but I will never forget you. You have made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. "

At first, the businessman in the story regarded the tattered pen salesman as a beggar, but later he found himself wrong, because the salesman was a businessman like himself, but he didn't give others the most basic respect. I think that if the businessman just gave 10 yuan and hurried by, the pen seller might still think that his beggar was no different. However, the businessman's sentence "You are a businessman like me" gave him confidence and unlimited motivation, because the businessman let him know that he is not a beggar, but a businessman, a businessman like him!

In fact, respect is a roll of lubricant, which can "rub" people's hearts and lubricate the relationship between people when people "rub". However, although the word "respect" sounds easy, it is not easy to deal with it with practical actions. Many people think that respecting yourself is nothing more than raising your head, recognizing your own strength, making yourself confident and living a good day with your head held high. In fact, this understanding is all wet. To respect yourself, you must first learn to respect others. The ancients said, "Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others." In fact, "respect" is also the same. The communication between people should be based on sincerity and respect. Only when people respect others can they respect themselves.